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  2. I appreciate it! Definitely one of the secret weapons with women, they love playing with them.

  3. Conformity Examples Mega-Thread

    Yimpa replied to Husseinisdoingfine's topic in Personal Development -- [Main]

    I’ve created a seperate thread to share examples of non-conformity. Feel free to check it out here!
  4. We've got a ton of examples of conformity here. Now let's discuss examples of non-conformity here!
  5. Interesting perspective.
  6. Yes because the military attracts sociopaths, even professional/high-budget armies. The force acting as Palestine's military committed numerous acts of cruelty whenever they managed to enter Israel periodically, yet that doesn't stop you from defending them. Lol that same passive-aggressiveness again.

  7. Journal

    Someone here replied to Someone here's topic in Self-Actualization Journals

    3 days without smoking. I’m experiencing the same withdrawal symptoms again, especially the emotional sensitivity. I’ve noticed that I can become emotional over very small things. For example, if I accidentally break a dish, I can suddenly start crying. It feels strange because normally something like that wouldn’t affect me so much. I’m honestly not sure how much of this emotional sensitivity is related to quitting smoking. I know nicotine withdrawal can affect your mood, but I don’t want to assume that everything I’m feeling is because of that. What’s interesting is that physically, I actually feel much better. I feel more energized, I have more energy in my muscles, and I’ve been eating well lately. My body feels healthier, while emotionally I feel much more sensitive and vulnerable. For now, I’m trying not to fight it or judge myself for being emotional. I’ve been meditating and using simple mantras like, “Everything is okay,” and “You are safe.” I repeat them when I feel overwhelmed, and it helps me calm myself down. Maybe this is just part of my body and mind adjusting to being without nicotine. I’m trying to be patient with myself and let these emotions pass instead of overthinking them.
  8. Also profund existencial secrets that could bring Huge internal peace and advantages in longevity
  9. If one has a supermemory it can predicts severas futures outcomes from different áreas of life included(but not limited to) make cash
  10. Hip hop and street the first 10 years, then I started branching out taking inspo from other dance styles to develop my own unique style. Also with spiritual growth and psychological maturity, hip hop started resonating less and less. Are you a dancer as well?
  11. W self-determination
  13. I like the curls bro. You good. Haha.
  14. Most of my favourite musicians probably made 0$ from me
  15. Yes, they say that our brains need proof and not promises of what we're capable of. Taking smaller steps before taking bigger ones makes sense and slowly but surely proves to your brain that you are in control of your environment and life. You may not able to sleep with the hottest girl you know this week but you could invite her to a cool event you're hosting this year or have connections to a cool event that somebody else is hosting. Then you can make friends with her and meet other hot girls and soon enough you'll have a big circle and plenty of hot girls that are open to dating you. Combine this social capital strategy with a cold approach and online dating strategy and your dating life will become a pleasant adventure that happens on your terms.
  16. @TheBG the fact that you are proud makes you not be stage purple, keep kidding yourself.
  17. This is good. Now you can focus on your life purpose and meeting people that matter to help you reach it. Most friends are friends of convenience, not really valuable allies for us in time of need. That's why it's important to learn intentional networking and social circle game. Finally got out of the drunk tank huh! It's good to see you back man. I don't have a monogamous girlfriend right now. You can see some of the girls I hangout with on my Instagram https://www.instagram.com/p/DOH0JPxka8M/?img_index=1
  18. The sweet spot seems to be where both overlap
  19. Today
  20. I assume it's not personal most of the time it's just a dumb way to feel manly I used to do it in high school, like letting your peach fuzz grow out.
  22. @Leo Gura Agreed on attitude. Some people just aren't serious and don't want it badly enough. To be honest, a 9-5 isn't fulfilling to me either. There's so much I want to do in life, and it feels like not living up to my full potential or getting the most out of life. Attitude also pays off most in entrepreneurship. With your own business, pushing harder actually gets results. With a job, you can max out your skill and still get stuck at the filters: CVs, degrees, someone deciding to hire you. That's where I got stuck. What I see a lot here is people in a dream world: "I'll make music and it'll work out." Passion alone isn't the point. The question is what value you can provide that people will pay for. Getting good takes time, but it helps to be honest early: once you're good, would you pay for this yourself? If the answer is no, there's nothing wrong with keeping it as a hobby. Not every passion has to make money, and it's often more enjoyable when it doesn't have to. As you say, "your brain learns by contrast." Looking at what you did differently from others, a few principles stand out to me: Get really good at your craft Provide as much value as possible Listen to the market and make something people actually want or need Build a brand and following through content, so selling later is way easier Actually monetize your audience Stay consistent for years Marketing was the biggest insight for me. Most skilled people never learn it, so nobody knows they exist. None of this guarantees success, but following these principles raises the odds a lot, and missing one drops them fast. What do you think, is that most of it, or am I missing something? Also you said you can't be great at something you don't love. But what if it often works the other way too, and you start loving something because you got good at it? Most people don't enjoy things they're bad at. Research backs this: feeling competent is one of the core drivers of motivation (self-determination theory), and people who believe passion is something you discover tend to quit faster when things get hard (O'Keefe, Dweck & Walton, 2018). So maybe some people haven't found their passion because they haven't gotten good at anything yet. How do you see it: does passion have to come first, or can it be built through skill?

  23. [Reminder] Love is in Shabbat 💖

    Schizophonia replied to Schizophonia's topic in Personal Development -- [Main]

    You've got it exactly right. 👍

  24. Leo's Blog Discussion Mega-Thread

    Rafael Thundercat replied to Leo Gura's topic in Personal Development -- [Main]

    Society if Fakery and No Empathy no God are interesting to make a meta analysis. Reading both together and reflecting on the paradoxes between both. I am still in process of doing it. Using AI do built the argument, but recommend people here to contemplate and question personally. I mean, the writing is great, but still one can see some paradoxes.

  25. Conformity Examples Mega-Thread

    Unlimited replied to Husseinisdoingfine's topic in Personal Development -- [Main]

    People with dreadlocks, tattoos and piercings in the psytrance scene.
  26. that's real stuff
  27. Do you regard "highly meaningful to you" as more important than "highly meaningful for mankind"? What if the work is highly meaningful to me, but not all people find it meaningful?
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