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  2. I don’t think many of them are beating around the bush. It’s mostly quite directly communicated. But none of them has yet to say how exactly is my ego behaving in such a way. And neither have you, which makes me question the point of you bringing it up. I see a pattern though: the few people here who can relate and agree with me, are people who actually go out and approach.
  3. Listen mate, some people are beating around the bush and being nice with you and careful to not dose you too hard. What they really want to say is your ego is so strong that it’s on the nose - it’s so obvious, and yet you’re blind to it. But it’s all good. We all go through this. Especially in our 20s. It is a gift to have it pointed out, else you might carry your ego into the next few decades.
  4. Meet them to make friends, not to 'pick them up'.
  5. So then, where would you go to meet spiritual people who are also responsible ? Maybe spiritual entrepreneur Meetup groups. Focus on what you want, and then go where you think they might be. God damn bro, Finland, ur blessed !
  6. I love disagreeing with people I like. We should be comfortable with ambiguity and discerning subtle differences. Intellectual maturity. When someone can argue a crazy outlandish point with sound argument, internal consistency and transparent logic - I kinda love it. It's like "they are serving up this delicious horseshit with the ultimate garnishes and aesthetics, it's still horseshit, but the presentation is immaculate" The truth usually arrives with a bunch of bullshit anyway. The wheat is always being sorted from the chaff. Maybe I just like the process as much as the end result ╮⁠(⁠^⁠▽⁠^⁠)⁠╭
  7. How the changing works exactly, agree that their attraction system changes as they get older and they know what they want better. The woman I dated that told me her type was black men, and she went to date a black drug dealer, attraction system is just chasing whatever the hottest man is from her biology that's perfectly fine, And later on many years later, she told me yeah the guy I'm dating "set me straight and changed me". Basically he didn't tolerate her bullshit and put her in her place and this had some kind of "taming the brat" effect. lmfao Red is a different structure of what they need in the relationship, they need to be over powered to stop being a brat, but the second you have any issues she gets the ick and she jumps on another guy's cock. "ick oriented woman". Red has a respect and ick orientation, and they're always vigilantly waiting for your vibe to change. The moment she thinks she's "above you" she loses attraction, but cognitively she understands she's still in love with you but the vibe is gone already, and then they don't really understand it, so they end up cheating. Basically they're in love with you but they're attraction is gone and they lost respect and they don't view you in hi regard anymore, And so the next guy that comes around because they're brand new and there's no history, that triggers their attraction to click back into place and then she cheats.
  8. I know this post is a bit old but maybe someone will read this. Priestly’s concept of pre-selling before you asset-heavy your business is the only way to survive. When we got into the roll-off dumpster rental game, we didn’t drop six figures on trucks right away. We put out landing pages, hooked local contractors, got commitments, and then rented the fleet to cover the initial demand. But here’s the second half of that equation: once you prove the market wants it, you will hit that exact wall of "keeping 1000 things in check" that you mentioned. If you don't scale your operations as fast as your leads, you'll implode. We avoided that by plugging our operations into CurbWaste the moment the concept was proven. It automated our dispatch, tracking, and invoicing instantly, turning that chaotic "stress testing" phase into a predictable, cash-flowing operating machine. Validate fast, but systemize immediately.
  9. The way you guys's profiles shift shaping as one scrolls is kinda trippy
  10. @Wilhelm44 Finland. Hippies for example. Spirituality without proper responsibility is just escapism.
  11. Does anyone have similar experiences to this? I thought I made an interesting thread, curious what you guys think.
  12. So everyone we like is toxic? That doesn't make sense. Actually, I have disagreed with both of them on different occasions, and we still engage in a neutral way. I don't understand why you are feeling this strongly about them.
  13. @Miguel1 What exactly do you mean by bypassers ?
  14. I'm curious, which country ?
  15. Thanks! In the last years I always use a blindfold (+ whitenoise). It helps me stay focused. To see God, you have to go deep „inside”, and things happening „out there” are a distraction. Also, it’s (usually) SUCH a magical moment when you then take off the blindfold - you really see the world for the first time. Each to their own though. I suppose there’s also value in the question What is Reality?, so focusing on that would prolly entail staying with eyes open and e.g. looking at your hand. But I prefer the What Am I? question because I simply know it works, and I love it. I like to go very deep in my mind.
  16. Okay, but the "look at your hand" exercise of Leo, is also pointing to what Jim is saying about: It's already here now
  17. It's not a dream, I have just counted my fingers - 10 fingers, no artifacts, did it in English, not russian. I didn't find "lucid" in this topic. https://www.thelucidguide.com/techniques/all-day-awareness-(ada)
  18. Yeah, museums are quite boring. I don’t live in the US, I live in the Northern Europe, spirituality is not very big here. And the spiritual events I’ve been to, I find a lot of bypassers there.
  19. That's how toxicity usually works.
  20. @Elliott Actually, these two in particular are some of my favourite people here. I especially like the structure of their logic and how they gradually break down and present their arguments.
  21. "I want to pay for your future abortion." I literally said this multiple times in the past. Not as an opener though. "You look like a ghetto nerd." This is an opener. Very polarizing, especially during the day, so you have to know how to handle whatever challenge she throws at you and be able to reframe the opener as a positive rather than offensive. "Hey look.. i just want to be honest, I saw you checking me out and I just wanna let you know, I'm not looking for anything okay? But I am flattered and you're interesting so hi. But again, no expectation aight?" Delivered with a cheeky, playful smile. No matter how she pushes back, always maintain the frame that she was checking you out. Act as if her denying it is actually her being shy and not bold enough to own it.
  22. Sorry, @Carl-Richard and @zurew . They're generally terrible people actually.
  23. Today
  24. I'm not saying you should stop doing anything. But if you want to meet a beautiful witch, go pub crawling to all the spiritual hotspots. Not museums Jesus lol. It doesn't need to be boring, think festivals etc. Have fun bro
  25. Nah Jim is more simple, he includes the human experience as something reality does, and theres nothing you really can do to end that, Leo is kinda suggesting some action step you can take
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