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How wealthy are you talking about? And really the biggest thing it takes is caring about truth in the first place.
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BlueOak replied to thedoorsareopen's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Its reality trying to integrate a lot of fundamentally different opinions and ways of living, its doing it in a ridiculous 'we must have a single standard for everything' way. Its dumb in every incarnation or way it tries this in. -
Insane vision, ambition, patience, leadership and consciousness. Almost no one will truly do it.
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Of all the places in the world to live, USA is definitely not one of them lmao
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You'd probably really enjoy the PNW if you want mountains + city life.
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@TruthFreedom you aren't the thing behind you you are the thing in front of you and behind you. Doomer is hating yourself you are saying you are doomed and accepting that as an identity. Life is like a mirror you are the thing looking at a mirror. When you see God its like you see the thing looking in the mirror. The doomer has cut off their feminine side. Your girlfriend is in you. Just pretend that she's there already and you will stop being a doomer and you will get a girlfriend. You have to match the frequency. If you have had one and know the feeling just sit in the feeling knowing its there. A woman dosent want to date a doomer cause you are being negative no one wants to be around someone negative not even the doomer. That why you suddenly accept the personality of the transeded cube as yourself cause doomer dosent do anything for you. Its also why people drink alcohol you know the doomer dosent do anything for you so you have to drink to forget that you are a doomer. Alcohol dosent do anything for you except to forget you are pretending to be a doomer and losen up.
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What is it that you're feeling hopeless about, and why? Hopelessness and an imagined negative future go hand in hand.
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Why if you don't mind
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No idea. Austin?
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Breakingthewall replied to James123's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
In that sense could be. If you are totally 100% open to your true nature all time without any rest of human emotional structure, then yes. But there is not problem being also human and remembered sometimes the people with which you have a direct connection and which makes you feel part of humanity -
@Natasha Tori Maru I’m not though, almost everyone in this thread is agreeing with me.
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@Salvijus That’s exactly what I’m talking about. Any lazy dope can sleep with a woman, that’s the easy part, it really doesn’t matter.
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@Princess Arabia I would date any woman who is nice, intelligent, and secure in themselves. I don’t care about looks at all - typically older women are the only ones who talk to me like a human, and even flirt with me occasionally. The only number I got last year was from an older woman who showed interest in me while we were walking our dogs. Not only do women in my gen not show interest in me, they actively avoid any possible interaction. They don’t treat me like a human at all. They would if I drove a Porsche or wore an expensive-looking suit, I guarantee it.
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Why the truth? Because it's fucking true!
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@Hojo You seem to be quite insightful. But finding a girl is not a solution. Accepting yourself is the solution. In my experience, being in relationships brings misery, because absolutely no one is going to love you the way you want to be loved. So love yourself. Watch Leo's video on "the root solution to people pleasing and loneliness ". Also his video on self-acceptance.
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As life purpose is such a fundamental aspect of our path towards self actualisation, I'd like to share a recent insight I've had that has given me a real boost, which is that charisma and communication skills are at the heart of everything. I think this ties in with Leo's great video on marketing. I know this seems obvious and rudimentary to some, but like me you may be shocked by how far you can go with it. I love the Podcast Diary of a CEO as Stephen Bartlett is so good as distilling pure wisdom out of his guests. I especially want to reccommened the following interviews regarding communication skills and charisma because as I mentioned, they're the most important thing beside actual talent, apparently even more important, as people often see others with less skill getting more opportunities because they know how to market themselves or connect with people, to gain trust and make others feel a certain way. We're all wearing a mask, so why not wear an appealing one and make people feel good whilst getting your needs met. Here are my top recommends for Charisma training. If you watch these and take notes, work on it..you will see your life change. I've already landed a job using this stuff. Went into that interview glowing, dealing out competencey cues left right and centre, a pause here, a head tilt there, some choice facial expressions, hand movements, slowing down my speech. It's just gold. Please don't disregard this. I say that as I care about my self actualising brethren and I just wish I'd known about this shit sooner. Notice how incredible each of these people are at communicating. Also notice how authentic they are. It's as if the mastering charisma allows you to come across as more natural and authentic. They are almost hypnotic to listen to and watch. With this one, pay more attention to McConaughey's way of communicating than the content, which is still very interesting and insightful. But really he's a poster child for charisma. I saved my favourite until last. Chase Hughes is something else. Look at how calm and controlled he is, whilst also seeming comfortable and relaxed. If you like it, look up his special operations manual. He's written a tome on covert tactics. Use what you can to get ahead as long as you look after people and leave them better off than before you found them. Really by mastering these skills you become more effective, more yourself, and more able to experience love and connection in every area of you life.
