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@Jirh You can call it imaginary, but how will you experience it? I don't care about your philosophies.
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@Jirh you know the experience of animals?
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This is all what a healthy version or pick up artistry is about. - Detaching from your ego / need for outcome / grandiose and false self-image - Efficient way to meet new people romantically - PUA is about treating dating as a marketing funnel
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This one in particular is clearly imaginary for me. Not that I am above it, but that I see how it's constructed. A few thousand years ago, children were not seen as humans. They were survival machines, specifically created to extend the parent's territory. You kill one of my children? I enslave your wife and create two more. Also animals don't weep their dead children, they eat them. At least cats and some other species are so.
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I’m very absolutist from my beliefs and experiences. Life has shown me women are largely predetermined. They perceive you and pick you. You ain’t changing shit about them. You show up and they have already decided and pegged you where you’re at and you move the needle really only by your looks, status and lifestyle. You know within 5-15 mins if you’re in the fuck zone or not and all game does at that point is removes everything in your way from you getting her to the bed or fucking the situation up and getting her to change her mind which is what a lot of guys end up doing. I do not believe you can flip women from a no to a yes. They already have you pegged 5-10 mins after meeting you, sometimes within seconds. Ever got cold eyes when sitting next to a woman in a cafe that seem to not even notice your existence? They aren’t interested in you. You ain’t switching a no to a yes? It happens but it’s exceptionally rare and not worth the efforts
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@Elliott no. I don't. That's what I am saying in my post. ¿Comprende? That is different to not accepting. Or not being accommodating to their preferred pronouns and paying due respect. Or saying they are wrong, unacceptable or bad. You assume the worst of people systematically on these forums.
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There are positives and negatives to the showing intent and wearing your heart on your sleeve. To be honest I’m impartial to this approach because to me if I was in the game still meeting new women the forward approach 1) sorta gives me a bit more certainty. I do agree that the uncertainty and ambiguity is where a ton of sexual tension lies. Simultaneously it’s also just emotionally laborious for me to sit with uncertainty and I’ve found it’s better to lean more on my physical looks and status and play up the serendipity. It’s just what I enjoy and I don’t believe leaning into my weaknesses and draining approaches is the right idea. There is this notion that you need to always be pushing your edge and making yourself uncomfortable but that doesn’t make sense to me. Why should I feel uncomfortable when socializing and meeting women should be fun? So I’d rather leave a lay or two on the table if it means screen out heavy mind games and putting energy into social situations that are a bit harder for me to read. I’m by no means saying throw all subtly out. A subtle approach and not being so damn direct is key. I’m not so autistic that I can only understand a yes or no. I’m just saying that I know my strengths and weaknesses and I’d lean into subtly but communicate it pretty clearly through honest signals. You can clearly tell if a woman likes you by her body language. I don’t see any point in flipping a woman who is not that interested over to a yes. If that isn’t enough for a woman then I see that as redirection so someone who already perceives me as top. In many ways I’d rather filter and lean into girls who I already can see perceive me as sex god.
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Choosing a name for you baby Keeping the name your parents gave you Having only one name
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Forgetting - or establishing a habit? Maybe two sides of the same coin 🙃 Do something enough, repeated, and there is no need to remember. It becomes a habit. Like wiping your arse with tp. Practice makes perfect - whenever you fuck up just get back on the horse. Don't worry about falling off the wagon. The more you practice starting again the closer it becomes a habit and reflex.
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But you know transgenders.......
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Yes. Not only for "nerds". This applies to virtually everyone. Club girls are not long term relationship material. They're fun, but that's their limit. To add my 2 cents to the op; You can develop your social skills to crazy levels, but don't confuse that with finding a great long term partner. These are two different things. A "nerd" can be socially awkward and still land a hot wife. While someone with skill beyond imagination can end up alone, clubbing and cycling between shallow appearances.
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That's cool. You don't know me.
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Overall I think it has gotten better - especially over the last 3 years. There's some more fucked up rhotoric that irritates me, but not enough to impact my day - I want no sympathy: Women here are maligned for being emotional, feelings based. Unable to make proper decisions because "corrupt emotions" and never using intellect to make decisions with love - and generally just being painted with this frame of femininity "emotional, feeling, expressive, empathic, nurturing" etc. all well and good. Then there is a secondary dialogue of endless whinging and complaining that women don't use their head, aren't intellectual with decisions, aren't truthful. Work based off feelings etc. that we need to use rationality more. Be more forthright and honest. And then... "I am not attracted to masculine women, only feminine. Strong feminine polarity" but also don't be stupid and be in the feelings, also you need to be rational and intellectual like a man. But also don't be like a man because I won't be attracted to you. Pretzel yourself into impossible shit for me. I don't get it.
