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“We have forgotten the age-old fact that God speaks chiefly through dreams and visions.” -Carl Jung
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The issue is when you behave in a healthy and mature way with a bunch of immature kids, it will feel too weird and foreign to them. And most adults are just kids.
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I like what youve done with the place. Very organized, logical and clear to follow. Amazing advice and insights too! So much wisdom compression tranverse planes in lower dimensions. Easy to explain. You are right, Chris Langhan is dense. I feel like you would benefit from psychedillics though.
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@zazen I think you're being a bit biased and using the good sides to takeaway from the damage and harm it's caused.
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A fight is just conflict, and conflict happens when you need to settle boundaries over finite resources or for fun, broadly speaking. If there's no room for negotiation or negation you can only resolve conflict through violence, but that's extremely rarely ever the case in modern life for individuals.
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You gotta reverse engineer your goals but the simplest way to get started is by hosting your first container event. There are different types but a group dinner is the easiest format. Do it 2-3 weeks from now and invite all your friends and all the girls that you know or cold approach until then. Goal is to have ideally 8-12 people and for it to feel like an event not 4 people having dinner. The real idea is to play 10-20 events down the line what you want to accomplish. A monthly group dinner cool if you can get that going you'll have perhaps turned acquaintances into more of a friend circle type of dynamic. I do creative events so part of my container events is photoshoots, podcasts and open mics so that after 10-20 events I've built up a library of content and a full on branded community. That's how I created the creatives pages and group chats(each have 250 people) in Calgary and Toronto. https://www.instagram.com/calgary_creatives/ https://www.instagram.com/creatives_toronto/ You can do it in other niches like do a run club or a volleyball team for sports or more of a corporate type if that's more your interest. The idea is that you are creating an entity outside of you(the social circle) that also acts as a net for people in your life so you're not just a cold approach and dates kind of guy but you have a community and group that's part of your life. Depending on your life purpose and current resources you can take it different ways. Like you see I like to brand mine and scale it as I feel like it has infinite potential this way and I can create a global community out of it when I expand to the US and Europe soon. I hosted my first fashion show last year based on this idea, it was one of the most fun projects I've tried in my life so far. You can also make it more of a local hangout type of thing where you just have men and women that fit your personality and that you hangout with as a new friend circle that you created from thin air. A lot of things that we enjoy this life fit this model. Actualized.org is an online community that was distributed through a Youtube Channel. RSD was a business ecosystem that was marketed originally through local inner city group chats and free events. Dan Bilzerian hired a videographer to film his events and turn him from a dude wasting money spending cash throwing events to a global celebrity. The idea is to use leverage in your dating and social life and combine it with your business and career goals. Notice most dating coaches don't have a day job they film themselves talking to girls or talking to a camera teaching guys how to do it then they travel the world and date girls full time. Some of them do it through a social circle format but the core thing to remember and flesh out for your own personal life is leveraging your time. Getting more than 1 unit of value for 1 unit of time that you invest in your dating/social life. If you cold approach for 10 hours idk maybe you get a laid a few times if you're good but probably you just walk around the street and get a few instagrams. If you host events and shoot content then you meet the same if not more girls and build your social circle and build your media at the same time. This is how I created the The Dining Club page, I was hired to build this guy's personal brand while he was gonna renovate a marina in a small town and it turns out his main interest was really meeting hot girls so we started throwing group dinners and I filmed them and built a page around it to get social proof to get more and more girls and I ended up selling him the page and I pivoted to the creative events because they're free to host instead of spending money on the dinners. https://www.instagram.com/thedining.club This model will let you hangout with girls in a way that is win-win for the both of you without having to make it all about dating and sex. I like it because I tried making female friends the "normal way" and just inviting co-workers to lunch and I felt like I was stuck talking to them about random gossip in both our lives and wasting money on eating out all the time but since I've started doing it this way I feel like I'm making way deeper bonds that actually relate to the goals that me and these women have instead of just randomly having worked at a store together one time and now trying to keep a friendship going based off of that.
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Gender non-conformity is conformity
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@Davino For its for spiritual nourishment and deepening my connection to God. The heart knows when it’s nourished.
