Leo Gura

It is not so unreasonable for people to try to bum-rush an apparent active shooter. This is the problem with open-carry when we have active shooter situations every week around the country. If it was up to me, I would design the laws so that if a civilian was seen carrying a firearm in a public setting, police would shoot him on the spot. If a civilian is going to transport a firearm it should be in a locked container. Civilians should not be allowed to walk public streets with rifles. This is ridiculous from a security perspective.

I hate you

But that's just a slight variation on jerking off.

I wouldn't count on it healing your brain. You'd be lucky if it just had a net-zero affect on your health. Something as powerful as DMT having no negative health effects would be a miracle in itself. Remember, your DMT is not 100% pure.

You might be surprised to learn that your Coral has no one to date because all the girls are at the club looking for fun. The dumber you are the easier dating is.

Firstly, it tends to improve simply from going out a lot and talking to girls a lot. Secondly, through building state by approaching all night long. Thirdly, by having fun wings to shit-talk with between sets. Fourthly, by soaking in the club music and atmosphere. Dancing, etc. Fifthly, by brainstorming funny and emotional things to talk about when you're at home. Sixthly, by listening to in-field of night game where the guy is being self-amusing. Analyze how he is being emotional rather than logic. This is key.

Your vibe is off and she feels uncomfortable talking to you. You are probably way too logical, boring, or you can't even hold a conversation. Or you are just uncomfortable in your own body while you stand face to face with her. You are being too socially awkward and you are not creating a fun conversation with her. The solution is be in a better mood/state, be having fun, be comfortable in your body, relax, and have something emotional not logical to talk about. If you run out of shit to say very early in, then of course this will cause most girls to flee just to avoid the awkward silence of you staring at her like a serial killer. If the club is super loud and chaotic, then physical fast can work well. But if you're in a more chill club where girls are just standing around in a circle together and conversation is possible, then you're better off just approaching with verbals only and playing it more chill. You have to match the vibe of the room and the people you're opening.

Of course friends will cockblock you A LOT. You can especially trigger the cockblock by opening physical. If you want the highest chance of success you should learn very solid verbal skills and open less directly, and then also befriend her friends to disarm them. If you just go in hitting hard on a girl in a group, her friend's will usually get alarmed and go into defense mode. In a sense, the most effective game is so subtle and indirect that it slips under the radar, so it looks like just friendly socialization to on-lookers. But it still has that sexual intent behind it between you and her. This kind of game is really challenging to learn in my experience. It takes serious skill. The more you physically escalate in front of all her friends, the more defensive they will usually become. This is the biggest downside of physical game. But of course you can still get away with it in many cases. I have opened girls right in the middle of all her friends and starting grabbing her tits and making out with her within minutes in front of all her friends. It's not the best way to go, but it can certainly work. Sometimes the friends will actually want you to get with her. Some friends are very cool. But some friends will fight you. So watch out. It might also be your vibe. If you have a creepy, awkward vibe then girls will sense it and flee. You have to be smiling a lot, having fun, and adding value to the set. If you enter a set trying to leech value from them, they will not like it and blow you out.

But you're not taking into account that Actualized.org was only possible because I did a lot of manipulation within business & marketing for years beforehand. If I hadn't done that then Actualized.org wouldn't exist. So while it might seem like Leo is above petty business concerns, that's only thanks to the fact that I became financially independent early on through hardcore manipulation. Leo is not above survival. The only difference is that I converted base survival into something higher. And even to this day, I have to care about dumb, petty business concerns because Actualized.org could die as a business any year. Business is a survival activity. It's not so easy. The less I focus on the survival aspect of Actualized.org the less money I earn. I've literally given up millions in potential profits in order to focus more on truth & consciousness. Doing so is not easy. But I'm not interested in such circles. Yes, of course. If I wanted to maximize my truth and consciousness I would not have sex or date at all. And if I wanted to maximize truth and consciousness I would not run a business at all. I would go live in a cave and stop teaching anyone. And maybe some day I will just do that. And then no one will have anything to complain about. To engage in survival is to stoop to a lower level. The trick is finding the right level to stoop to. I have already given up a lot of sex in order to create Actualized.org. However, I have my limits to how much I am willing to give up. In a sense, the amount of sex I gave up to create Actualized.org has left me a bit traumatized.

Well, friends often just grow apart or drop away due to higher priorities elsewhere. Sustaining a deep friendship usually requires constant maintainence work.

