Leo Gura

Vegas metroplex is ~2 million. What matters is the population of the metroplex, not the city. But also, Vegas is very unlike other cities because of it's hardcore, 24/7 nightlife culture and 42.5 million visitors per year. It's not just the raw population that matters. It's the culture, the age-range, male/female ratio, etc. For example, Dallas-Fort Worth is a HUGE metroplex, but the nightlife is sucky. Austin has much smaller metroplex population but amazing nightlife. Don't be fooled by raw numbers.

Too small

You aren't dating a model. It's just a scam.

I never said you had to date multiple girls at once. One iw fine. But realize that you will get attached and needy with her and this will cost you hot girls. The hottest girls are attracted to the most detached guys. And realistically the only way you can become that detached is by sleeping with so many hot girls that none of them matter to you. It's really hard to just attract one hot girl and call it a day and keep her. Realistically the only way you will be able to keep her is if you've slept with even hotter girls in the past, and plenty of them, to the point where you are not clingy with her and her hotness doesn't make you go crazy. Even if you get super lucky and land a model, you will quickly lose her because you don't have enough masculine groundedness to be the solid man she needs you to be for her. If only it were so easy.

Girls sleep with older guys all the time. If she wants it she's an adult.

Except here's the thing: if a guy can't sexually satisfy his woman, none of that matters because she will end up cheating or leaving for another guy. All those are logical points but the bottom line is that you want a deep and proper fucking. Logic will not prevail here. If a guy can't give that to you, it's not gonna work out even if everything else is textbook great. What's sad is that this dude doesn't understand this.

Sex doesn't have to be. But it usually is. And the blind pursuit of it is. Most people have sex on a low material level.

Most of the mainstream business role-models will be Orange.

Yes, which is why the pickup community is more conscious than the incel community. The incel community is radioactively toxic.

It's gonna keep having that reputation for the foreseeable future. The pursuit of sex is a not a high consciousness activity. Surprise, surprise! The community is toxic in many ways. Which is why normies demonize it.

I know a lot of RSD insiders so I hear things through the grapevine that is not publicly known. Then again, rumors and gossip also exists. But I consider that statement accurate. I don't like to engage in gossip, but this thread was specifically about Owen's usual relationship to drugs, so... For myself I had to make sense of his views on drugs, and this is the sense I made.

The selfishness is in the fact that you said he wouldn't be open to learning about how to make you cum, to not invest time in that. He should be eager to invest time in that. Why hasn't he been using his fingers to make you cum? This is just negligence. The deeper problem here is that it doesn't sound like he's interested in investing energy into growing the relationship. This is a deal-breaker.

So the answer here is very simple: Either he gets interested in making you cum on the regular, or you break up with him. You're not breaking up with him because of his dick. You're breaking up with him because he isn't interested in making you cum. Which is a very valid reason to break up with a guy. Why would you want date such a guy? That's not something you can just overlook. That's not some minor, superficial thing. He's being too selfish.

It's likely going to be exploitative because of the power differential. A 30+ year old man has enough life experience to manipulate the shit out of 21 year old girl in a relationship. If a 30+ year old were to date a 21 year old, he would have to have very high integrity not to manipulate her. But most PUAs are manipulative and low-integrity people, so it's gonna lead to exploitation.

I don't think guys pursue young girls for the sake of being predatory. They are just immature themselves which results in predatory-looking behavior. They are just thinking purely with their dicks.

You can meet some really cool girls personality-wise in the 25-30 range. But if you're a guy over 35 and your goal is 21 year old's... yeah.... that shows immaturity on your part. You're basically a man-child. I've talked to A LOT of 21 year olds and they leave much to be desired personality-wise, hot as they are. If I see a hot girl who I like and I find out she's 21, I'm like, "Damn, this sucks. I would rather you were older."

Let's see celebrities stick to that rule first. You can definitely date way younger girls. But if she's under 24 and you're over 30, that shows that you're not selecting wisely. Girls under 24 tend to be mentally and emotionally immature and not really worth dating, only for sex. Which becomes exploitative and toxic. 25-35 is still very hot. But you get the added benefit of mental and emotional maturity. Which is totally worth it.

@tashadwoodfall I'm guessing what you really want is not a big dick, but for him to deeply satisfy you in bed. A big dick is not necessary for that. How many times does he make you cum per session? Zero? Then that's the problem, not the dick. Lasting longer is something that he can develop. He can also employ other methods to make you cum deeper. The physical size is not what makes you cum hard. A guy who knows what he's doing can make you cum deeper via text messages than you ever came from a big dick. The mind is what makes you cum, not the dick. It sounds like you just need to communicate to him that you're not feeling fully satisfied sexually and you want to explore WITH HIM deeper ways of satisfying you. Encourage him to learn how to satisfy you better in bed. There are so many ways. You can suggest methods, books, courses, videos, toys, tantric techniques, etc. Also you need to be explicit with him about what makes you cum hard. So he understands your needs. Be specific with him. Of course you can also tell him that you want to work on satisfying him deeper in bed too. He will like that part.

Realistically, for most people, not a chance in hell.

Treating women like disposable objects and basing your life around that. It's classic foolishness.

Seems like the NewsWeek expose destroyed him: https://www.newsweek.com/pick-artist-sold-sex-audios-targeted-teen-girls-using-major-tech-firms-1648461

That actually demonstrates skillful means.

Arnold did not con his way into success. The dude is a workhorse. I have read various bios of him.

Big con-man vibes from him. He is gaming guys more than he is gaming girls. The grift is to sell guys on the player lifestyle -- which is faked.

Yeah, DMT is on another level. The more you trip the easier it becomes to handle deep trips. Of course it will be shocking a first. Yes, of course. Most of my deep trips these days are super blissful and just pure love. It took a lot of work to reach that point. You get use to the scariness. That's the whole trick. There's not a good answer other than doing lots of spiritual work. Just lower your dose. There will always be a dose at which you can freak yourself out. So take less. It's not going to be as sharp as vaped DMT, more smooth and drawn out. Just the rapid onset of vaped DMT can be terrifying if you take a big dose. LOWER YOUR DOSE and continue tripping.