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Jed wouldn't approve of my attachment to the dreamstate, I know it. But remember this, these books are being written for a specific purpose, which is to provide to point you towards the path towards waking up. You also have to understand that this is one guys experience of what enlightenment is. There are many different perspectives to take on enlightenment as well as many different facts. ( Check out Leo's episode, the many faces of awakening.) Right now, I am attached to this girl, I love being around her. Your job is to become aware of this attachment and to engage in it consciously. You have other things to balance here in this life. For example, you need your alone time so that you can do kriya yoga and meditate. At the same time, I just love her attention, I want her around me and I just want to banter and vibe out with her. Sometimes I like this pure stream of conscious thought as a way to spiritual autolysize. Other times, I want to create a cohesive conversation between my lower and higher self. But just remember, this journal is for yourself, not for impressing others.
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@Yimpa thanks, very insightful! How do you structure or prepare for your trips, usually? And, what types of psychedelics do you think were most significant for your awakenings for/breakthroughs? Cheers for achieving those gains 💪
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i need to get this off my chest and hope it won't be used against me by anyone. i have been teaching three sisters French for a couple of weeks, since they switched schools and need to keep up with their peers. i have an undergrad degree in English with French as a secondary subject. the girls' dad pays me cash after the French lessons and is sending me heart emojis all the time. (that combo makes me feel like a prostitute.) more hearts and kisses than i have ever received from any lover. he praises me a lot, touched my back twice when showing me out, but other than that, he hasn't acted inappropriate. he insists on paying for lessons that we had to cancel, and i am hesitant to accept that because usually, no one has ever offered to do that. he also pays more than any other parents have ever paid me before for tutoring their children. i feel a bit overwhelmed and don't know how to communicate with him. my goal was to hand in a document for my tax report in September (since i also have other students and would like to advertise my private tutoring services more officially), but his response was "don't be like that" and i felt too shy to be more persistent. what do i do? do i just start writing official invoices and present them to him via email, and he'll have to accept that? he's so fond of me for some reason and voluntarily upped the amount he pays me a couple weeks in, so if he thinks i'm so important, he should handle the fact that i want to do this the right way? i think it's just so strange he voluntarily sends me more money all the time. -
Thought Art replied to Thought Art's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
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Soon done, I really wanted to bring some change into science, but I made the mistake of going to an NGO, and not a more funded university, but they had lectures that interest me, I will write a bit of a longer comment eventually, there are some things I would never do, but I fell into the trap of this american mindset, and the issues europe faces, and the reality facing stuff I built during my bachelor studies, now I sort of face the issue of being
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First off you need to own it. So say to yourself "I am choosing to _____ (sabotage myself)." Don't frame yourself as a victim like all of this is being force onto you, you're choosing this. Let's establish that. You are creating this. Ok, now this is where we can let our shoulders down and take a deep breathe. You don't need to beat yourself up. You have nothing to prove. Just ask with curiosity and care, like you're asking a friend you love and care about "why am I choosing to sabotage myself?" "what do I believe about myself here?" "why am I doing this?" To answer your questions. You break free by becoming aware of your true value and worth that is inherent, and aligning with what you know is right for you. It's happening to you because you are choosing to do it (own it) but there is a secret benefit to it you don't wish to admit to yourself because you wouldn't be able to defend the self sabotage if you didn't frame it as something out of your control or something you're confused about. Probably a beleif about your self worth, believing you aren't worthy of success, believing you aren't enough, scared to step into the unkown away from the comfort of the old painful pattern you can't admit to yourself you choose or else he whole thing becomes indefensible with emotional logic. Feeling bitter is a feeling you create through a belief, so I would drop the feeling word and replace it with what you think or believe. Why do you believe you need to create a bad feeling you label bitter when you think about women? What do you believe about women? Do you believe a woman has wronged you? What do you not accept about the world which women are a part of? Do you believe you are good enough to be in a relationship with a woman?
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Thought Art replied to Thought Art's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
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Yimpa replied to Emotionalmosquito's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
I will never have a baby since I am asexual and only do myself. -
The more you've been outside the dream, the easier it is to exit the dream, with or without chemicals. Why does a master meditator require less effort than the newbie? Because he has already broken out of Maya.
