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  2. Definitely, that kind of behavioral awareness is very important to get down
  3. Calibration is important, the woman responds to your interest in her but what she really values is the emotional experience that surrounds it. That's why studying game is important so you can understand the mechanics that most people take for granted. Push pull for example is a mechanism at the core of most human interactions and in terms of dating it comes across as flirting where you pull her in with your interest and you push her way with your lack of neediness or funny break in rapports comments in response to shit tests. There are a few other concepts worth learning like the man to woman dynamic that is the core to keeping the magic alive in long term relationships.
  4. Bingo! Couldn't agree more. You may get less sex when you look for connections that are truly aligned, but the sex or connections that you do have are much better and more fun. Once we drop the game of needing to be an alpha male who can sleep with a lot of chicks, a ton of stress drops
  5. This guy is a great authority lol.
  6. You don't choose what you believe so you can just be honest with what you believe. People who get stuck in "but you could be wrong" are just blind to what the feeling of belief is and they chase certainty. The supposed skepticism of belief becomes a way of not investigating what they really believe and instead they become unconscious of what they believe and the beliefs drive their actions without them knowing it. And being honest about your beliefs involves expressing them honestly. If you don't provide honest signals throughout your being (which involves action), you breed unconsciousness of those parts of yourself. Of course you can be wrong. But that is not what beliefs are about. It's about what you believe, what you think is reasonable, most likely, what makes the most sense to you. If you're 100% certain about a belief, or you expect 100% certainty when dealing with beliefs, you don't know what a belief is.
  7. When you are religious your relationship with God is first and foremost. The texts are ways to practice the religion.
  8. He was literally a warlord my guy. He was at times more diplomatic than others but he waged many wars of expansion and conquered, killed and many of his forces raped and enslaved people In January 627 at the Siege of Banu Qurayza he had hundreds of men executed and the women and children sold into slavery https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Siege_of_Banu_Qurayza I know you like the poetry but let's look at the pure facts here.
  9. @LordFall That’s fair. But, I looked into it a bit more. He wasn’t a warlord lord as most of those campaigns didn’t involve warfare. He wasn’t going around killing everyone. He did lead some battles/ wars. But, not as a warlord. To call him a warlord is simply not accurate.
  10. People will try to make you look bad. It becomes funny when you notice it.

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  13. Why aren't you going to the gym?

    Joseph Maynor replied to YIDIRYIDIR's topic in Personal Development -- [Main]

    I hate going to any gym honestly. Never resonated with me.
  14. Really the issue is do you have a direct experience with God or not? All this talk is nonsense outside of this question with respect to religion.
  15. Yes I think good game is the behaviour being behind appearing high value. Some people call it situational status. Learning to have low approach anxiety so women you encounter feel you talking to them as a confident and grounded man for example. Then you can work on your business, your career and your social media reach to become actually high status in society.
  16. Yes most men are stuck in a passive mode version of living life, they don't take massive action towards their goals consistently. We used to call it being at the cause and not the effect of life.
  17. And notice when others give attack mode to you. This is something to notice. It is an energetic habit.
  18. @Thought Art He was a caravan merchant in Mecca, a major trade hub at the intersection of Christian, Jewish, and Pagan trade routes. He was exposed to those theological ideas for decades before he started receiving visions in his 40s. You're familiar with his story right? Leading 20+ military campaigns, conquering the Arabian peninsula, and executing political rivals is literally the definition of a warlord. You can respect his political organizational genius and respect his contribution to human history without needing to mythologize him into a flawless saint.
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  21. god-realization reveals this. awakening from the duality of self and no-self
  22. What becomes the issue is will to do what is needed to start a business in a certain niche. You have to be willing to manifest the creativity and desire to provide value in that artform and produce artworks in that area with abundance.
  23. For sure, come by Montreal! We have beautiful women and delicious food, it's a sweet city to checkout especially if you haven't been. We can see if @integral will come out he's from here too, maybe there are others on the forum as well.
  24. @Sincerity -3 points and 3 day mute for an obvious joke/roast (she's not British)... She's not gunna sit on that pecker bro... chill Few more things: -Are you GenZ (seems very likely)? -How many reddit sub-communities are you a mod for?
  25. @LordFall Mohammad was not a warlord. God did not just give some confidence. It used him as the mouthpiece and organizer of Islam. The Qu’ran took 23 years to create. For a man who was not educated this book shouldn’t exist. He became a great leader, and through him divine mercy was spread, people were unified under one God. A god of which is described in great detail in the Quran and Islamic thought to shows Islam is rooted high level understanding of Gods nature not easily attained by an average mind or human state of awareness. He came from essentially being ignored to creating Islam. Impossible feat. He is deserving of respect. As a leader he fought wars, but this was part of governance. Not being a warlord. The fact that he not only wrote the Quran but that he took part in governance is very profound.
  26. There's plenty of polyamorous couples with kids lol, in various forms. Some openly raise them as a likea throuple or 4 people or however many and some just raise them as single parents or monogamous couples presenting and then when the kids are teenagers they sit them down for the listen kiddo me and your mother love eachother but we also date other people talk.
  27. @Miguel1 If you would listen the convesations of the Non-Monogamic people around me you would go crazy. Listening them I realise why Monogamy is the rule in the world. Non-Monogamic Retoric is so full of Relativism, Nuances and Ambiguity that sounds like non grounded at all, and a fertile ground for disapointment nd hurt. People like to play around with relationship structures not aware that they are just investing in future headache. My questions for these so called free people is " What happens when a child enter the arena? When the woman get pregnant and there are this little being asking for all sorts of attention? Where all the Polyamory, Non-Monogamic Retoric goes? Do the group organize? Share fairly the duties?
  28. @Miguel1 I think you're confusing a small 'friend group' with an expanding social ecosystem and proper social circle game. If you're talking about a group of 6 tight friends, yeah, dating through them causes drama and has limits. When I talk about social circle, I mean hosting events, building communities, and having an active lifestyle where new high-caliber people are constantly flowing in and out of your world naturally. You aren't 'wasting time' to get a date, you're literally just living a fun, fulfilling life, building your network, and meeting aligned women along the way. If cold approach work for you, awesome, but for many guys, building a real social circle is far more rewarding than grinding out dates and one night stands.
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