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  2. What Are Mental Disorders?

    Hojo replied to ExploringReality's topic in Mental Health, Serious Emotional Issues

    You can actually become a schizophrenic whenever you want. When you are outside just pretend that your own voice in your head is actually outside your head and everyone can hear it. Thats actually whats happening. If you think there is a voice behind you outside of reality you are crazy. You are misidentifying 'ones own voice.' Prove me wrong. You cant. You are guessing where the voice is coming from.
  3. @Hojo By the time I reach my tomb it will no longer be my own.
  4. @No1Here2cYou are looking out at life, from your own casket, pretending to interact with it.
  5. @Osaid @bazera Emotionally supporting your partner is very important and healthy to do but what I was talking about is when they misinterpreting your natural self. You can't always be on high alert, mirroring their emotions and comforting them. This is not healthy. And they will easily misinterpret your healthiness. And they will project unhealthy traits on to you like that you're irresponsible and not let these things go. And I'm saying this is common in first relationships where the woman will self-destruct by blaming you for everything Intimacy isn't about these Grand emotional romances, that's movie stuff and Fantasies women are telling guys to to do. Having a good moment with someone is intimacy, laughing together casually throughout the day. Cuddling, quality time, enjoying being a part of each other's lives is all intimacy and then you could go deeper into the intimacy when you really get to know someone and you feel like you have a really good connection with them. The more Synergy you have with someone the more intimate everything tends to become. Of course listening to their deepest issues and traumas and connecting with them in this way is all very important and part of intimacy. But if you're a stable healthy person then in general you're not going to be sharing your biggest traumas and expecting emotional support for it. it's just not something that's inside you, and not something that you need in a relationship. And that's perfectly healthy
  6. @Hojo Im sorry that flew way over mine
  7. What the fuck
  8. @No1Here2c
  9. How has your heavy metal chelation journey helped with this if at all? How long have you chelated for, and do you still do?
  10. Watch it in action. Isn't it gorgeous.
  11. @No1Here2cYou are dead already.How does death survive? It dosent, it lives. it dosent give a shit about survival.
  12. So long as you live survival is not over. Good example for us right here. See the aforementioned mechanism in action.
  13. Oh yeah, been there. She also had this tendency that she needed to care about me in an emotional way, and I'm generally used to care about myself and be self-sufficient as much as I can, even with my emotional life, because, hell, in the end it's just me, girls (or anyone who can support you for that matter) come and go and you can't be depended on anyone ultimately in that matter, and since my aim is towards developing that capacity more and more, it interferes with intimate relationships because girls expect more openness and sharing, and if you don't do it, they think something is wrong with you (at least the ones I've dealth with) But part of connecting with someone on that intimate level is emotional connection, so maybe the uncomfortable thing for me is the correct thing to do to succed in this.
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  15. Lying to yourself, is a survival mechanism. Survival is over, now you can reverse it, you had to do it so you will be seen as a good boy. Every time you go against yourself via a lie you will see it now. If you do something do it without worry of consequence. If you find yourself going against with what you are doing, as a worry or consequence, that is the lie. Be your own cheerleader, talk to yourself like you are cheering yourself on with everything you are doing or thinking. Even those you deem bad or negative. Everything you have deemed bad or negative about what you are doing it a lie.
  16. People fantasize about harming people all the time. Its deeply rooted and intuitive. Liberals dont get that most of the world is like this. They want to punish and harm you.
  17. So emotionally most people can understand and empathize with the teacher and even can be rooting for the teacher. But statistically violence teaches violence. There is a inner drive to want to harm others is built into everyone. The "punishment" desire is real, and deeply routed. This is what liberals dont understand about the world, that people yearn for violence deep down. People want to harm others that cross them, and harm does they dont like. Most poeple want to harm everyone they dont like. They fantasize about harming people all the time.
  18. But resistance is useful!
  19. Today
  20. Youd be surprised at the lasting trauma fear can induce
  21. As an American, its an irrelevant question I don't have to answer. I just don't want the wealth and blood of my country to pay for it. Israel is just another foreign nation that can do what they want.

  22. Lifestyle Poll ⭐️

    Natasha Tori Maru replied to integral's topic in Dating, Sexuality, Relationships, Family

    Haha - I wish. ENTP's are great! One step further for the full chadmogging - no hands. Just mouth on food
  23. Bro what the fuck are you talking about. She has problems with emotional regulation. It's a problem of being a 3 year old toddler in an adult body. "Female temperament", pfft, this is a child's temperament. "I want my dad!"
  24. Well that true lol. id be offended if the zombie wore perfume lmfao
  25. Yes he is narcissistic and got stuck in his ways. When did he say that? In the book he mentions it’s wrong to sleep with a woman under the pretense you committed then to discard her. You need to keep in mind he was coming up in a time where most guys didn’t even think you could get better with women or thought you just get women by having a job and buying them stuff. There were no YouTube videos with full infield. In that context it’s insane how many many insights he had. - smiling, eye contact, and talking louder on the open, 99% of guys fail to do this but it increases open dramatically - how to approach groups - negs, body rocking, these are nuanced topics so most guys do it wrong but when done correctly allowed average guys to open girls who normally are dating models and rockstars and would automatically reject everyone - false time constraints, simple way to dramatically increase opening success - preselection and other attraction switches to directly create interest, keep in mind before mystery most people had no idea this was even possible, also examples of creating preselection like merging sets and pivots - concept of attraction before comfort, remember most guys and most advice was all about comfort first and got guys friend zoned or worse when the girl had no interest in connecting because she wasn’t interested - qualification, one of his former students Sin said prior to learning this he slept with 8 girls in his life, after implementing this he slept with 8 in a month - moving locations creates the illusion of more time spent together creating rapid comfort - frame control as a concept at all Keep in mind before mystery there was little effective advice, most guys good with women didn’t know what they were doing right and didn’t care to tell others, he was the first resource that broke down everything and turned it into a system that can be logically understood. And yes, the complexity is the issue because most guys lack the baseline skill and experience to understand and apply it. Ironically though he democratized game advice to guys in a way he showed the dangers of presenting too high level concepts to people at a time when most weren’t ready or the tools of transmission weren’t adequate.
  26. Trying to stop caring about validation and instead caring about one's own behaviour is a better thing to care about than wheather other people validate you or not. Learned this after huge amount of suffering,insults and disrespectful interactions (even though they still happen now but now I care less about them ).

  27. Leo's Blog Discussion Mega-Thread

    Leo Gura replied to Leo Gura's topic in Personal Development -- [Main]

    Yes, very bad brain fog and even loss of brain functions like memory and thinking.
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