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  2. ? If you mean that what is high-value in the context of female attraction isn't an objective status signal for men, then I agree. Whenever I say high-value guy I mean it in the context of what female attraction regards as a high-value guy.
  3. @Carl-Richard In psychology there is a well known phenomenon called rosey retrospection. Even WW2 can look romantic in retrospect from a distance. The mind forgets the most ugly parts of the past. What book is gonna portray the rape and pillage of pirates accurately?
  4. High value according to her values *
  5. Yeah, but attraction ain't logical.
  6. Surrendering to your emotional reality is precisely what will make you masculine.The impression of stoicism comes precisely from being absorbed by one's emotional world. If it is in fact emotional crushing, it may superficially resemble masculinity from a certain point of view, but it is actually feminizing since the source is unconsciously castration anxiety. We can talk about neurodivergence, obsessive neurosis…

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  8. My opinion is they are attracted to high-value guys who's value they see as relatable and attainable. Or you can also say trust instead of R&A. Value is mainly determined by what made sense in caveman time as value. And then life experiences/ social conditioning adds a unique twist to what value ultimately looks like for the girl. Examples of cavemen value are: - Competence, power & influence, social status And things like humor are attractive in so far as they imply you have one of these caveman values. I.e. humor implies competence of intelligence. Further its an honest signal you're relaxed enough to have fun which implies social status and competence, as if you had had terrible social experiences you wouldn't be relaxed enough to be humorous, or feel safe enough to attempt it. Trust works the same as value in this way. But these emotional things you describe I'd mainly class as in the trust part of the equation. And, these emotional things you list only make her happy if they see him as a high-value guy who they trust. So, if she smiles receiving a flower, she isn't smiling because its romantic. Its because its a positive thing occurring between her and a high-value guy who she trusts, or she's smiling because its bumping the trust levels up.
  9. I was always afraid he might tighten up on me. But he never did. It was my reptilian girlfriend's snake (thats what I call her) we still talk to this day but she just goes with a lizard nowadays. I guess a lot easier.
  10. This is my fave Alex Grey painting, the way everything is translucent reminds me of how everything can feel illusory. Made out of pure consciousness out of nowhere from nothing, at high states of consciousness.
  11. Wow, I can imagine that right now in my minds eye. Thanks for the description.
  12. Lol. Oh but there was. He was fucking ginormous too. Wrapped around my neck fully extended almost touched my toes and I'm 5"9.
  13. What are you? An entity behind the eyes. For me it was a hidden entity. A soul, if yoi wish. But a soul turned out to be a thought or an idea in my mind. So what do you think you are?
  14. Exactly
  15. Except they’d be more likely to sleep with the emotional guy and regret it because he’s exiting but unpredictable. The masculine guy would be more logical and mature.
  16. The women I feel most drawn to are those who are emotionally similar to me.
  17. By definition it is a field. When you think of yourself an image of a field, however you picture it, comes to mind. But notice that is a picture in your mind and that is the idea of what you hold in your mind as you. That is not the same as you. Notice this
  18. You’d think they’d never seen a snake before. Oh Wait.. they hadn’t. There’s no snake.
  19. Mine too.
  20. When it's one's own culture/ancestors, it's even more powerful because you "were" them and the identification is more obvious (simple "our side", in-group vs out-group dynamic), but it even happens with other cultures, given sufficient distance into the past. You might feel more pulled to justify the ills of your own ancestors (just like you justify your own ills today), while other people in the past you just view as more neutral because their ills don't affect you (you don't perhaps feel as pulled to justify them but simply ignore them).
  21. Why a field cannot be me? This field is happening to me, ever since i came out of existance, this field it's been here the entire time its undeniable
  22. I’m ears
  23. Ok that. Now I want you to zone in on that specifically because this is what you hold as your identity. But notice a field cannot be you. It is a field. So it isn't you. If you were a field you would be a field.
  24. @Nevon You don't have to remove the idea. Just stay with the recognition that it is just that; an idea.
  25. Absolutely, I hate it. It hurts my eyes and my brain actually.
  26. If i strip away the idea of consciousness, im not able to pin point on myself, im genuinely clueless, I don't know. If im force to pin point on myself, i am this entire field that is happening to me right now. This field is me.
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