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I used to have nightmares that I am late to submit my last assignment for the graduation of high school. It was very stressful. I think it's a symbolic expression of how I've been living - always rushing, feeling like I'm always behind, trying to get somewhere I want to go through maximum effort, whilst now, Jamie said that I have to spend the rest of my journey relaxing, dropping all effort, instead of revving up my engine, even if its related to meditation, contemplation or studying the Course. You can read one line of the Course per week, and that will be enough, if you go where it is aiming to take you, back to effortless flow.
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Malkom replied to SimpleGuy's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
This is how I did it, but this is my personal experience, it might not work for you, but there is a general pattern. First, I do meditation, just a regular one, because it helps me concentrate; your psyche teaches you to concentrate. And then I go to bed. At night, I just sleep, and in the morning, after waking up, I first write down the dream, and then go back to sleep. And sometimes it doesn't work out - it's not my day, or it's night, ahaha. And so on. The thing is, for many, morning is the best time for lucid dreaming. For some, yes, at night and even every day, there are such gifted people, but don't emulate them, even if you are gifted. but it's better to take it easy. From there, follow your intuition. And be sure to write down your dreams; it trains your memory. Take this seriously. Moreover, when you reread your notes, try to recall more—this is also an important point, and shouldn't be ignored. -
That's part of it. I'm better at making videos than life coaching. My passion is not in coaching. You can't be the best at something you're not passionate about.
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This is one of the hardest questions. I think it's possible, but not in the way people usually think. I just contemplated this a few days ago, as a what-if, if I would start earning money, what would I do. A trap might be believing our own willpower is enough. Money can change your nervous system, it can make you risk-averse and starts bending your decisions toward protecting wealth instead of purpose. A way I developed that could work is to build external structures before you have the wealth: Automate giving (do 40% off the top of any big inflow) Create a 'pod' of people who can veto your financial decisions Legally pre-commit that 90%+ goes back to commons when you die It's not about being a 'good person' with money. It's about building the plumbing so the money can flow through you instead of pooling and poisoning you. The goal shifts from 'being wealthy' to 'being a useful conduit.' Otherwise, you end up contributing to the very inequality you probably wanted to solve, just by following the default logic of the system. The might be other ways but, yeah... it's unusually hard. The system is designed to capture you.
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I am drowning in mostly grief with some positive emotions mixed in about the old theatre club. Medication mixes up my whole emotional system.
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Terell Kirby replied to cistanche_enjoyer's topic in Life Purpose, Career, Entrepreneurship, Finance
I see your point. Difference between creating something that people will buy off the strength of the product vs. employing certain skills to help people advance their survival agendas. Is this why you stopped life coaching? -
American cities all seems to look alike, with a few exceptions. By default i would say Denver for mountains and beers lol. In Europe the best cities i went were Strasbourg and Barcelona.
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Malkom replied to SimpleGuy's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
And I almost forgot. You'll experience many disappointments along the way. That's normal; everyone goes through those. Keep that in mind. The main thing is the goal. And if you have two or three lucid dreams a week, that's a huge success; they don't happen every day. Don't overemphasize why I don't have them every day. -
Each day carries with it a melody, and you have to learn how to join that song in a gentle, harmonious duet.
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