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  2. It's a natural ability i believe. It really is. If you have to practice sex you've already lost.
  3. Yeah when you put it like that I agree. You can't really practice sex outside of a relationship outside of doing a bunch of hookups which don't tend to produce great sex anyway from my experience so working on the package is the day to day logical move. When you're with a girl then yeah make sure she cums often and in varied ways and she'll feel like you're irreplaceable. Also being really attracted to the girl you're fucking makes for better sex I find since you become an animal and ravish her and that comes from having a high SMV to be able to pull hotties. I've banged girls I was not really into and like sometimes I can't even stay hard cuz I don't actually wanna be there and start questioning my decisions in the middle of it and it makes the process even softer . Also it makes it so I really want them to leave where as if I'm really into the girl I can fuck 3-4 times and afterwards we just collapse into bliss and pass out together even if I barely know her.
  4. Sure I'm not disagreeing. Its the whole package. If you get her in the sexual way you can do anything you want but not forever. Eventually you can ruin that but you have to try extremely hard. I've had women i can fuck over countless times and they will still come back. But eventually you will lose them unless they are completely codependent. If you don't have the total package
  5. Sure I'm just saying that's a low bar. Go down on her or get a vibrator if the dick doesn't work. Like 70% of women can't cum from solely vaginal sex. I agree that cumming in your girl while she also cums is a deep bonding experience that weighs a lot I'm just saying there is more to it then that to be attractive to a wide range of women especially if you like women who are in demand who have access to all kinds of dudes like promoters, DJs, musicians, etc that fuck a lot but aren't great relationship partners.
  6. All of what you said means nothing if you can't make her cum. That's why the nice guy never wins
  7. No I think it's a pretty wide generalization. Women don't care that much about the destination they want an adventure. "Pack your bags baby, we're leaving for Italy in 3 hours!" An adventure with question marks along the way but she knows its gonna be safe and awesome with you because you're the man.
  8. All that means nothing if you can't make her cum
  9. If you're talking about soulless whores sure. Porn stars have closed themselves off to it because orgasm is their way of living.

  10. How to analyse 5-MeO-MALT ?

    Pineal replied to Loveeee's topic in Psychedelics

    Or, read the pamphlet
  11. @Miguel1 do you trust yourself?
  12. Plenty of dudes give women multiple orgasms every night and still get left, ghosted, or cheated on. Physical climax isn't a leash. If orgasms were what locked in a woman, no woman would ever leave a high-performing hookup partner. What locks a woman in long-term is high value, safety, and emotional investment. Not just dopamine from a good orgasm and great sex. As a matter of fact there is a lot of women that don't like it when men focus on them orgasming because it makes the process mechanical and too logical as opposed to a true roller coaster of emotions which is felt throughout her life. If you use sex as an analogy for a relationship, then bondage is kind of what they want. They want to feel an adventure that's a bit dangerous but actually safe and pushes their comfort but in way where they're in control. Just focusing on orgasms is like doing the missionary position over and over again and she cums each time but she still dumps you because it's boring.
  13. @JoshB What others? Oh you mean those other dream you's you're talking too to see/hear whats possible. They'll play the game of ignorant denial for your delight, some will play along, some will get philosophical others might troll but since its really you they all have the same exact realizations you do. You're God and youre alone and this is how you pass through eternity - by pretending to be the complete and polar opposite of what you are. The contrast is where all the fun is. And so its the 21st century on planet earth in this solar system inside this galaxy and youre on a computer or phone and talking to yourself on your actualized.org forums on this thing you invented called the internet to have this exact conversation so you can realize you don't really need the internet and others to have this conversation as a way to remind yourself that infinity is whatever you want it to be and you want it to be good (you don't need to drag this world along with you). When you're ready, the mountain will move when you tell it to. But much like sex, the conversation is better and thus the ideas and possibilities are better, when you're on the outside of inside.
  14. I think that what we all want to be or become here is to find a way to see what is in front of us and as fast as possible understand if we have a woman or man that is worthy of our time and energy or not. Of course, Dicernment,self honesty etc.. is important. But we want guidelines, first principles, some bluprint that we can use to avoid traps.

  15. Brahmacharya

    Pineal replied to stephenkettley's topic in Personal Development -- [Main]

    @Leo Gura 😂😂😂😂 Self-deception
  16. 1) Regularly in the video you posted the narrator, emphatically, invokes Daniel 12 and Matt 24. But. There are other groups who use those same verses to prove that their guy is the messiah, too. Their proofs are equally plausible as those being presented in the video. You may disagree, but, that's because you're already convinced. But I challenge you to review someone else's proof texting of these verses and find fault in it which doesn't occur in the narrator's scriptural proof. https://bahai.works/Prophecy_Fulfilled/Text 2) People have been guessing at the "end-times" for a long time. "... Historically, such predictions have been made for the purpose of diverting attention from actual crises like poverty and war, pushing political agendas, or promoting hatred of certain groups... According to psychologists, possible explanations for why people believe in modern apocalyptic predictions include: mentally reducing the actual danger in the world to a single and definable source; an innate human fascination with fear; personality traits of paranoia and powerlessness; and a modern romanticism related to end-times, resulting from its portrayal in contemporary fiction." https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_dates_predicted_for_apocalyptic_events. "... reducing the actual danger in the world to a single definable source ... " ^^ broad-brush over generalization satisfies an unsettled mind ^^

  17. Journal

    Someone here replied to Someone here's topic in Self-Actualization Journals

    Dream wife material lmao 🤣
  18. Not married but dated one for last 3 months. Of course being 44 and dating a girl with 19 is great, but eventually the communication stop flowing, her tamtruns started to anoy me and I ended up with the exact point your said " What was you expecting" ??

  20. I'm moving to China

    Heaven replied to WonderSeeker's topic in Personal Development -- [Main]

    What languages do you speak? Most people speak English there? Are you engaging with locals or just expats? Friends of mine went to a cruise ship in China and they were shocked by Chinese manners. They said they would never go back.😅 Im surprised to see Westerns who are excited about China
  21. Men aren't really orgasm oriented. Actually. Women are. But you're right it's not the motion or the size that creates the orgasim, its something ineffable. It has to be the perfect storm. Like the perfect miracle that made earth inhabitable compared to billions of other planets. It had all the ingredients. But the orgasm the woman has is the end result. That's what locks her. Welcome back - it's about time.
  22. Yes in one sentence a man that adds value to their lives and helps them solve their problems as opposed to adding new ones.
  23. Owen outside of US? That’s a first.
  24. Today
  25. Yes this is very true but not how you think. They want a masculine man. A guy who is handy. Can fix things. Can be strong. Caring too of course. But they need a man's man. In the bedroom too. That's the bottom line. And level headed and calm.
  26. There's an ignore list ? 😀😃

  27. TS SO PEAK

    NewKidOnTheBlock replied to NewKidOnTheBlock's topic in Self-Actualization Journals

    It's crazy work that even a wagie cagie such as myself has managed to amass such a lucrative amount of liquid net worth for my age bracket. I rank probably like 60-75 percentile and I don't even count poor places of this planet, literaly just Global North. Lmao even with my puny second world cash flow, throught the sheer power of absolutely zero life and indestructable frugality, I am still better off than most American wagies who are making incomparably larger salaries
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