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Xonas Pitfall replied to Hyperion's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Correct. But here, that's the key distinction between paradox and contradiction. Once you enter the non-dual “space,” there’s no such thing as contradiction or paradox. It’s all just Isness, truth. -
@Zenterus Hey, the guidelines say you can’t be posting high while on here you naughty boy
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I’m also getting flashbacks from Leo saying, “NO ONE IS AS AWAKE AS I AM! NO ONE! NO ONE!” Of course. People rape, kill, and pillage for their nation, tribe, clan, religion, or identity. People strap bombs to themselves for their god. People sacrifice their lives for their ideology, die defending their homeland, and dedicate their entire lives to spreading their religion or worldview. I think people were adding nuance to the concept of “love.“ Exactly. A group’s cohesion doesn’t necessarily prove that its members love or even fully believe in everything the group represents. For example, an oligarch might not genuinely love every aspect of an oligarchic system. But they can still strongly defend it because the system protects their wealth and status. A person might have serious doubts or dislike certain parts of their own tradition, but changing or abandoning the larger system can feel much more threatening than tolerating its contradictions. Usually, the more corrupt, biased, self-preserving, and unquestioning the system is, the more appealing it can become to the ego when the ego benefits from it. Even if you occasionally question whether it’s true, if the system gives you more status, security, power, or self-preservation, you will still be pulled toward it. The ideologies that offer the strongest ego incentives can become the ones that survive and reproduce most effectively. A culture with enough psychopaths in power can force its way into existence. The stricter the rules, the more coercion you can use to preserve them. An abusive father can beat his wife and children to keep the family hierarchy intact. A regime can brainwash children until they’re willing to strap a bomb to their chest for it. That’s why you get Elon Musk, who was initially more progressive, against Trump, becoming incredibly supportive of conservatives and Trump, funding his election campaign, and buying Twitter. Do you think it’s because he deeply LOVES conservative values, or because he benefits from tax-avoidance and asset-protection policies being implemented? Is it really “love” for the culture? That’s why you get Somalis crying when the age of consent is raised: https://www.instagram.com/reels/DPdQUspCF7f/; or when minorities are given more rights, etc. Do they really love their culture so deeply that they’re devastated when it changes, or do they realize they’re losing the “goodies” that the system gave them? Is it culture, or just the fact that the culture aligns more with the incentives of the ego?
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I get so many good inquiries with GPT, for things that are non-obvious via GPT, also vaping helps me currently to keep away the alcohol, as it favours alcoholism, and alcoholic parents in my chart, via BaZi which was and is very true, and I dealt with this during my masters studies idk, why this came-up, but limiting alcohol to mostly beer, if at all was also a good tip, I enjoy it at times to much, and I am very athletic, but my body just requires a lot of healthy ressources then. I can't test all of this, but a lot of tech still misses, a lot of good technical descriptions in order for people to logically figure out problems, I moved myself into a position, but creating a company was just neccessary and more neccessary, not only pumping knowledge for a company, I felt my integrity was hindred partially, as they yearn to form identity, like pedophiles grooming kids, not letting themselves unfold their own identity and giving tools for exploration, just fucking up the IW archetype was the worst decision they could've made, there are so many lies in this economy.
