Leo Gura

Bro, most hot girls have boyfriends and you will never get them then. Your problem is simply that: A) you don't approach enough, and B) you give a fuck about rejection. Her having a bf is not even a rejection. It's just a logistical obstacle. Next girl!

You can act cute all you want, but in the end you're bullshitting yourself. You have no clue how conscious you can be. What you got now is like the consciousness of an ant.

@assx95 Dude, you're getting lost in Oneitis. Forget about her and move on to hundreds of other, better girls. You are not doing pickup properly by over-investing in this one girl. There is nothing special about her. It's just an illusion. Shake it off and move on. You will never be able to maintain a girl that you're this needy for. She will find you more repulsive than a serial rapist. Lots of women will fall in love with you if you stop this neediness and go build yourself into a strong man. You must go pursue 100s of other women. Do not play this victim game.

We don't know that. Writing stuff ain't the same as embodiment. Beck holds some foolish ideas and his critiques of Wilber are downright delusional. The culture wars are an artificial construct which we can stop perpetuating.

Haha That's some Ralstonian bullshit. There are infinite degrees of consciousness and nobody in Ralston-land, including Brendan, has become remotely conscious of them. And awareness/experience IS consciousness, as if it were not that would result in a substance duality. "Levels" is not the best term for it. "Degrees" is better.

Only for some people. You cannot just assume it works this way for everyone. It doesn't. I've done tests.

He's not strictly Blue. He has higher capacities as well. I think what's really missed by most thinkers is the depth of the economic restructuring that's necessary for a truly stage Green society. They just pretend like neoliberalism is fine. They ignore the deep systemic problems of capitalism which are not being addressed. It's like they think we can have a stage Orange economic system while we skip over Green and move on to Yellow culturally. We'll that's not gonna fly. We need a much more democratic economic system. But this entire point is being obscured by the culture wars. Forget about the culture wars. The real question is: How do we move the economy from Orange to Green? How do we transition the majority of business practices on this planet from Orange to Green? This is what Wilber and the rest are not seriously thinking about. Orange economics and business is not sustainable.

Yes, I've seen it before. This happens because Beck doesn't understand the mysticism which grounds Ken's work. Ken understands the limits of Spiral Dynamics and sought ways to expand upon it. But of course Beck takes this personally because he's devoted his entire life to just Spiral Dynamics. Which is precisely the problem with narrow-minded academia and science. It's too myopic and lost in its models. Beck did some great work, but it is limited and now it's time to go way beyond it. This is the nature of all scientific work. It's only good until you outgrow it. Then it becomes your prison cell.

Don't recall.

@Jordan A You can be a strong leader and don't put women on a pedestal without actually treating them bad or disrespecting them. You need to grow some balls and act more cocky around women. But you will not be abusing them. Make that distinction. Basically the attitude you want to adopt when flirting with women is that you are the king/boss. But you are a benevolent king. Challenge the woman without insulting her. And never bend over backwards for her. Caring for women is not a problem, but you must save that until after she gets attracted to you. You can calibrate this by being 10-20% more of an asshole. Of course you don't want to be 100% of an asshole -- which would actually hurt your results. But 10-20% more should be roughly the sweet-spot. An easy way to implement this is to simply be more authentic about your negative assessments and emotions about her. For example, be brutally honest when you don't like something about her. You could tell her, "I don't like your dress." There probably already are plenty of things you don't like about her, but you don't say them because you are being too nice. Stop doing that. Be more authentic with your negative feelings. Stop trying to only be positive with her. Then you will shed your nice guy image. If you really want to get good at this, you can ask yourself this question while you are flirting with her, "What doesn't please me about her?" Then you might tell her something like, "Your glasses are goofy." Then she will try to please you to re-gain your validation. You have to be careful not to take this too far because it is possible to insult her and blow yourself out. For example, NEVER say negative things about her weight. Unless she is skinny like a toothpick, this will instantly blow you out. You need to find ways of expressing disapproval without being overly mean or insulting.

Consciousness decides everything. Suffering without consciousness will create a irredemable monster. Suffering with consciousness will create a saint.

Existence cannot have any point outside itself.

@Girzo Clare Graves identified himself at stage Blue. None of these theorists are deeply conscious people, which is why you have to be very careful with not holding their models too tightly. A model is just a model. And SD can easily get you into trouble. Ken Wilber is by far the most conscious theorist alive. But even he has his limits. There is a serious lack of people who understand consciousness, spirituality, politics, culture, and economics all at once. This basically does not exist. If you want such understanding you will have to be one of the first humans to ever develop it.

There are thousands of different kinds of mystical states and experiences. You will not be able to predict or easily categorize them. Trying to imagine them or worry about them is a mistake and a distraction. Focus on becoming conscious of what's true in your experience. Do not use the experiences of others as a reference for yourself. You are not them.

Don't think of introspection as merely analysis. Introspection is literally: looking inward. Which is just consciousness. There is no other way. You just need to upgrade your notion introspection to a more holistic one.

Someone's gotta teach you that you're playing with a loaded gun. My lesson to you is far more gentle than when a psychedelic bitch-slaps you. So you're getting off easy here When you don't respect the power of psychedelics, you will get a slappening.

Good. You got it.

We'll be able once the Boomers are gone.

We ain't moving on to Green till all these Boomers die off (from natural causes).

Omg, Don Beck is cringe. Just goes to show that SD can be misused in the hands of a Boomer. I like that Trump is the perfect litmus test to seperate the truly conscious from the unconscious. Similar to how Hitler was a litmus test to seperate the truly good intelletuals, like Einstein, from the hacks and confromists. It's not enough to know SD, the key is to consciously apply it with proper interpretations of the situation and awareness of one's self-biases. Even people like Ken Wilber misapply SD and misunderstand stage Green. When it comes to Green economics, virtually no Boomer gets it. It's like they are blinded by a lifetime of neoliberal propaganda from which they have benefited. The idea that Trump is good for America is laughable. The only thing he's good for is exposing how dumb half the country is and how fragile our institutions are. Republicans and GOP have no answers. They are totally corrupt, ignorant, and morally bankrupt. They have no interest in good government. As Noam Chomsky correctly says, the Republican party is the most dangerous group of people in the world. Furture generations will laugh in disbelief at how dumb the entire American right-wing was. And even people like Don Beck and Ken Wilber will be seen to be mistaken.

@Psychedelic seeker You are putting the cart before the horse. Do it first. Then ask your questions, if they still make sense.

Mackey knows SD apparently, but he's still so baised about capitalism. Economically he's neoliberal. Again, his job depends on him not understanding the problems with capitalism.

You don't need it. Animals do fine without flouride. So do humans.

@Enlightenment We are talking about acne.

@blankisomeone Then go follow a Zen teacher who will tell you nothing, as you want. My style is deliberately not Zen.