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  2. So what did you mean by that? Which is a perfect example of toxic shame. Instead of feeling a lot of shame around being a virgin, it will latch onto some other aspect of your psyche and justify your inadequacy by that.
  3. That is different from what you're saying I said. For example, it can help with virginity wounds
  4. Here basically. What kind of wounds do you expect it to cure?
  5. I'm confused. Where did I say trauma is just a lack of orange? And it will cure some wounds
  6. If trauma is just a lack of Orange, how do you explain high-performing CEOs, elite athletes or successful pickup coaches who openly struggle with anxiety, addiction, perfectionism or insecure attachment? They seem highly Orange while also being clearly traumatized. Conversely, plenty of emotionally secure people have little interest in achievement or optimization. Sleeping with a lot of woman is not going to cure any wound inside of you.
  7. I disagree. Unless you integrate stage orange well you will be in a state of trauma.
  8. You do not have to go through pickup to integrate healthy orange. Spiral Dynamics describes developmental values, while trauma describes nervous system and attachment patterns. Someone can be highly Orange and deeply traumatized, or relatively healed without being particularly Orange.
  9. Probably the contrast is what makes it special. Wouldn’t be nearly as meaningful to have it all if you hadn’t first been through a lifetime or more of deprivation. Although that still doesn’t explain why people go through unspeakably horrific waking nightmares. No individual would willingly subject themselves to things like gang rape, torture, etc. Even if the contrast once it’s eventually over is unlimited bliss in every way they ever wanted.
  10. It is a spiral stage. Orange is about personal effectiveness. A large part of trauma is lack of effectiveness.
  11. You objectively can change inner game without infield approaches unless you think no one improves inner game who doesn’t approach.
  12. This is not a spiral stage. This is a trauma I am talking about. People who had really good parents and childhood do not feel drawn to it and it is not because they are more evolved.
  13. I agree with him but I didn’t really like the video. Same with Mamdanis Netanyahu video. I feel like I could make the scripts way better.
  14. I get the ideas you have with regards to this. But you can't skip spiral stages.
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  18. Sunscreen in the morning then a cleanser followed up by a moisturizer in the evening. Those are the three essentials. I have an in depth blog witch covers pretty much everything somewhere. Will post later.
  19. That is precisely the myth shame keeps on telling you. You were born with true confidence, you lost it along the way. And it was not lack of woman in your life that caused it. I mean it could have been if the woman lacking in your life was your mother

  20. Your Recent Movie Picks

    FourCrossedWands replied to Nemra's topic in Off-Topic: Pop-Culture, Entertainment, Fun

    This is a very good movie if you like psycho thrillers

  21. Your Recent Movie Picks

    FourCrossedWands replied to Nemra's topic in Off-Topic: Pop-Culture, Entertainment, Fun

    Backrooms was a pleasant surprise this year. I was thinking it will be just another overhyped stupidity, but when I saw "A24" at the beginning of the movie, I knew this will be good. Obsession was OK, but the main character was extremely stupid lol.
  22. For sure. A lot of people who have delusional confidence live in delusions and don't get results or get humbled by smashing face first into reality. Inner game and true confidence come from proven competence.

  23. What is Love ?

    LordFall replied to Someone here's topic in Dating, Sexuality, Relationships, Family

    What you appreciate in reality and what you are open to willingly sacrifice for.
  24. I think it's much more common to have men who settled for mediocre relationships than successful playboys who now have issues with getting into a relationship if they want to. It does happen, that's what the sequel to The game is based on, The Truth by Neil Strauss. I haven't seen it too many times though and I've seen a lot of men get into relationships with mentally ill, boring or women who aren't very attractive because it was easier than finishing their self-improvement.
  25. I used to watch his videos and be a fan until the rape allegations came out. I gave him the benefit of the doubt when he talked about working with cam girls that seemed borderline line win-win. Then there is the story of one of the cam girls having a boyfriend and he just forced himself upon her and wouldn't take no for an answer and knowing his personality and character that sounded accurate so I switched from a fan to a harsh critic. Since then he's had like 10+ other rape accusations. Some men are not satisfied with win-win arrangements and want to impose their reality against the will of other beings and the law. I'm thankful to have been shown him and Trump as examples of what power at all costs as an ideology turns an ambitious individual into. There is no shame in changing your opinion on people and idea when you receive new information.

  26. The burden of infinite possibilities

    LordFall replied to Someone here's topic in Personal Development -- [Main]

    For sure a good friend shared it with me and it's been helpful, hope it can serve you well.

  27. Introduction and AMA

    Ramanujan replied to Ziran's topic in Personal Development -- [Main]

    @Ziran ok cool Nice
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