Leo Gura

It wasn't because you didn't kiss her. It just seems like you two lacked chemistry and she didn't find you that attractive. Sometimes that happens and there's not much you can do. You will not resonate with all girls. There needs to be a certain level of chemistry and you can't always make it work. Hooking girls usually requires emotional conversation. So the better you get at emotionally stimulating convo the better your odds will be. But still never 100%. Don't beat yourself up. It's not always your fault. Some dates just turn out to be duds. If she says she's busy after a date, take that to mean she lost attraction. She is just giving you easy excuses. Girls love to do that.

It requires a lot of practice.

I far prefer direct. But getting good at indirect is actually more effective in more situations. It's really effective to start indirect and then convert that into direct, because it is less threatening.

Of course. Namaste

Balls and leadership, basically.

Beautiful responses. Keep 'em coming.

This Although my work is not passive.

Don't forget, something like 20%-40% of America is like this. Explains a lot.

I am how I am. My style is my style. Every style will have its pros and cons.

You are expecting too much. He has no idea you are interested in him romantically. You're not seeing this from his POV. You judge him too soon on such superficial stuff. First flirt with him, THEN see how much he cares about you. You will still have plenty of time to figure out his willingness to invest in you. You have nothing to lose by flirting with him, but you could potentially gain a boyfriend. This risk-reward scenario is a no-brainer. If you want something in life you have to go after it, not sit around hoping for it to come to you. YES! -- even if you're a girl. That's not a valid excuse. The only thing you got to lose here is some ego.

Depends on what kind you're talking about. A bit. Of course if someone was poking me with a stick all day I would get more angry. I designed my life so I don't have to put up with anyone's bullshit much.

It was one of the few times in the least 5 years that I got angry. I can count the number of times I get angry on one hand.

Omg girl, you are way overthinking this. Stop worrying and just flirt with him. It will make him feel flattered.

I still experience fear and anger sometimes. Fear moreso than anger. It takes A LOT to anger me but it might happen once every few years. They have helped me with emtional mastery by making me more loving and conscious. I actually feel emotions more deeply now, both up and down. I am more sensitive. There is also more desire in me to feel emotions more deeply. Emotions take on a spiritual dimension.

I can see it working. Eye contact and vibe is at least 50% of game. The silent opener is more of an advanced technique. Requires really calibration and groundedness or it comes off creepy.

Your lead is so weak he might just see you as being friendly and nothing more. If you want to do this you must actually flirt with him. Stop being afraid of rejection. How do you think us guys feel? We deal with that bullshit all the time. It's okay, you'll live. You must indicate some romantic intent. An ex-gf of mine initiated on me with the line: "I would go home with you." It was very effective on me.

It's useful in helping to understand your personality better, to understand your strengths and weaknesses and why your mind works the way it does.

Realistically you will probably lose a lot of girls this way. It's pretty weird to stop someone who's walking and then stay silent. But on some girls is may work.

Your location is the #1 factor in game. There is no game if there are no girls. So move to where the girls are. The real solution here is to work on your career such that you can easily afford to live wherever you want. Make that your meta-goal. It is nearly impossible to become good at game while stuck in a small town. There just aren't enough girls. You will be in deep scarcity and you will not have enough practice opportunities.

Not sure. Working in it.

Day game is only effective in certain cities and areas. There usually just aren't enough girls out during the day to make it effective for building your skill. Night game is what you need to build skill.

The way you master filmmaking is by making one film at a time. However, the difference is that with the mastery mindset you're not placing your hopes into any one film succeeding, you're rather focused on the process of making each film. Focus on the technical aspects of the filmmaking process and reframe all your mistakes as getting you closer and closer to mastering filmmaking. Your goal is not to make one film. Your goal is to become a master filmmaker by making one film at a time. See the difference?

Obviously If you never compromise on anything you are basically too selfish and immature to be in any kind of healthy long-term relationship with anyone. My philosophy is: be alpha but treat your woman really well as long as she is deeply invested in you. And aim to maximize intimacy. This will give you a great mix of both player and provider traits that women will find irresistible. She wants a player who will invest in her. Lead her into deep intimacy.

You can just explicitly hit on girls as long as you're in a location where it is socially acceptable. For example, you can just say, "Omg, you are sexy as fuck, girl." But you have to say it in a non-needy and matter-of-fact way, and you cannot just leave it there to hang, you must splice it into the middle of a conversation and quickly move on with the rest of the conversation. You must say it as an aside. Like you could be talking to her about her dogs, and in the middle of that you put your hand on her shoulder and say, "Omg, you are sexy as fuck, girl", and continue talking about her dogs as though you didn't even just hit on her. This requires some tact and skill to pull off, but it works really well once you master it. This skill lets you turn social interactions into romantic ones while still maintaining an air of "just being social". Really, the most effective way to get girls is using the "just being social" method, but sprinkling in intent and flirtation. This way you slip past the defenses and you can even do it in front of her friends without triggering their defenses. You can even do this in front of her mom and it will work. The "just being social" frame buys you A LOT of leeway and good will. The trick here is to not fall into the friendzone. So you have to maintain sexual intent without being explicit about it.

@SamC Watch Mike's in-field videos: https://www.pickupalpha.com/video/ This is the most realistic presentation of how night game and club game works.