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You're all in for some major twists.
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Yes there is something wrong in the way you do pickup and that's why you're not fulfilled with it. That's my claim and I've explained my reasoning behind it. You seem have a dense ego with how you refuse to admit your shortcomings and stick to your position even when presented with evidence that invalidates it so I don't think you're very coachable which is another reason why you're stuck in your journey. Yes I've followed Leo since he posted that rant against PUA videos 10 years ago which is why my game was built with depth to avoid the pitfalls he pointed out in it. I'm thankful to him for that, it was a great video. If you find meaning and fulfillment in your life outside of relationships then more power to you. Feel free to share what's worked for you since you gave them up.
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Mine is pretty high, but I never set out to "sleep with 100 women", I just kind of got there over several years by partying and travelling a lot. Largely all of this was done under the lens of improving my social skills and overcoming social anxiety rather than actual 'pickup'. Setting yourself a goal of sleeping with 100 women is quite odd, and I think pickup as a framework is quite degenerate in general. Especially the spammy high street kind.
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I'll say that i have light autism. And i feel that i should've approached the lady just for the first failure since i don't regularly do this but i'm willing to learn and you did provide a good resource But....nothing beats experience, i can read stuff and advice all day long, eventually i'm going to have to learn my own methods through trial and error.
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All Bryan Johnson threads end up like this.
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I am sorry, but I am seriously disappointed by you at this point. You are just trying to always try to spin it off as that there must be something wrong with me. My statement in the spam approaching was in completely different context - you were literally praising social momentum and that was my counter argument - it does not address the deeper issue. I have done plenty of different approaches and bottom line is -> sleeping around is low consciousness and is not fulfilling no matter which way you stretch it. I mean you follow Leo I assume since you are on the forum - he says exactly the same thing. I seriously doubt anyone who is yellow would even say stuff like "I want to have bodycount of 100". Like common brother. I don't want to give get into any personal anecdotes around here. Just stop spinning the stuff around here so much. If you just want to fuck around, be my host. But don't present it as some higher virtue. It's not.
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Basman replied to Monster Energy's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
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I don't like the new font. Nothing on the website is serif. It stands out too much. All the promo materials, all the UI, everything is sans-serif, and only this one thing is serif.
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Never watched it with the translation. 4:57
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Why does everything has to do with death. Enjoy the opportunity you have with life.
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No one agreed with Einstein, they thought he was a crack pot. That slow, sluggish dragging of your feet to accept a new profound way to look at the same thing is the paradigm lock. They think right now they're model of the universe Is one of the highest models and they don't understand they're just sitting in a hole and can't see above it. More evidence and more rational thoughts does not get you there Measuring every banana in the tree will not get you to understanding reality, this is the materialism monkey bubble.
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I think it is a fairly safe bet to put scientific explanations above the "but reality is larger than science" sentiment
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We need to deconstruct this notion that intelligence = unhappiness. Intelligence is everywhere making life more beautiful, powerful, resourceful
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Not at all. He admitted himself that his form of pickup was spam approaching women on the street. This is is a low form of pickup and seduction. I'm not surprised it lead him to not find fulfilment or satisfaction in it. He literally projected on me that everyone does stage orange pickup since he did it. I've already explained last page what is a better way to go about it. What I described is like stage yellow game as it is based on holism and not quick sex. The best way to think of it is viewing your dating life and social circle as an extension of another and looking at it more in terms of farming than hunting. Meaning that you're basically creating a fertile oasis for everyone to benefit and then finding the women that are particularly into you from there and dating one or many of them depending on what you're into. For example I'm in the creative industry and host photoshoots with models, photographers, content creators, influencers, etc. A lot of attractive women in that industry obviously. I've hosted events now in Toronto, Calgary and Kelowna around it. I'll be doing it over the summer in Montreal. I own accounts and group chats in each city around it now with hundreds of people in them. I help the women(and the men as well) with their creative goals and give them content help and give them tips on finding sponsors and monetizing their brand. https://www.instagram.com/creatives_toronto - This is one of my accounts for example You see how this is much more holistic than just cold approaching women on the street? I'm a logical guy so I spend my time thinking about business, marketing, finance, etc. So might as well share that knowledge with other people that usually don't find reading books about those topics interesting. I have spent the last 4 years hosting events around it. They're quite fun and it's fulfilling for me to learn how to make cooler and bigger events and travel to different cities to do so. I hosted a fashion show in Calgary last year for example. If you go with this strategy you must utilise the sowing vs reaping principle meaning that you provide people in your community/social circle genuine value and good times and don't just use it as a cheap ploy to get laid. I used to hangout with club promoters and dating coaches a lot in Toronto and this is my own version of this funnel. I've gotten laid many times from social circle game, it's a much funner way to date than just cold approach or online dating as you're also friends with the women you date and over time you get access to way more attractive women than you would just being a random guy on the street like it seems Valach was saying he burnt out doing. Every man has different interests and skillsets and thus their setup will look different but for me the creative industry makes a lot of sense and is quite fun to be around. I talk about it more in this thread if you guys are curious
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Epistemically Wrong: in chess the beginner tries to prove to himself his beliefs are true, and the master tries to prove to himself that his beliefs are wrong. The amateur asks "what does this move do for me?" and the master asks "what does this move allow?" The problem with the beginner isn't just that he gets attached, it's that finding a move feels like progress, so letting go of it feels like losing something. He's chasing the feeling of having an answer instead of the answer actually being correct. For those thirty seconds that move becomes part of his identity, and refuting it would mean admitting he wasted his time. The master does the opposite, he spends most of his calculation trying to refute his own ideas because that's where the real information is. A line that survives your best attempt to kill it actually tells you something. And chess punishes this immediately. One refutation you didn't look at loses you the game, while ten supporting reasons give you nothing you didn't already have. The game rewards falsification and punishes confirmation The master is building an accurate model of the position before he even thinks about the solution and the beginner is generating solutions from a model he never built, so he's finding answers to a question he doesn't understand or asked. Most people can't tolerate discomfort of not having an answer yet while the understanding builds.
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I love the tension in your choice of words
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Those weed vapes felt awful to me. Don’t like them at all.
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Thank you! Yes, simplicity was one of the main goals. I really like blogs like this.
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You can know that you are lying while keeping your integrity. There’s a higher game of harmony with the finite to be played. You don’t loose your integrity by pretending like the game of monopoly is real when you play it.
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At least be honest with yourself.
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What a great sentiment. Yes, unhappiness, grumpiness, misery, are all signs of being in a state of unintelligence because the unhappy person couldn't figure out how to be happy in that scenario. It's is often said smart people are unhappy because they know so much but that's a myth. If they were truly smart they would be happy. Of course deaths and health issues are exceptions to this rule.
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@Sincerity Congratulations! I love the font and simplicity
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tsuki replied to tsuki's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
@Breakingthewall Yep, nothing to see here, move along ❤️
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