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ladelle replied to Loveeee's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I think about this all the time, it’s the scariest thing. -
I don’t know, it may vary, but I guess it is okay to have high standards if the person is willing to offer the same value to others.
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Such Christians are few and far between. Most have not even read the Bible, or do it in an extremely sloppy way. In Luke 18:19 you refer to he doesn't necessarily reject that he is good, he asks why the guy thinks he is good. It can be read as denial, but also as a rhetorical question pointing to how he is indeed God. Conversely, there is John 14:6 — Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me”. Read literally, this invites worship; but metaphorically, if Jesus is Love, Father is Truth, and the Holy Spirit is Will, what he says is exactly right, that's what the Trinity is. Seeing it that way requires a God-realization though. There's a number of different interpretations for any given passage in all scripture, which is precisely the issue. Interpretation by default is corrupt and no method is taught for how to correct that, the few that are lead to further corruption. Necessarily so, since the absolutes are noninterpretable. Not knowing what it is you have a relationship with will not end well. It would be more accurate to say that the God most people have a relationship with is actually the Devil. The best Bible verses are nowhere to be found in the lists of most quoted/popular ones, instead they're filled with nonsense about God protecting, guiding, and forgiving you, which is what people truly care about; it is used to excuse their sinfulness cloaked in false humility. "Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is — his good, pleasing and perfect will". Isn't this the essence of Actualized.org in a few words? And yet all Christian explanations of it miss the mark entirely. So the general problem exists and is worth pointing out, but if Christianity or another tradition helps deepen your spiritual connection that's great, it's as it should be.
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As I said, when you actually look inside with the camera, you're in for a rude awakening. You don't even know what your ears look like inside. They are weird.
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Merci, je vais peut-être essayer.
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Outside of your 20's or when men mature past image. Truth Loyalty and trust are infinitely more sought-after traits universally in partners. Which by the way are considerably higher standards in the modern day 'convenient' approach to dating. Ditch convenience, its the solution to it all.
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Memory is a sort of (resonance-field) like radio-wave which is picked up by the frequency you vibrate at or attuned to. You cannot remember something if you are not in the correct state of consciousness first. This is why when people take psychedelics, they can often remember things they forget when sober.
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It's fine as far as helping people overcome sexual repression. But being too liberal about sex is not good. Sex requires constraints.
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Can't you clean your ears with the best tool that you already have, the pinky finger? Maybe different levels of oleosity in the wax or something, but I never needed to go to the doctor to clean my ears in 20+ years. Only went a few times out of conformity when I was a kid haha
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Oh this is not a furry, but that's the limits of your creativity i guess Its Magic infused.
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As I see it mentioned. Get off the dating scene. Approach girls in real life, talk to them. If you can find a girl not on apps, its a good start. Put the work in, don't take the easy convenient approach, build things irl. Convenience is not a place to start off for the long term in my opinion. I had more women approach me this last year, approach me, because I just talk to anyone now. I couldn't care less. I picked one of the ones interested and we are happy. But i'd known her for months. Its not like i'm the most handsome guy around either, I just talk to a lot of women. I also hate 'game', I just ask them how they are show interest, sometimes make them laugh when a chance comes with something harmless but unexpected. (But i'm naturally also protective of people which many find attractive when they see that side of me).
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Ok. This is not a issue that I experience personally. Actually, these guys hate me because I'm a "Chad" who have it "easy". What I do know is that men are suffering, women are suffering. Life is hard for those who are born poor, ugly, mental health issues, bad genetics. Survival doesn't give a f*ck.
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I actually don't think regular guys have high standards either. I think the high standards on both sides of this conversation are internet/not real world. Guys don't care about makeup and dressing like a model.
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Ramasta9 replied to Mellowmarsh's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I sell mirrors in the city of the blind ! or should I say, in the city of the know it all's 8D ^ its not a penis, its elmo -
Yes, it was pretty much expected to win. Neither of these games is really my cup of tea, but I never expected to enjoy a turn-based RPG either. The dodge mechanic and soundtrack won me over; it feels like playing a fun rhythm game.
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I don't know if anyone's mentioned it but you can listen to a girl without being a wet noodle or caving in to everything she says. You can give her hard advice without sounding like an ass. You can buy her gifts without overdoing it and simping. You can have your own boundaries without being a control freak. You can argue without breaking apart. I think the world overthinks these things.
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You talked about regular guys being so desperate for women’s attention that they would date a woman who is in such a low state in her life, like being a drug addict. Which is BS, because they have standards, and many times very high standards for women, but they complaim about women having standards for men too and play the victim for that. This is actually a double standard.
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It recently won a bunch of awards, didn't it? I might give Kingdom Come II a go at some point, I've heard it's like Skyrim but butter.
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Tommorow I have two tests. I am having a fucking mental breakdown. 1st test is in the morning. I didn’t study enough for it. 2nd test is a midterm for math, a subject from the previous year. I feel so scared of the second test (midterm), because math is something I dedicated a whole lot of time for, and now because I didn’t have time to study for it, I will achieve less marks than I probably deserve. for context I am going on exchange, my semester in my home school finishes later after my host school semester starts, so I gotta take final exams early. Math is fucking up my mental state. I know I can get full marks. It’s not a lack of talent. I did bad in math previously in life because I was too scared to try, now everyone will think I’m just untalented, I know that’s not true, from the bottom of my heart that’s bullshit. I feel so shit. I’m still a virgin. Recently I approached a girl in the library, we talked but I was too pudsy to ask her out. I made so many awkward moments I’m so fuckin stupid. I’m like old at this point and still have fear like this. Fuck. im so inadequate in so many levels. Idk how to keep fighting.
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Hmm. I have low ego-ID with anything. But I go back to it because the feelings are nice. Sentiment for example. Or a protective feeling for something These are two I enjoy.
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Hojo replied to Loveeee's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
@VibesThe psychological ones are probably worse than the meat grinder. Meat grinders like 1 - 2 mins at most. Maybe 20 seconds and back to home screen. Psychological will last years and decades. It might seen scarier but its super short insane pain then back with God in peace. -
What is the answer? Low consciousness attracts low consciousness. It's not about gender. Why do you hate man?
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To find someone offering fatherly love, not looking for just sex?
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I know the answer. I just wanted you to admit that women don’t have it easier, but you insist that men are the ultimate victims just because they can’t get casual sex. The sad truth is that there are plenty of women who are invisible to men, and if they ever get partnered, it is very likely to be an abusive relationship. Many women in weak and vulnerable positions in life, like being traumatized and drug addicted, attract abusive men who many times also end up killing them.
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@Leo Gura How can OP tolerate long horizons where effort doesn't quickly restore agency?
