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Holding eye contact has always been one of the major pain points in my life. The only time it felt effortless was with my last ex. There was something about our connection that made me feel real that no other connection made me feel. However, lately, I'm being able to hold eye contact even with strangers, with no noticeable struggling. Something inside me has shifted. I feel a lot calmer and more present nowadays. A lot more grounded and mindful. I feel like I understand humans. Like I'm finally one of them. It is a big deal for me. It seems like a huge breakthrough. I am excited to see where it will take me. It should change my life. But we'll see.
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@Thought Art You’ve now made two claims, about me, without citing or referring to anything specific. If anything, that is combative. I have actively acknowledged your points and conceded to some. I never argued you were wrong here. Where is your hostility coming from? I made a separate point, clarified I made a separate point and you’ve begun telling me I’m combative and exaggerating things—while simply not acknowledging my point or explaining yourself at all. That is combative. And I made a good point. A point I have experienced myself, out in public, firsthand for years. So, if you think I’m being combative maybe it has something to do with your own resistance to even acknowledging my point, while insisting on yours. That is an investigation for you—not me. Thanks for talking.
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Gangster accent
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I love that trilemma
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@Ulax thats funny
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Cold approaching strangers never worked for me either. Social circle worked automatically without even trying. You're in Beirut, you can enroll in Goethe-Institut for a German language course. Lots of cool girls there. And it's not expensive.
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Bro tryna ban Leo from his own forum
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@yetineti I didn’t enjoy it honestly. It was combative.. Not warm. I stand by what I said. People enjoy when warm, socially attuned people smile and talk to them often. Common sense I think.
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I over stated it, i have empathy but most people problems are them not self-regulating and i cant spend all my time regulating it for them, nor is it healthy for them to have a dependency on me. The healthiest thing for them is that i am healthy and there in my vibe, not the reverse, as i hold healthy vibe effortlessly and they cannot. I dated a few BPD woman and learned the hard way that to love them is draw clear boundaries to mantain your own health. Your health is there health, but they are not stable enough to avoid harming you. BPD will destroy the boat there sailing on. 100% of the time. With endless emotional chaos. You have to be uncorruptable for them. That means setting yourself up for success with systems and strategy. With out a plan you are not going to make it. You would think loving someone is simply listening to what they have to say. And that couldn't be further from the truth. Because they have no idea how to be happy. You have to be highly educated and prepared To give them the love they need. It takes years of effort, study and trial and error. We go to a restaurant, she didn't like it. We watch a movie, she didn't like it. And then she lies down and she cries that her parents criticize her
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Breakingthewall replied to integral's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
The matter of being seems banal, but it is not; being emptied of everything is one facet, the reality is and is not. What is not, does not exist, yet it is nonetheless real. It is absolute potential, and being open to it is not about knowing that absolute potential exists, but about perceiving living reality, your ultimate nature. They called it tao, seems a good term. -
@Thought Art Ha—yeah—in my universe I just acknowledged you and you evaded real conversation. Take care
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@yetineti 😕 We are in different universes.
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Tuesday: November 3rd, 2026. No way as an emphatic refusal is distinct from Norway.
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Tuesday: November 3rd, 2026. Endoskeleton present inside the body is distinct from exoskeleton outwardness.
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I don’t like generalizations. If you think someone is exaggerating, you tell them when and where—otherwise, you’re exaggerating. Of course not. I can have issues trying to word things for others but I don’t think anybody has to be perfect. If I did, I wouldn’t have walked up to a random guy in a parking lot and asked him how his truck bed worked lol. That doesn’t change the fact that everybody has a public interaction limit and the limit has historically been going down. That is all I’m saying. Who is this advice for? I’m warm and kind. You just seem to be disagreeing with me and not liking it ? But also I think we kind of are agreeing too ? That is where we disagree. It was. I didn’t mean to imply that it was. I was just trying to further dialogue. The public interaction problem is real. You could acknowledge it. I could have acknowledged your sound advice and furthered the dialogue to my concerns better. Sure. If that’s how you view me, that’s good feedback. Have you considered I think I’m a snowflake and what you think is me trying to make others out as snowflakes is actually just me making sure I’m not one? Because I don’t think other people are snowflakes. Actualized.org is the only social media account I have held for 10 years now. I’m 25 and basing this off of experience. Social media is poison and to be used only as reference. @Thought Art
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Tuesday: November 3rd, 2026. Hooting cry of an owl is distinct from a hood.
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Tuesday: November 3rd, 2026. Cop as a police officer is distinct from a cope.
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Tuesday: November 3rd, 2026. Discinct meaning without a belt is distinct from a distinction.
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@Leo Gura
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Breakingthewall replied to integral's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Reality manifests as existence, and existence is relative and dynamic. What exists does so in relation to another. But reality is not existence; rather, existence is how reality appears. Reality is something else, it is a step back from existence, you could say that it is limitlessness. One could say that limitlessness and being are synonymous, because the limitless is, since nothing restricts it, but they are two different aspects. Being is affirmative, immutable, brilliant. Reality is profound, in fact it is unfathomable depth. Opening yourself up to the unfathomable is terrifying because it is confused with death and emptiness, but it is the source of life. In the unfathomable lies what lives, or rather, the unfathomable lives, and when life opens up to itself, that is when the prodigal son returns after his pilgrimage through the dead desert. Clean, pure, brilliant being, Sat-Chit-Ananda, is still closed, since it is only a verb, an action, the fact of being. Beyond being, the unfathomable emptiness opens up; it is the essence, the totality, life. Every human has access within themselves to the living source, indescribable. Totally impossible to put into words. Being can be spoken of, structured, understood. The source cannot, you can be open to it. that means don't blocking it, don't blocking the total perception of yourself. -
Tier 2 is not only limited to systems thinking. Main attribute of tier 2 is vision logic, something your master has kept you completely blind to. She is definitely bringing a lot of things together. So she is in the twilight zone between green and yellow. But you can't judge somebody's cognitive skill based on a 30 second video.
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I think you are over exaggerating a lot in this thread. You don’t need to be perfect when speaking to others for sure. But, it helps to be warm and kind. Take it easy man. The whole world isn’t reading my post, and my advice is sound. It’s not meant to be the ONLY advice. Sometimes you gotta be willing to feel needy and weird. But, you’ll have best results being someone warm and emotionally attuned. And people aren’t weak little snowflakes like you make it out to be. The internet lies about social interaction too. Fuck influencers.
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@Majed but use this as an opportunity to grow, you are now in not the ideal circumstances and venting out only got you to get warning points, lost opportunities and woman not wanting to interact. This is what the world reflects back at you when you are reactive. When you learn to become grounded, which means to not act out, which means to come to the center even if someone calls you with ugly names or life goes to hell, can you still remain grounded? Can you still remain at your center? That is the lesson I see you can take away from this, because this is a pattern that I have seen multiple times over your posts, that does you no good man.
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