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The biggest hurdle has been for me normalising something that isn´t normally done. It isn´t common for people to talk to others, even saying hi, good day, or give a simple compliment, this is not normal for people in big cities like Amsterdam. I would almost say smaller cities or villages are much more social. I was visiting a smaller city and talked to this elderly woman for 30 mins a few days ago and she said hi to every person that came by. Then she told me `I don´t care if they don´t say hi back, that is also okay` I loved that mindset, she was a confident talkative lady hehe and I think that like, why isn´t that normal? We are so conditioned to not be social, like even having a small talk with someone seems very rare for people. We are all so busy with our own life, the only genuine place of socialising might be around night time where you go to a club or something, but even there I rarely see guys approach or they are just drunk and approach in this drunk state. It is literally so niche what I do, that sometimes it can feel like you're the only weirdo doing this. Which makes you get more in your head of course. I think that is the path when you are doing something on a higher level. If you want to evolve, you will realise how little evolved most people are. You will realise the group think where it should be "normal" that no one talks to no one and minds their own business, which is so depressing. I am being vunerable here, these are my honest thoughts and this is how I have been feeling. On the other side, there is 0 competition, because no one is talking to others, NO ONE is talking to others, it is literally depressing, but true. I am a bit sad for the world, I feel a bit of a calling to help people become social again, as this is also where allot of our issues are, we are socially isolated, and have little empathy, we are no longer social creatures like in tribes where we used to dance and sing and have connection with eachother, now it is your friends and family against the rest of the world, which is so isolating. Why can't we all be a bit more social? Why do I have to be the only weirdo approaching others and making small talk? Why isn't this learned in high school? Why are we conditioned to be so focused on ourselves instead of bringing value to others? These are some really deep questions I am thinking about now, this goes much deeper then just PUA, this is like programming of our minds by society. Is it to make us feel insecure and compensate with other means? Like makeup, working out, alcohol etc? To make money? Is it a plan to make us feel insecure? So many questions. I just had to share this, this has been weighing heavy on my heart for a bit. on a side note I have been lucky lately to find my tribe of like minded idiots who I go approach with and making me feel more normal, thanks to Owens free tour <3
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@LordFall Im high as fuck right now an I'm open to hearing more. What would you recommend as a first step for me to get that process going?
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Everything Terence McKenna said about the DMT experience is spot on. It's basically a friendly jester that likes to play rough. This can be easily misinterpreted as malice at first.
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@Leo Gura saw one of the blog videos on Lenin, and the first part was enlightning, but hillsdale college yuck. Had to stop after they guy said welfarism was one of the greatest evils of Lenin. The only thing that is needed to know about american conservatives is that there is no moral, only personal gain, all their believes goes back to this.
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I am deliciously counter-intuitive.
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@Thought Art In every religion go to the mystics and you shall find the song leading you to God. Although, beware, for many have been lost in the path, for Gold is not everything that shines and many claim the treasure for themselves.
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There is a cultivation of the heart in Islam. I’m not saying be a Muslim. But, I suggest you could be a treasure seeker to all the worlds knowledge. Have you felt the ecstatic heart of Islam?
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American Conservatives don’t even LOVE their culture. They won’t die for America, they will exploit and engage in corruptive means to get others to die for America. Look at Trump. He does not LOVE America. MAGA does NOT LOVE USA. They love only what benefits them. Leftists care more about culture and society than conservatives. Conservatives only care about whatever benefits their bubble. Conservatives are individualistic and leftists are collectivist. Leftists care more about collective survival.
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Oppositionless replied to Majed's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
U could say the same about Buddhism , but with Buddhism you'll at least have a practice that could lead to some enlightenment experiences. I attend in person Buddhist things, Leo was right that most of them don't understand God, but it's okay bc I go for emotional regulation and community. Zen is a little better than Theravada , many theravadans are materialists, zen at least has an idea of God called the one mind but they say it can't be understood, maybe with meditation it can't . -
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I mean compared to the importance of calcium. If I put even a little bit of energy and money into a nutrient as random as calcium how could I possibly become a Chad Athlete liquor enthusiast? You do you what you want that's just my point of view sorry if it seemed prescriptive or pretentious, but I need so much more holistic thinking talking about calcium is already too limiting. You can help me find the secret of Vril energy to become superhuman
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@LordFall I am not arguing there was a lot of conflict in that area or regarding the religion. I am not even saying it made less war. That checks out with spiral dynamics. I’m focused on the heart of the religion. Not just the people in it and what they did or didn’t do. When Gandhi died in the power vacuum he created in India lead to a civil war which killed over 2 million people. His act of non-violence lead to a war. Human affairs can be really messy. I am interest is more on the heart of the teachings of Islam, what what took place for it to take hold over so many. I know I made it out to seem like Mohammad was perfect, but that’s not what I’m saying. Mohammad create Islam. It’s a powerful school of understanding. His actions allowed it to grow and survive. Within Islam is a deep love and profound wisdom. Essentially value of the higher self are central to the teachings of Islam. These are universal values at its heart. There was nothing about it that said all war would stop. That wasn’t going to happen because of how humans are at that level of cognitive, value and ego development. Plus, the survival pressures are so high for all those people. This is why it is profound to create an Islam that can survive. It’s hard for me to explain this. I’m not excusing any wrong doing. But, I also recognize the way of life of an age when something is created. If Islam was created this way today it would be unacceptable to me. I am by no means done contemplating various perspectives.