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When I lead a healthy lifestyle (meditating, eating clean, exercising, keeping good mental health, etc) I get used to this and forget how it is to live with unhealthy lifestyle. Then I fall back into bad habits like scrolling and my rut starts right here. I just forget how it is to live a good life. I look at other people who lead unhealthy lifestyles and sometimes I can think: 'Look, they are fine, nothing happened to them even though they scroll, drink and smoke a lot' and I fall back into rut here too. How to escape this forgetfulness? Appreciate your answers!
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@AerisVahnEphelia If you only work on art, are you working at marketing at all? The "art piece" is the value, but without marketing no one knows you, no one sees you, no one buys from you, simple as that. If you don't got eyeballs on you, good luck being another artist with 2k followers and nobody buying art pieces. It is simply not how the world works, there is no difference between getting attention for an art piece as there is to get attention towards anything else. Experimenting how to get that attention would be where 99% of the focus should be on in the beginning, instead of spending all your time improving your art, unless you are doing art as a hobby, then don't expect to make money from it or a sustainable income, just enjoy your hobby.
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I doubt that, what if it happened regularly
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With my newfound confidence and competence I find myself considering new possibilites to how I conduct my social life. Imagine I can just everywhere, be charismatic and well liked without much effort..
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With pleasure my friend thank to you to give us so much value, i genuinely appreciate your perspective and experienced view on pick up
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I had a weird dream today that there was a giant police or firefighting operation at one of my social spots going on. Well not the spot in particular but all around. And I walked right into it. Whenever I dream of something like this happens to a place of mine that feels like home my alarm bells ring.
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With all respect it is obvious for me reading your post that you are not going out to talk to girls and that you are not even trying, Cause you put so many projections and bad assumption within it that it seems just like excuses You can have kissed model that mean nothing and same if you went up a lot especially using drugs Claiming that you natural self can't game can easily be self deception unless you really tried hardcore to do something and be at least slightly good on this THEN at this moment you can tell it is me or not, plus pick up is a spectrum your view is awfully black and white an other indicator that you don't know what you are talking about There is some perspectives available in ur post but that are traps not conscious process to have relationship or get good socially
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Sounds fun! Well not to me at this point in time but generally so.. I guess there will be a lot of outfits?
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Tell God to create the official document, affix his signature, and deliver it to me from heaven down to hell(Earth) in 3 days. I will immediately sign the document to make it official. @LordFall I pondered the idea of becoming immortal seriously and deeply for a few years, about 11 years ago. I didn’t want to die. I wanted to live eternally. At that time, I believed it would be the greatest thing that could ever happen to me. But in the end, I realized I was completely wrong. It would actually be the greatest tragedy that could happen to me. It doesn't matter how intelligent, how handsome, how strong, how charismatic, how healthy, how, grateful, how appreciative, how, joyful, etc I am. In the end, I am a little worm compared to God, the unlimited self who possess unlimited intelligence, beauty, joy, love, excitement, power, etc. This automatically means my capacity to feel good, to comprehend, to succeed, to feel grateful, to explore, to enjoy, etc are limited because I inhabit a human body that is limited in all domains. This eventually results in dissatisfaction and suffering. It doesn’t even matter how beautiful or exciting the world becomes, because the world itself is still limited, and my ability to absorb and enjoy all its beauty is also limited. This surely leads to eventual dissatisfaction and suffering. Suppose I found a way to conquer the suffering, I would still end up feeling bored for eternity. This would be the greatest evil God could inflict on me! But I do support significantly extending the human life span. I think 200 years would be a good starting point. If that functions, then extend to 500 years, then to 1,000 years. I guess a limited human will suffer intensely after a few thousand years of life. The counterargument: "But humans will invent a technology that will upgrade their brain and spiritual capacity that will lead to eternal satisfaction." is weak. I don't and can't buy it. Ponder this: You possess a limited human body but want an unlimited lifespan? That would be a great mismatch, a big error.
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@Elliott no, I would just wonder if they were okay ¯\(°_o)/¯
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@Ulax whatever
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Analytical logic is a nice rebrand of blind theorising. I'm going to steal that one
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