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Jirh replied to shubhamsharma's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
She is the dream No awakening required -
Hadn't noticed this
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Rewatching this while gaming later I contemplate with GPT
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I’ve been following this Actualized stuff since 2014 💯s of trips (started in 2018). Seriously, this is the highest teacher, no pun intended. going thru the dark knight of the soul MANY times therapy. shit load of that (since I was a kid. been disabled my whole life) caring about Truth/Love/God and making that my top value I still struggle greatly with survival, I definitely suck on that front. Thankfully, I had huge gains starting around 2023 (you can read about that here if you’re curious). Despite the survival challenges, I would consider myself spiritually gifted. So genetics play a huge role, too. It truly is a gift and a curse for me! I am ruff around the edges 🐶
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1. DAYGAME SUCKS I'm about to ruffle some feathers with this one, off the bat. Keep in mind, though, that I'm speaking as someone who has been doing this for like 10 years, so I'm no longer in the business of "practising," I'm here for real consistent results and daygame doesn't provide you that. In fact, if the purpose of Game and self actualization is to develop yourself into a high value individual (for real, not as a facade) then daygame is a complete antithesis to that. What High Value man runs around during the daytime, scouting for girls to approach? A man who isn't on his purpose and who doesn't have much of a life. Daygame has the least time-investment and ROI ratio out of all the dating strategies. Even social circle game (SCG) is superior because, while SCG is much slower, you're at least getting multiple returns on your invested time -- social media content, doing cool things with cool people, having low-pressure get-togethers to invite potential prospects to. With Day Game all you get is a couple of low-conversion rate phone numbers that you collected over a ridiculous span of time depending on how high your standards are, the occasional pull here and there -- which I personally don't care to do, at this point in my journey -- and some cardio. I am in no way discrediting Day Game as a valid source of practise and potential connection. In fact, the best way to do Day Game is if you're on your purpose, out and about, and you approach girls who genuinely catch your fancy on your way to do the cool shit that you'd already be doing whether girls were around or not. But the concept of leaving your house, in the day time, specifically to meet girls is just.. nah. Even better is just be social and friendly with everyone in passing as you go through your day, without forcing anything ,and let connection and chemistry reveal itself, naturally. But your day should be spent pursuing your goals and hobbies, connecting with friends and family and making money. Now for those of you who are not convinced or you feel like this is something you have to do, then here's a little tip: Day Game during the early to mid evening, not in the afternoon, and you will get better responses. 2. BUILDING A TRIBE IS THE ANSWER TO ALL YOUR DATING WOES I know LordFall will be doing happy back-flips with this one. Here are is a fact: Attraction is contextual. What is a High Value Man other than a man who stands out in some unique way within a context where other men are present. The reason that I can go to a club or a bar and get massive attraction and optionality is because the women there are evaluating me in comparison to other men. I could approach those same women one-on-one on the street and, while I can be charismatic as fuck and get her super attracted to me, her level of interest will pale in comparison to how she'd feel about me when she interacts with me in a social environment. In that context, she is witness to how others treat me, how my charisma and style stand out from the crowd around me and experiences the volatility of my attention which eventually will prompt her to chase me much harder than she would've otherwise. Most of pickup was developed before the social media age and it is time for it to adapt. When you're going out to socialize, the goal should be equally to make cool friends as it is to meet attractive women. Invite these new friends to go out with you, to come to the gym with you, meet their friends, throw parties, travel together, share ideas. This will result in you living a way more interesting life, which will then make your social media a lot more engaging (cool posts of you doing cool shit with cool men and women, as well as regular stories that your friends help you take), which makes meeting people a lot easier either because you're introduced to them by someone you know or because you're already having fun with your friends while out, which makes approaching effortless, or because your social media does a lot of the heavy lifting. Either way, you become a way more attractive man and dating becomes so much easier. I'd even go as far as to say that you should be aiming to be going out with people way more than going out with yourself. Furthermore, here's another fact: For a lot of women, attraction and emotional investment is gradual not instantaneous. That means that a lot of women need to spend time around you over a longer span of time before they fully experience genuine feelings of attraction for you. Again, this is not ALL WOMEN, this is A LOT of women, there's a difference. So perhaps it's time for you to think about not only going out to cold approach and find women who you have that INSTANT chemistry with, but also taking up a dance class, swimming, starting your own meetup event or join a running club that will open your dating pool to the rest of women that need that gradual