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Reproches y obscuridad densa. Hoy me la pasé en cama hasta las 2pm, me levanté a desayunar, es un día de esos pesados, donde una cascada de reproches, frustración, ansiedad y miedo me paralizaron. Los reclamos eran muchos, tendré 40 en unos meses y aún estoy solo y asustado, no tengo hijos ni esposa y ese parece ser el mayor de las molestias, vergüenzas y enojos contra mí. ¿Cómo es que llegué a los 40 sin que nada real pasara? ¿Cómo es que la soledad y aislamiento pueden succionar los mejores años de existencia de un humano? ¿Cómo es que no he tenido el coraje de poder ir por ello? y me excuso de eso sabiendo que el trauma profundo que he experimentado toda mi vida ha sido el factor que me ha llevado a esta situación. Eso me tranquiliza, porque pone la responsabilidad sobre algo que no controlo, un C-PTSD que alguien me instaló, casi siempre la idea es: mi mamá, su crianza solo me destrozó por dentro, flageló mi espíritu, ver a un niñito y rechazarlo siempre, burlarse y demostrar desprecio, eso es doloroso. Mi papa que fue ausente y prácticamente nos dejaba merced de nada, mi papa no me enseno nada en mi infancia, y creo que eso duele, descubrir que fuiste alguien que nadie cuido y por quien nadie se preocupó, no es que les reproche a muerte, se que tuvieron sus traumas también que no les dejaron hacer algo “mejor” deseo perdonar todo eso, pero aun me duele mucho y estoy muy enojado, en especial por que siento que apenas me sostengo y que todo es muy exigente. Esto no es nuevo, tengo 15 años al menos conscientemente lidiando con todo este sentir. Y todos los días me hago esa misma pregunta, ¿cómo? ¿Cómo es posible? ¿Cómo se fue así la vida? ¿Llegaré a los 50 y a los 60 aún asustado, escondido y humillado por el tiempo? ¿Lograré cambiar algo que haga que pueda despertar de este letargo? ¿Hay algo para mí? ¿O solo está esta loza pesada de incertidumbre, desesperanza y cansancio mental que no me deja avanzar? Tengo mi retiro asegurado (vejez), tengo una casa pagada al 50%, tengo en 9 meses un ahorro que me dará una parte pasiva para pagar la casa. Y me quiero ir del trabajo, quiero dejar la empresa donde laboro y la que me da la única seguridad que tengo, la única plataforma donde siento que mis pies pisan firme, pero también la prisión que no me deja ser creativo, que roba mi alma con tareas repetitivas y sin sentido que no me hacen ser una mejor persona y no me permiten sanar, más bien me enferma más, pues es un aislamiento interno detrás de una fachada de tener que ser "importante" ahí. Me siento como el protagonista de 'American Beauty' pero a mí me da vértigo pensar dejarlo todo. Siento que esa empresa me ha quitado mi juventud a cambio de unos pesos. Quiero ir hacia donde pueda vivir más en relación con gente, ese lugar donde trabajo lo veo como infértil, un lugar que no tiene ya nada para mí excepto unos pesos, pesos que no tengo cómo obtener de otro modo aún, y ahí está el dilema, muero por dentro por construir comunidad, familia, identidad, propósito, y no puedo ir a buscarlo porque necesito el pago, no sé cuánto lo necesite de verdad o si más bien necesito poder mostrar que aún pertenezco a algo también. El hecho es que hay una parte dentro de mí que reprocha todo esto, que me reclama de una forma casi desesperada, ¿por qué? ¿Por qué no te animas? ¿Qué esperas? ¿Deseas verte viejo al espejo y no haber logrado nada con tu vida? Y más allá de no haber logrado nada, no haber podido contar una historia, una historia que no me haga ver como el hombre del subsuelo de Dostoievski.
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