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What psychotic symptoms are you referring to ? It sounds like you are anticipating Leo to lose it one day and take actualized.org down a dark path ?
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Best advice I ever heard was "if you want to love someone, find someone and love them".
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Sitting in the train now. Two thoughts flash my mind 1) I should respect myself more. Doing the trip is people pleasing. 2) I am in fact very productive in the train. But this is kinda working accidently, I am hiding my people pleasing side under this excuse.
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enchanted replied to enchanted's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
So true. Or like shipping black people over seas to build your country for free and then hating them at the same time! And racist say black people are dumb!!! Oh the lack of self awareness!! -
I taught the point of the question was asking how you could get your desires met and feel fulfilled in life. That's the only reason I spoke. I'm not speaking to make myself feel better about myself. Do you have self worth, do you feel self-secure, self-confident, self-fulfilled? What Lord said is to get people to this point, there is nothing else going on, i just said it directly bluntly.
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Leo is not the only conscious, awake God-released person on the planet.
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enchanted replied to shubhamsharma's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
He's mostly great, teaches similar stuff to Leo, but as @Breakingthewallthe points out there are some inconsistencies about him. This is why you don't worship the man but rather listen to what he has to say and move on with your life. He never claimed to be perfect and his public celebrity status is a double edged sword. On one hand his message would never reach people if he wasn't popular. On the other hand his celebrity status makes him vulnerable to all sorts of scrutiny and criticisms (see comment above). It does matter of he's a "fraud" or "how he comes off", either his words are true or they aren't. Once you get the message hang up the phone with K and don't start measuring his shoe size etc. -
Or at least it has elements of Blue: -us vs them - black and white mentality. -cultish dynamics - people like us believe in things like this; I was wondering if Spiral dynamics measure some cultural aspects or the level of consciousness... Because we see behaviours in excess of Green that are typical to the levels of consciousness we find in Blue people.
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No it's a desire that essentially varies depending on the context. I myself tend toward Asexuality these days. That's good you must be very handsome You're inflating your ego at the expense of my messages; that's why I never talk about this online normally. I will stop respond to this topic; it’s globally useless except making the “bad persona” worst.
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When the migrants counter-racist you
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Also greater strain on welfare and housing and lowers wages. Why hire locals to paint your house when you can hire east-europeans who do it for half the pay? Unless you filter for high skilled migrants, they will on average earn less and be less educated. Mass migration tends to benefit elites the most. Your average conservative voter isn't really thinking about who works the factory jobs. A center right migration policy is the most politically sustainable currently imo. Something that only the furthest left parties tend to object to. Even your mom and dad lefty parties like British labor are strict on migration. Denmark has had the strictest migration policies as EU country for ages despite being a progressive welfare state. Sweden has done a complete 180 since the Merkel days.
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Mellowmarsh replied to Majed's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
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This one post in particular is very good at targeting most of things that I have issue with. it speaks for itself.
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We all want sex, it doesnt go away ike wanting to eat and sleep. The difference is i got sex my entire life very easlity and now im ok with not getting it and being alone. I also have very high self-esteem and self confidence and feel good about my self all the time. So from this possition its possible to let things go and not need your ego and identity attached to getting sex. But from what i can tell from what you said, you are not at this stage yet and it would be best for you to go out there and "become a man". The "become a man" is realizing your self worth and becoming self-secure, self-confident, self-fulfilled... you get it lol. All of this takes practice and life experience to rewire who you are as a person. So you have to go out there and play.
