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  2. Well, that sounds exactly like the consciousness view. Consciousness does not have a bottom, edge, it is not something or previous condition. Consciousness can't be thought too, it is what holds thoughts. The absolute as you say, must be infinite, how is it not infinity? It is open indeed, but that openness is consciousness. Consciousness is just a pointer word for absolute, exactly your view.
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  4. From your perspective what i said is toxic abuse? and what i said is he needs life experience to know what hes looking for.
  5. He's in a toxic abusive relationship with you. His girlfriend is not toxic, just not what he's looking for.
  6. Dude your acting like hes in a toxic abussive relationship and im telling him to accept it.
  7. I see Ok, but how about the experience of being "involved", I think I'm mainly referring to mental activity here if I'm interpreting my experience accurately. So feeling a little "push and pull" dynamic inside, and how it seems, yea, that it's me that is center of that and involved in it, and at the affect (maybe wrong word grammatically) of it, but not the main controller no. That to me doesn't seem like "a thought or idea" but rather, as I said, some kind of sense of involvement and being intertwined with the mind. So it connects to the point about the chooser sense, not the same but I guess its same place where it originates
  8. That's toxic as fuck
  9. For anyone with life experience.
  10. For you
  11. But "you" aren't ultimately the reality! That's the apparent issue with being identified as/with the spirituality conditioned mind. Sure the conditioned imagination is unlimited, but there isn't a real Breakingthewall character period! That exact character that believes it's unlimited, is an illusion!
  12. "met an incredibly loving, loyal, beautiful woman. We are highly compatible in lifestyle: both introverted, home-oriented, physically attracted to each other, and comfortable living together. She takes care of the home, I provide financially, and the relationship is peaceful and easy." this is the ideal relationship. I would of accepted "peaceful" as the only requirement.
  13. For sure. It's not a coincidence there is a whole industry around it that has a reputation for being toxic. @Ulax ths only "pick up" advice people need is have somewhat good small talk/conversation skills and just enough self confidence to ask to hang out again somewhere.
  14. He's not, he wants his current girlfriend, whom YOU are idolizing as a unicorn, plus some intellectuality, that's it.

  15. I'm moving to China

    WonderSeeker replied to WonderSeeker's topic in Personal Development -- [Main]

    Sounds like a plan man Btw - I followed you on IG. If you ever find yourself out this way hit me up and maybe we will meet. There are all these little tricks you wanna know if you come out here that will go a long way! You must be curious about exploring other cultures ... what kind of value are you getting from watching vids? Thainking about travel or just for the educational vibes? I've been eating up this guy's stuff lately. He is a fluent Chinese speaker with phenomenal social skills who walks thru markets and chops it up with everyone. Videos full of his manadrin and pinyin tranlations --- great for learning and practicing the langage at any level (even as a full blown newbie like me). He makes you feel like he's taking you on a 1st person tour of the country.
  16. I didn't say he had to settle. I said if he has a problem he needs more life experience and that means he has to leave the relationship and get that experience But don't expect some rainbow unicorn woman at the other side
  17. You're just making stuff up
  18. @Elliott Realistically what you could hope for is a woman who's going to hug you when you come home from work and tell you that she loves you.
  19. Doesnt matter. What matters is how you're basing what you should be based on what you think women want, which makes you inherently unattractive to them.
  20. Ya, "PROBLEM" not 'the only way she could be more perfect' What you're doing is telling a friend he needs to settle at the tetanus shot pizza bar, instead of walking down a block more for Guisseppes, what he actually wants, not that Guisseppes is perfect, they don't suck your dick while you smash some meat-lovers, it's not a poolside pizza place, it just doesn't give you food poisoning.
  21. You just claim whatever your gut feeling tells you, first you claimed you only support dissproportionate taxes on the wealthy and that some billionaires are fine (those who ideologically agree with you - even though you included Jeff Bezos into that category which makes little sense, since most socwokies definitely would not like him lol); then in the next post you claim big multinational companies should not exist - which entails billionaires should not exist, also what do you think taxes on unrealized gains, assest and income in general are if not forcefull redistribution of wealth, how else would you call it? LOL Percentage of big multinationals that got bailed out because of bankrupcy out of the total number of big billion dollar multinational companies that failed/filed for bankrupcy, is insignificant - and you could say most of it is the fault of the goverment and banks (although banks are also companies, but of special kind), maybe certain shadowy elites - whatever. But, there are some billion dollar companies filling for bankrupcy every single year in the US alone, granted in much, much lower quantities than the amount of small businesses filling for bankrupcy every year, but it happens. And none of them gets bailed out. Also, smaller businesses do get benefits from the goverment that huge companies do not get - and it's not true the other way around. And the bail outs do not really reocur, it's not a regular, normal thing at all. That's a big exaggeration That's a simplification and not really true for Vietnam and Taiwan; there are stronger forces at play here So by your logic, companies should never get big, despite groundbreaking innovations, they should just do them for free out of the goodness of their heart because otherwise they get big and evil - and they have to redistribute all the excess money into socwokie bank accounts lmao ok. I can see this working perfectly. Ignoring all incentives
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  23. Yea it makes sense
  24. MIMINUM? He said the only problem with his wife is that she's intellectually not his equal. That means she qualifies at every level except for one. Anyways the problem has nothing to do with the girl it has to do with him not having experience, and not knowing what life is about and prioritizing small details that and he thinks fixing these small details are going to bring him happiness
  25. He's not waiting for perfection, he's waiting for what he wants, his minimums. There's a HUGE difference.
  26. Pickup is almost an anti thesis of good relationships.
  27. You're at the beginning of the journey not the end. That perfect woman doesn't exist, you're going to find someone marginally of better compatibility. Don't confuse one realization for understanding the whole journey here.
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