Leo Gura

That's nuts!

It's still leeching. You want sex for swiping. Just think of how absurd that is.

@Gili Trawangan Of course. So get good at marketing.

Space ducks confirmed!

Value for others, obviously. Don't get too metaphysical and relativistic here. If no one is willing to pay for your music, then your music is of such poor quality is offers the world little value.

Absolutely not. People creating or joining Discords will be banned. I am not moderating that nonsense.

Wisdom is not truth? False Truth is not beauty? False Beauty is not love? False Love is not music? False Music is best? False Man... this dude got a lot of stuff wrong

You are not infinitely conscious right now. So spare me the neo-Advaita platitudes. Notice that you are definitely not infinitely consciousness. At least admit it to yourself if not to me.

You can always get matches. It's always a function of quality. I absolutely will make that assumption. Don't bullshit us. Sex is all about maximizing survival value. You will only have sex with those people who match your minimum desired level of quality. That means you will have to work even harder to get laid. What are you not understanding is that sexual value is a finite resource. If you want it, you will have to compete for it. Competition requires standing out from everyone else. Tinder does not allow you to do that unless you are exceptionally physically attractive. When you expect lots of sexual value for a few button clicks, just like every other fool, you end up getting nothing. Tinder's entire business model is to monetize lazy fools who want to leech sexual value. Tinder is basically a get-rich-quick-scheme trap with sex as the bait. It is like those rigged ring-toss games at the carnival. It's made for suckers. Tinder has fooled you into thinking that is the proper way to find a quality mate. Which of course is the opposite of what's true.

Still leeching when you expecr quality sex from clicking some buttons. This values sex too low. Sex is worth way more than that.

It's possible. But will you do it? You are like a 400lb guy who lived his whole life on the couch in his mother's basement asking if it's possible to climb Mt Everest without using a jetpack. For lazy folk like you we recommend jetpack

@Nercohype You can still study history and learn cool stuff. Just understand its limits. Yogis say there is an Akashic Record where you can supposedly access past and future information. But I not found such a thing as yet.

No one deserves anything. You will get whatever you work and fight for. And even then, you might get a bullet to the head or brain cancer. Welcome to life. No one deserves hot girls, and most people will not get them by definition -- because of how you define hotness.

The deepest awakening is Infinite Love. If you got it, it would kill you and there's be nothing left but Love forever. This Love would love itself forever without any problems. The human you would be so dead you could not even remember it or miss it. It would literally be Heaven, precisely because you would be gone. But before you go worrying about all this, how about you lock down a tiny shallow awakening? Don't waste your time on pipe dreams.

You can't. Best to focus your energy on realizing that the past is dream. If you want to study archeology as a hobby or career, by all means. But don't fool yourself that you're doing much more than speculating and doing guesswork that you will probably never be able to verify. There a ton of stuff about the material world that you will never know. In fact, an infinite amount it.

"I'm too wise to know everything"

@Phyllis Wagner Like I told you guys before, if you don't have above average looks, you should not be wasting your time with online dating at all. It will not work. Not amount of editing your photos will suffice. You will just make yourself depressed. Change your strategy to real-life game. You know -- the way humans have done for 400,000 years. And stop using covid as an excuse. Covid will pass, life will go on. The best girls are not found on Tinder. You want hot girls? Work for it! You will instantly feel much better as soon as you start doing serious work rather than clicking buttons and praying for luck.

First of all, you enjoy suffering on some level, otherwise you'd stop doing it. Secondly, you are terrified of death, so you cling to life. You could kill yourself any day if you didn't want to suffer. But you like life. You like playing games in the dream. You like dreaming. Waking up is bad from the ego's perspective. The ego-you is caught in an existential bind: on the one hand you hate suffering, on the other hand your ego is the cause of all suffering, but you love the ego so much you would never dare to abandon it. Hence you are stuck suffering in a dream but too terrified to awaken from the dream. You are in the same situation as a heroin addict. You just can't give up that selfishness. You are addicted to selfishness. And that causes all suffering. Calm down, find a spiritual practice, and do it rigorously every day. Don't get lost in some nihilist philosophy -- that's just more BS, more ego. Psychedelics speed all this up A LOT. If you dare.

Nope But if you expect high sexual value while offering none in return, guess what that makes you? A leech. And leeches tend to get killed. The more sexual value you want, the harder you're gonna have to work for it. If you are too lazy to work hard, then settle for way less. Sex is not some carebear child's game. It's a sexual marketplace where the stakes are life and death. When you deny this reality, you get bad results and suffering.

Hehe, what do you expect? Welcome to the sexual marketplace. It's a bit of a rude awakening. You come to Tinder hoping to leech sexual value, and instead Tinder leeches your wallet. To get sexual value you gonna have to work for it, not just click a few buttons on your phone. Success in online game requires huge numbers. 1000+ girls. You basically need an automated macro system to milk that thing proper.

@Frenk The harsh truth is that you are God cosplaying as a fool It actually takes infinite wisdom to act as dumb as you are

Yeah, but you gotta try smart. Don't keep doing the same shit robotically over and over again. Adapt. Think outside the box. Figure out why it wasn't working and learn from your mistakes. Failure is only a problem if you don't learn and adapt from it.

Ken Willburg

I highly doubt the Buddha used any technique similar to today's Vipassana. He almost certainly wasn't sitting there doing See, Hear, Feel or some Goenka body scanning.

Oh, I don't know about that. Takes some people decades just to acknowledge their own foolishness That first half can be pretty rough. And there are many degrees of depth to realizing one's foolishness. It's not a thing you do merely once. You will realize it deeper and deeper if you're seriously growing. Every year I realize how big of a fool I've been. And I've been doing that for a decade