It's interesting to read my own words from years ago. I was reacting to a lot of toxic stuff I saw within RSD at the time. Admittedly, it's very tricky balancing between the dysfunctions men run into when they can't get laid vs the dysfunctions of being stuck in stage Orange. I do see pickup as serving a need in men, but it comes with the cost of trapping men in a stage Orange level of development. The thing is, the craving for sex has a way of warping one's entire worldview. And I am not immune to that dynamic. I have realized lately that part of my evolution and self-love involves fulfilling some of those base cravings rather than denying them. The trick is to not get lost in that. It's easy to create rationalizations for pickup and rationalizations against it. From the man's POV, there is a problem that most women are not turned on by high consciousness behavior, there if one wants to attract attractive women one is forced to stoop to a lower level that causes the women to get raw attraction. It's a similar problem to selling high consciousness things to the general population. The general population won't buy it and you might go broke. So there is a very challenging trade-off between sex vs consciousness.

Seems like this is just a tool for inventing more and better drugs

I want his costume!

Tis difficult to live without jerking off either

No girl loves you unless she is sleeping with you. Except maybe your mother or sister. You got major friendzoned. Were you expecting it to get romantic? If so, it failed because you were too needy and soft with her. For a girl to sleep with you she needs to feel like you challenge and dominate her. To be less needy you have to be socializing and flirting with lots of girls on a regular basis so you don't hinge your hopes on any one of them. Then from that situation you can pull a girlfriend. And as you get with more girls you will become less needy. You just need to be around a lot more girls. You're stuck in deep scarcity which makes you extremely needy and repulsive to women. The thing women hate most is neediness and creepiness. You need to change your lifestyle such that more women flow through your life on a regular basis.

Of course your first approaches will be awful. Dude, the embarrassment is all in your head. She forgot about you 60 seconds after you left and on one else knows. She will never think of you again. This line/frame is too needy and clingy. A better frame would be: "Good, you can dance for me." Or if this was a nighttime conversation you could make it more sexual and flirty by saying something like: "I hope at least 1 of those years they taught you how to give a good lap dance ;)" And rather then telling her she must be really good, you flip it around and say, "You must really suck then". Just think of communicating with girls as opposite-land. Everything is the opposite of what it seems. Often times saying the opposite of your gut instinct is the best move. If she tells you she's a dancer, take the opportunity to misinterpret that she is a stripper and tease her on it. And when she says, "I'm not a stripper!" you could tell her something like, "I will teach you and then your dancing will pay for our mortgage ;)" You have to learn to flirt. - - - - - But don't worry about it. For a first approach you did fine. Learning to flirt will take 1000s of approaches.

1) Even guys with the best game in the world lose girls ALL the time. Game does not gaurantee you results with any specific girl, it just raises your odds. 2) Most girls will flake on you even if you build attraction and rapport. Simply because she has zero investment in you until sex. This is expected. 3) The fact is your game still probably sucks and so the attraction you built wasn't as great as you might imagine. There are MANY degrees of attraction. Your attraction was probably luke-warm. 4) It's simply possible that after getting to know you (via rapport) she found that you weren't a good fit for her. This can also happen. You're not going to fit every girl. 5) Stop investing so much hope into any one girl. You will lose girls by the dozen so get used to it and stop caring about it. Go talk to more girls who are down. 6) Girls are so flaky and fickle that they will flake you even after dates. Which is why closing is so important. You have to really grasp that a girl has nearly zero investment in you until sex. Their moods will change, their lives are chaotic, they have no idea what they want, obstacles arise, etc.

It's funny that no one who was abducted by aliens ever reports them wearing fancy watches or other bling.

Destroying property is illegal and people are sentenced and fined for that if caught. Rightly so. Doesn't matter if they are progressives. Also, many rioters are not progressives, rather they are venting their anger or exploiting a situation. There is not a rioting culture.

Well, that's said tongue-in-cheek and what it really means is: you're having sex with yourself.

5-MeO-MIPT is amazingly erotic.

It's easy to be celibate when you're so hairy chicks can't even find your dick

You will find them, but it's not solid game. You should be capable of handling groups too.

Get used to approaching girls in groups. Girls are mostly found in a herd. You can't rely on solo sets. There's never enough of them. A large group can paradoxically be easier because the rest of the girls can entertain themselves and may not even notice you pulling one girl away. Soloing 2-sets tends to be the hardest.

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