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  2. Your Behaviour or things you do are related with what you percive yourself to be. If you identify yourself as having 5 years old you may end up Behaving like one. If you Identify as being Trump you will act like him.
  3. People not feeling a duty to society reflects the neoliberal culture of our age. It's a lack of healthy stage blue in my opinion.
  4. I do not like the manosphere or the Tate Brothers. You can observe the harsh truths about women without being a part of the manosphere. Women actually expose themselves the more they talk, you don't need a silly podcast to show you the reality of female nature.
  5. @Jannes You are so predictable. All of this attention on incels when studies actually show incels are disproportionately liberal and less likely to actually harm someone. Just lazy responses.
  6. Red Pill/Manosphere do not own the conversation on dating and female nature. I come to my own conclusions through studies, listening to what women say and obsrerving what women actually do and who they choose. I spend way more time around women than men, I talk to women more and the idea that women just want kind, mature, honest men is laughable. A 6'6 hot guy could create a dating profile where he is openly racist and misogynistic and women will flock to him. I live in a major city and regular women in my neighbourhood are having orgies with athletes. The athletes book an entire hotel, send messages to hundreds of random women and the fuck the shit out of them. Those same women will talk about want a man who just treat them well, it's all crap.
  7. The popular belief which you repeated is that men care about looks and women care about character. It is a huge myth that doesn't stand up to scrutiny. There is no such thing as a good low key women who just wants a nice man. If a woman is attractive enough to get the attention of a hot or well known man and there is an opportunity for something to happen they will take it. The quiet girl in the library or stage green spirittual chick will have sex with an athlete in the toilet if the opportunity presents itself. Women are not these innocent, intuitive, evolved, goddesses.
  8. Hard to tell sometimes. Okay, then.
  9. I have self-engineered a Strange-loop Meta-Logical, Trans-logical System for penetration testing your thoughts, to derive truth, for yourself. It is insanity how well it works!! Literally: "Lemme hack your brain" Lemme know your thoughts on systems-creation, going meta? https://claude.ai/public/artifacts/3a154cf6-ac2a-4439-82dc-afe5487b55b0
  10. That's OK. It takes a village to heal one person. The current approach to mental illness is too focused on the individual, ignoring the fact that the individual is intertwined with the collective and is not totally isolated or separate. This is why I don't believe that one can be fully recovered as long as society is sick. Mental illness can be contagious. Even if someone is healed but lives in an unhealed environment, they may adopt the same dysfunctional patterns in the end or become re-traumatized. This is why the future approach to treating mental health issues may focus less on the individual and more on the collective, on a systemic level. Don't feel bad about it. People who sell courses and various self-help programs sometimes imply that the issue is only in your head and that it can be treated with willpower or exercise alone, but this is often wishful thinking. Keep doing what you can to make yourself feel better. Maybe incorporate small rituals (such as meditation, journaling, reading, drinking tea or coffee, spending time in the sun, skywatching, birdwatching, and self-care rituals like bathing, dancing, singing, or creating art) and be very present and intentional about them. You can learn more about rituals and how they help with the mental health crisis in books like The Power of Ritual by Casper ter Kuile. Move your body daily and add beauty to your life to make it feel more meaningful, and if possible surround yourself with healed people.
  11. It's a meaningless question. There is no such thing as "your own country".
  12. So, you agree with what I said in my original statement. *BTW- it was meant to be humorous. Should have added- My bad.
  13. I don't see this as a big deal at all. Sounds like another luddite cope lmfao
  14. Interesting perspective and there's some truth to it no doubt but it does seem to align more with the red pill manosphere stuff.
  15. Identity is the whole package I would say, both what you feel yourself to be, and what you do. The canonical example of being asked "tell me about yourself" and then answering "I'm a car mechanic", where the answer is a super-compressed version of their identity and largely something they do (behaviour). I'm curious why you think it's an issue of mental health though? That's a very good point, that the identity you have for yourself doesn't always match the identity others assign to you.
  16. To hold society together. Otherwise incels would start a civil war.
  17. In the first book of the series, titled "The Teachings of Don Juan", Carlos is introduced by Don Juan to smoking a mixture of 3 parts mushrooms and 1 part of floweres and leaves. Has anyone tried something similar? I have read that heat destroys psilocybin, but nevertheless in the book it worked. Here is the book. You can see the entry of Saturday, 27 January 1962 for some context https://selfdefinition.org/shaman/Carlos-Castaneda-Teachings-of-Don-Juan.pdf
  18. What have you learned till now based on your playing?
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  20. This sounds like manosphere Tristan Tate stuff.
  21. Why is that a popular belief then ?
  22. It's great to have something tangible to remember someone by. Ridiculously (or not), I've kept a repurposed spice bottle that my mum wrote on, you know one of those glass containers from the supermarket, I should throw it away, but it takes up little room in my spice cupboard, and reminds me of her every time I look in there. That's some dedication, but it does have some family history, so there's no price on that. Dude or not, it's still cool. Lockpicking is also cool, recently I saw on some thriller drama someone using an electric toothbrush (the blade without the head on) to frig a lock, nice. Are you a spy?
  23. Shinzen Young talks of this. "There are, however, two possible exceptions to the general rule "observe any and all thought regardless of its content." The first exception involves deep insights, which may occasionally arise during the observing process. You may find it useful to intentionally leave the "just observing mode" for a while to intentionally consider and clarify such insight." I highly recommend reading his full reflections, they've helped me immensely on various thought loops ("thinking about thinking about thinking") and such traps. https://www.shinzen.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/art_thought-process.pdf
  24. Deluded posts here already. Women are pickier on every level. Contrary to popular belief women care about looks more than men and absolutely do not prioritize character that is laughable. Women are the ones who overlook the vast majority of men. Every woman regardless of age, race, size, background, style etc is someone's type the same is not true for men. Many men are attractive to nobody. Almost every women will have some sort of love life, have sex, go on dates etc while some men will end up with hundreds or even thousands of women while some men cannot even get a date. This dishonesty about the reality of female attraction is just pathetic and it is the reason why the manosphere and looksmaxxing have become so influential. Young men listen to all these lies about how women care about personality and character yet observe the most toxic, sociopathic, abusive, emotionally immature men attracting women. These are not the guys struggling but this need to conceal the truth about women and preserve this myth that women are somehow deeper and more evolved than men is so strong that society is willing to gaslight young men.
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