connection. Lastly, social circle game creates the most optimal conditions for you to get your dream dating life. Women are more likely to hold you in very high regard and be utmost compliant to you when you're in a leadership position of a social circle that they're a part of and have been exposed to your power of influence over a prolonged period. This doesn't mean you can't get your dream dating life through pickup, by the way. Of course you can, I've done it, but there're levels beyond. If you're able to combine pickup with social circle and social media game, you're putting yourself in the best position to be pursued by attractive women who are, therefore, a lot more open to having whatever type of relationship you want because of all the social value you have concentrated around yourself, granted you did a good job at branding yourself in the right way. 3. WOMEN ACTUALLY DON'T LIKE PLAYERS Pickup teaches you this concept of the Lover vs Provider. The Lover being the fun, adventurous, abundant guy who doesn't give a fuck and is a bit of a wild stallion. The Provider being the safe option, the guy who went to school, got a good job and lives a very quiet boring life with very little social value, flow or swagger to him. Of course, no one wants to be the Provider, everyone wants be the Lover because he gets the "better end of the deal." In the case you want a girlfriend, pickup teaches you to lead with being a Lover ALWAYS and then once you hookup with the girl, slowly transition into revealing more Provider qualities in you as she progressively invests in you. But actually, you want to be both from the start. The type of girl that would be attracted to a guy playing around with multiple girls in the environment, isn't a very high quality girl. Players screen for validation seeking, immature women who don't know their own worth and are, thus, looking to the player to validate them, which is why they chase their validation. A high quality woman who meets a guy in a social environment would be turned off by him flirting with multiple girls and being indecisive about who he truly wants. I've experienced this first hand so many times. One of my biggest sticking points is that when I go out, I enjoy having fun with multiple women and entertaining multiple options that I often times alienate women who might be a quality long-term option for me and, instead, end up being swarmed by a lot of validation seeking thots. The fact that you're still getting results doing that, makes it hard for you to see it as a faulty strategy because "Hey, these girls want me so it clearly works!" It takes a lot of reflection to realize that the women you alienated doing that were actually more mature compared to those that chased after you. Now, you still want to create options for yourself and interact with multiple women, but keep it lowkey and civil. Don't be too physical with any of them until you decided that they are your primary target and have a higher standard for the types of girls that you're interacting with. When all is said and done, you should be choosing between 2 or, maximum, 3 girls at any given night out socializing. The rest should've been disqualified way before it was time for you to make a decision for who you're sticking it out with for the evening. I do understand, though, that this point probably isn't very relevant to most of you. 4. LOOKSMAXXING This one is obvious yet I see so many guys dismissing it completely. Looks. Fucking. Matter. Dude. I'm not an advocate for plastic surgery and all this black pill bullshit, but you should be maximizing your fashion, grooming and overall physique. This does wonders for your game. Study the men around you who are dating the women that you want and adapt their style to yourself in an authentic way. This is important. Your look is the most immediate demonstration of value that the girl becomes aware of and so many guys pay little attention to it. It says a lot about you when you're able to dress in a way that fits a badass archetype of man comfortable=y without having cognitive dissonance or imposter syndrome -- which is why a lot of men don't do it. I won't harp on this point too much, but this isn't about looking like a buffed out Alpha Male. I know guys who are fat who are badasses. They dress in a cool way, have tattoos, masculine facial hair, a few nice accessories, a mullet and are surrounded by women. On the flip side, I know men who are physically fit and have a chiseled jaw that dress like their mom picks out their outfits. Now, I would advice most of you to get in shape, so please don't take the above example as an excuse not to, but the point is make sure you look as badass as you can right now. It matters.
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Hi guys, I've hit a rough patch with no results, and now I'm really stuck in this identity of a guy who can't get dates anymore, this identity of a guy who never seems to have anything good happen to him. I'm currently in a seduction mentoring program, and I spend all my time complaining and deliberately messing things up. For example, sometimes I go out and deliberately make bad open to get rejected, or I deliberately leave a conversation that's going well, or when I send the first message and have to suggest a date, I deliberately send a bad message to get ghosted or rejected. And sometimes I even deliberately wait 4-5 days before replying to a woman who seemed interested. So, I'm making more and more approaches, and obviously, nothing changes. Actually, I realize I have a lot of bitterness towards women. I feel like they have a problem with me, like they just want me to suffer. And on the other hand, I'm very attached to this victim mentality, this frustration mentality, and this mentality of proving to others that the game doesn't work for me. How can I break free from this whole thought pattern? Why is this happening to me? How can I stop feeling bitterness towards women?
