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  2. What do you consider to be "feminine"?
  3. I don't know Daniel Schmidt well enough. Maybe it's true what you say, even if I didn't get the same impression as you got. But I sense lot of projection and I doubt you have seen his work? Thing is, I do believe there is constant communication going on, and I do believe that there's SOME resonances mechanism with "external reality". Maybe I experience reality that way because I want to see it that way, maybe it's a case of John C Lilly's "whatever you believe either is true or becomes true". Don't know, it's simply the way I experience life. Simple stuff I experienced like I say something now to person A, and a few minutes/ hours/ days later person B that was maybe 1000km away and never ever was in touch with person B picks up the exact context and words. That kind of resonance as one example. Leaving this side-topic aside, my personal biggest awaking jump came from simply being present. Just sitting and moving attention though my body, or watching breath, or just sitting. So for you it's will, for me it's being present, for others it might be substances, or jerking off at midnight. So what to take from it? Nothing. Nothing but personal experience. Many people project their experience into generalized "that's the way it's is". I think that's BS. I say no one knows how it works and just looks for a coherent story. Of course, might be that I do that too - just with my own generalized story of " you are wrong it can't be known" 🤣
  4. Fair. But it also shouldn’t be assumed everyone needs or wants to run as fast as Usain Bolt on steroids.
  5. Shinzen Young couldn’t meditate until he practiced under a Vajrayana master in Japan. Tibetan Buddhists call it mind training. It takes dedicated effort to slow down the momentum of the mind. Most lazy westerners give up or fall under the delusion that taking a drug will do the same thing.
  6. I have been myself to these events. At the time I liked it, people felt open minded. However I feel like I have outgrown these things and I can now see that there is a lot of issues with this lifestyle as well. But it is still a step up from a the traditional christian purity culture, no doubt. It's just limiting in my experience. And obviously hedonism does not lead to fullfilling life.
  7. I didn't imply that, that's just you knowing that it is deceptive and abusive, and your emotional overeaction making that assumption is just more attempt at deception. I like casual sex, never done pickup though, I don't go out for sex or target women, that's what losers do. I was just using the term flippantly.
  8. @Hojo Are you regurgitating stuff you read online or have you deeply pondered this and lived through this situation to come to this conclusion? It just seems like theory and not reality. As someone who's dated many women and had even more casual sex that's not really how I felt about the experience nor is it what I see in other men I know. Plenty of relationships are fulfilling. And I was fulfilled in them for a while until some lack of alignment and conflict presented itself that ruined the fulfillment of the relationship. It's not that complicated to find a compatible partner that enjoys sex as much as you do and to both have a mutually fulfilling relationship. You have to date a lot and introspect on yourself and work on communication skills.

  9. Leo's Blog Discussion Mega-Thread

    Rafael Thundercat replied to Leo Gura's topic in Personal Development -- [Main]

    Here in Bahia Brasil I am observing a very interesting fenomena. Was woman here that opened my eyes to it. Foreing girls from Germany,France, and other countries coming for sexual turism. Not the same way men do when they travel to Thailand etc.. this woman dont need to pay, they come and make themselfs available to locals. One can feel the vibe. They have little time to act, so they very fast find what they want and go for it. This idea that man only is the ones searching for sex is a myth. When a woman want, she will iniciate and make easy to sex happen. They pick what attract them. As Orion Taraban said in one video "woman want many qualities in a man, but they want it in man they are already atracted.

  10. Inception (Journal)

    Inception replied to Inception's topic in Self-Actualization Journals

    Post #183 From now on my goals is to spend as much time asleep.
  11. Therapy Time Making Love Liminal Space
  12. The perspective is different; the building is still the same.
  13. What if i stopped going thru the same door and expecting a different result?
  14. What I meant is, there's one and only one [ correct intellectual conception ] which includes them all. Hopefully I haven't misunderstood? The "peak experience" or stable realization you referred to can be described, maybe, as a non-dual inclusion of these states within one's awareness? If so, there can be one and only one complete non-dual realization which includes them all. It makes sense that only a rare few would possess an intellect capable of apprehending such a realization, even for an single moment.
  15. It is the economic struggle and "I want settle for less" mentality. I think guys still want to procreate. Men have to join the passport bro's. Last year I met some young asian women (in my home country, not abroad) and I was flabbergasted how feminine they were. It was a breath of fresh air.
  16. @LordFallNo my view on it is what I first commented on that your in a relationship with someone to fullfill your sexual fetishes. It will happen its already happening. Im not demonizing sexuality I am demonizing you saying my partner is there to be my cumslut. 'A relationship is meant to fulfill you otherwise why be in one? Forced breeding? ' This statement You cannot be fullfilled. This leads to domination. First its im not fullfilled until I fuck a pussy, then its im not fullfilled till I fuck an ass, then its im not fullfilled until I face fuck a woman, then its im not fullfilled till I spit on her face. ect ect ect. Handcuffs or whatever. You might not like some you might really like some. But to think it will ever fulfill you is a trap. Nothing in this life will give you happiness to fulfill you.
  17. This NOT about genetics. This about LIMITS. Contemplate on the nature of limits.
  18. OCD is like a corrupt police chief. It feels authoritative, but it’s not the law.
  19. @Judy2 Maybe they just tough it out. What's the longest that you have run? For me it was 17km, and boredom wasn't an issue because something was happening every minute, if you try to notice the condition of your body, your breathing patterns, the current challenge (maybe slights uphill on the road), that makes more engaging. But aside to that, just accepting the boring part of it as well. Just imagine someone like David Goggins, or Andy Glaze or some ultrarunner who run days, not hours, there can't be any technique that they can use, maybe they start labelling colours for some hours but I can't imagine doing that for 40 hours or more. Maybe they just tough it out and that's where their strength is.
  20. It is a wonderful expression of consciousness but it is not my priority in life. I do like sex
  21. There's a infinity of different high and complete states of consciousness, like a singularity breaking through in every direction and dimension while simultaneous collapsing into every direction and dimension for Infinity mirroring itself into more Absolute Infinities. So it's not like there's one conception, there's Infinite Abundance, the doubt is how far you'll reach compared to others.
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  23. Yes you have a good point that we don't know the limit so we should just assume there aren't and shoot to the moon. The harsh truth comes when you see someone directly born in the moon and they are shooting for another Galaxy.
  24. Hello Davino, it's nice to meet you. Thank you for the thought provoking topic. Yes, because there's only one correct intellectual conception of the "highest states of consciousness", reaching these states requires significant intellectual resources and effort and/or just dumb luck. It's a good reminder.
  25. @theleelajoker My point is that every individual is born with a different infinite possibility space
  26. But what if that were the truth? That some truths are unfindable because you're a human and not an alien or a spider or a fifth dimensional being or who knows what. Contemplate you'll never know how it feels like to be a woman, have breasts, pussy, the period, being pregnant, giving birth, giving milk to your child... You'll absolutely never know the inner truths of that, unless maybe you die from this form and somehow be in another form with other limitations.
  27. You seem to air on the side of demonization of human sexuality. Do you have some trauma around it or have grown up in a very religious culture? If so you don't have to share but realize that this is tainting your view. Sexuality can indeed be an unconscious display of urges or it can be a deeply conscious process of both exploration of the self and the communion with other. Your view on it doesn't sound healthy and I'm sure it's not pleasant to live and think that way.
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