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Less about “where”. More about “who”. ”Where” comes after you have profiled yourself accurately. Many guys and gals find themselves through relationships. This can be healthy, and other times it can be very unhealthy. Maturity levels this eventually to where at the very least self knowledge is leveraged towards becoming more of a strategic actor. When you start acting in a way where you start reflecting deeply on your own self awareness to the point where you don’t want your strategic drives to be a burden on your partner and so you actively arrange your life to ensure your partner feels emotionally safe to be in that world knowing you will complement theirs. Well, providing you are still putting your mission first thats one of the positive signs that they could be a keeper, or rather, that you could be. Phase one of a relationship always begins with yourself never your partner or a potential partner. This is where you establish the boundaries between yourself and the world at large. Phase two of a relationship happens now through a place of self-knowledge and the greater world at large. Now you get to instrumentally insert yourself into life where you receive a return on investment instead of wasting your life away. This is where your “where” begins to mean something, and “attraction” should happen naturally, not forced. Phase three of a relationship is where you begin to understand one another’s worlds and how those worlds intertwine for the long term, because chemistry is already established emotionally and cognitively; psychological balance is settled. This is now compatibility with respect to the temporal worlds. Life paths compatible or not? Marriage or no marriage? Children or no children? Healthy family (their surname) to bridge with or irrelevant? Etc. Most guys on this forum seem to have the Ashley Madison version of wifing or girlfriending up. In reality though, a “click and play” life partner in the digital world is not how people live in the real world or in the short fling space that momentarily caters to a short lived fantasy. Truly mature bonding between two people (or even more) occurs with foresight, which, as I began this, starts first and foremost, through hindsight. At least 40-70 percent of people I recognise will likely take a long time if ever to properly digest this sound advice, much less follow it in setting up a potential marriage. Thats about the global average of divorce with a big swing. The very fact that people have turned against marriage because of divorce rates rather than critically thinking about the underlying reasons and proposing a more refined model accordingly for themselves to follow, validates this reality. A reality, any reader here would likely wish to avoid for themselves. Our partners are not about “I”, as one last point, we are creating a shared meaning space and in order to create one that is balanced, we must first organise the meaning space that exists within ourselves, and from here, with the world at large. This invariably leads to a relationship that genuinely benefits the world directly or indirectly, or at the very least, not being a burden on the world nor the people around oneself. This is stage four. Best wishes.
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Lmao this killed me
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I have to admit it has swag
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A friend of mine is celebrating his birthday today. It would be about a 3 hour drive to the place, then about a 3 hour stay and then about 3 hours back. I cant decide if I want to go or not. I kind of dont want to, but I could actually be pretty productive in the train. He was completly understanding if I wouldnt want to go. I have to dedide in the next 5min aaaahh!!
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Next Curt Jaimungal's thumbnail.
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I'm usually quite alone but sometimes out of curiosity or for a laugh, I watch videos of pickup artists kissing girls etc. If I let myself get carried away by the vibe, if I feel it and allow myself to be penetrated, the situation reverses and I suddenly become thirsty for sex or simply for social interaction; like a starvation feeling. It's not a particularly intelligent vibe but it's invigorating; it's a change from my very dry, asexual, intellectual ADHD vibe lol, perched behind my computer with my Red Bull.
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Thanks I'm not particularly worried about the competition. In the same time 😏 Jk Yes Thanks lol that's kind to want to help like that They are all AFK lol I will make the necessary arrangements 👍 Sorry I don't have much to add.
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No match for Ken Wilber for example. I actually think Leo's "original work" (if we can call it that, and I'm not just being overly cynical; claims to originality is a difficult issue) is quite unstructured and relatively simple. Most videos are more or less rants that go into each other. A video like "Epistemic responsibility" is a re-vamped video of "What is Survival". And the concepts are things you can learn in quite standard graduate and undergraduate courses. I can't actually identify any "grand syntheses" that do not boil down to something like "everything is survival", no Four Quadrants style systematization, no truly formalized theories, again rants. And that's to be expected as truly inventing new paradigms or meta-systems like Wilber requires a kind of cognitive complexity that is truly rare. That isn't to say Leo is "simple", but he is less radically inventive and original than what he might claim to be. And that's also to be expected when there is clear hubris like "being the most awake person in existence". This ≠ "the best place". It's so desperate this kind of p-hacking style of argumentation.
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gettoefl replied to VeganAwake's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
All I know is, I am. I need drop the this and the that, the here and there. When I leave it, it leaves me. The rest happens without any help. I don't know much but this is what I recognise so far. -
Legendary winning prediction by @Gesundheit2 there. I remember that cup like it was yesterday. Time did flied by.
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Thanks for sharing the creativity video. Really liked it!