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Bro, check this. Ps: My ex also tried sucide 2 times. This pattern of saving the Danzel in distress need to be observed. In relationships we need to be aware. As much as aware as we would be in consciousness work. Maybe chill a bit and have fun, but watch your patterns and her patterns as a hawk because is all games till shit hits the fan and affects you money or even your physical security. And surprisingly I still felt guilty for what happened to her because I felt that I could do some stuff different, but maybe nothing you could do would help anyway. We cant save anyone from their own dramas. Get back to your energy. Self Study etc.. be creative, go have some time in nature and with safe grounded friends.
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Human Mint replied to Emotionalmosquito's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Banning abortion will be good news for some. All relative baby. -
Shunyamurti has a deep body of work: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DcJZ2FOCUjS/
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Mellowmarsh replied to Mellowmarsh's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
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So this is how my night out is structured most of the time. I go first to a square with a few nightclubs, this is where I will do much of my warm up. As I am in Amsterdam, I cycle to the square and give high fives to people on the way lol. To warm up. Then on the square I approach a girl in the first few mins. This for me is the most important thing, I don´t want to wait longer then 5 mins, just go in the deep directly. After that I will walk around a bit either alone or if my wingman is there already, then with him. I will just do some magic for random people to warm up, wish people a good night or give a compliment to girls and walk away. Now we go to another square and from there I will go a bit deeper, making longer conversations, but not super long yet, like 2 min conversations with mainly girls, but also I talk to guys from time to time, just be careful to not stay too long talking to guys as it is more comfortable, unless it is a mixed set of guys and girls. Now around 2 a clock, this is where I really start to do longer conversations. Also I spend allot of time singing karaoke at the karaoke bar, my secret way to get to feel like a rockstar and be in state lol. I try to go for sets that I want to talk to for a long time aswell, at this point I am so in state that I don´t have to keep approaching so much, so more like quality over quantity at this point. Then I will try to make the conversation as long as I possibly can or as Owen says (at the beginning of the night short and sweet at the end of the night burn it to the ground) the idea is that you then close, get a number or whatever. And at this point I was making the mistake that I thought intimidating sets are not approachable, but you will be suprised how kind girls are when you are in state, these intimidating sets of 8s, 9s or even 10s, become way less intimidating and they are actually very friendly even more so then maybe the more unattractive girls who gets approached a million times a night. At that point I try to talk to everyone as mystery does it, at the beginning I used to make the mistake of not befriending the friends and only talk with the girl I am intrested in. If you befriend everyone you get acceptance of the group and even the other girls will want to make you approach their friend sometimes, for example I had a group of 3 girl yesterday and 5 mins in the conversation one girl said "she wants to be a houswife, do you want her as your housewife?". I said No, because I didn't want to lie hahahahahaha but you get the point. So this is what I would say this is how I structure it, it is much based on the system of Owen, the only difference probably would be that at the end of the night, I am a bit more critical who I want to have a longer conversation with. I don't want to talk 15 mins long to an 18 year old, it seems very uninteresting to me to have a conversation with them for that long, I rather go for a bit older woman who have more life experience and have something to talk about like 24 or 25, something like that. Now nightgame for me is not about finding my soulmate lol, I mean it could happen, but for me it is just about having a ton of fun and more about having the ability to talk to attractive woman. Day game I am more serious about closing. I walk around 10 kms every night, I never go to a club, only bars, I always stand outside talking to people in the streets and squares where it is quiet and you don't have to yell over the music.
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What process or techniques have you used along the path to reaching these levels of awakening? E.g., meditation, self-inquiry, etc. Could you please provide a comprehensive list?
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Leo’s videos get a tenth of the views they got at his peak
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Old thread, but it only feels like "dead money" if you're solely looking at monthly rent. The real magic in year one is on the tax side. When I bought my first rental, I thought the payback would take forever too until I did a cost seg study with R.E. Cost Seg. It basically lets you write off things like carpets, appliances, and fixtures in the first year instead of spreading it over 27 years. That massive upfront tax deduction kept thousands of dollars in my pocket right away, which completely changed the math for me.
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Install a simple padlock on your patio door, and put the key in your lock-box.
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