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  2. More shadow work, less scrolling and consuming
  3. About two. You learn more about yourself the more you do them I guess. it’s one of the best things I did in my life despite it being hard.
  4. Try to raise the creativity to co-creation and inclusion. This is extending the link or relation.
  5. You can do anything if you have the right will and motivation despite genetics. Genetics seems like a limiting belief and almost a distraction to me.
  6. @Lyubov Sorry dude but I am not longer in college . I have passed out and I am a working professional. @Olaf I don't think that all will say yes .Most will say no and a few will say yes.
  7. It seems like INTPs are really attached to thinking. They can also be playful with thoughts or words usually in my experience.
  8. 荒海や佐渡によこたふ天の川
  9. Interesting, what does he teach about social circle? I genuinely have not heard him talk about it so I'm curious. I really like his levelling frame work where depending on the context you change your calibration when talking to women. So if you believe they're a bit more shy and not used to status you don't flex and you keep it grounded but if they're more the bad bitch influencer type then you go more push pull and cocky funny. I haven't really seen any other game coach talk about psychology that deeply, the guy is very smart.
  10. He does teach inner game. He never says social circle doesn't work. Briefly teaches it too. He talks about social proof. He has about 10,000 videos on escalation, which include physical and sexual escalation a lot. I have two of Todd's programs so I know his work very well.
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  12. That's ridiculous. And even I was gaslighting, my aim is to support the OP who expressed feeling oppressed. My cause is good, nevertheless. Even if she's purely asking out of care, the result is that she's disturbing the OP. Hell is paved with good intentions.
  13. I want like a Swedish/German guy or something. As i thought this guy was gonna be, Alas that gives everyone a header towards some idea of what to look for, either a German guy/girl or a Swedish guy/girl, or sumthin similar, and it doesnt have to be about the matrix or anything, that was just an example... It can be Russian and such as well to, i mean its jus gotta be a German-esque or russian aesthetic, whatever that even means. Thank you. P.s. It doesnt have to even have be a humanbeing so long as it feels right
  14. Agreed, you must learn from various teachers to refine your game to it's peak potential. Some game has more potential than others though as I've already explained with the hard ceiling of cold approach. In what way?
  15. The best performance of a football team in the history of football. FC Barcelona destroying Real Madrid 5-0 and playing an artistic , otherworldly. PlayStation type of football. I’m a diehard Madrid supporter btw.
  16. You are assuming actualized.org is only about awakening. that's only the end of tier 2 in spiral dynamics, that's rare af. + it's not an ideology competition. Actualized.org teachings don't go against anything that Islam or Christianity is teaching, it rather goes meta and tells you, you gotta figure it out yourself and not subscribe to any ideology or doctrine, or rely on belief only. It's not a matter of either reject Islam and Christianity or not. that's black and white thinking. But it's about direct experience, evaluation, integration and transcendence.
  17. Todd doesn’t believe in inner game or social circle game, or teach much preselection or physical / sexual escalation. Learning from him will leave many gaps.
  18. Sorry for what you're going through man. It's not gaslighting to ask someone if they've been evaluated by a mental health professional when they say stuff that could be based on paranoid delusions. I don't want to invalidate you which is why I'm glad you contacted your local police department. This above the pay grade of anyone on this forum either way so I wish you the best of luck and don't think anything else discussed in this thread can be productive.
  19. @LordFall Lock for what reason? His comment has nothing to do about duty of care. How is he gaslighting when hes literally talking about a comment on a public forum?
  20. Bro honestly I think you're the one gaslighting her. Her point about duty of care is valid. Mods should just lock this, not much more we can do.
  21. Iuno what the topic is exactly but its like, you know when its the right video. You just see it, and you post it, it doesnt matter wat it is, right, it serves some aesthetically pleasing purpose or something:
  22. I want to explain a little bit deeper about why that is. It’s because our true identity, our true self, our essential nature existentially, is undifferentiated, indiscriminate, raw, pure being. Not this. Not that. But both and neither. So, I am literally NOT a man. Comatozze is literally NOT a woman. And I’m not just speaking about gender fluidity here in a social or biological sense. I’m speaking at an existential level. The problem arises when we mistake ourselves for something which is not actually ourselves. You think you are just a man. She thinks she is just a woman. You think you are REALLY just a man. She thinks she is REALLY just a woman. But this is 100% false, existentially. You and I are pure, unpolarized, raw being. Before we are men or women, before we are masculine or feminine, before we are strong or weak, dominant or submissive, heterosexual or homosexual, we simply are. And this being is not merely “fluid.” It is something much more radical than that. It is literally completely free to be anything it wants. A man is literally a cute girl. I’m literally a cute girl . A cure girl is literally a man . Comatozze is literally a man . I’m a cup, a cloud, a tree, a car, a cat, a dog, a star, the moon. I’m anything and everything and nothing. These identities can appear within being, but they are not the ultimate nature of being itself. The mistake is not being a man or being a woman. The mistake is believing that you are nothing but that identity — that the identity is what you fundamentally, essentially, existentially are. And when you identify with something you are actually not, this will inevitably create suffering in your life. If you think you are a man, you have to constantly maintain that fake identity. You have to keep proving to yourself and to the world: I am a man. I am masculine. I am supposed to be this way. I am not supposed to be that way. Which means you have to suppress whatever does not fit inside that identity — your vulnerability, your weaknesses, your homosexual desires, your sissy and crossdressing porn fetish, etc. And you have to keep suppressing it. But suppression creates unease. It creates tension. It creates a kind of boiling energy inside of you because you are constantly trying to force yourself to remain something that, at the deepest existential level, you were never limited to being in the first place. You are swimming against the current of your own being. And that inevitably causes suffering. The same thing happens if you think you are a woman. You have to constantly maintain that fake identity. You have to keep proving: I am a woman. This is how a woman is supposed to be. This is what a woman should want. This is what a woman should look like. Which means you have to suppress your desire for leadership and control, your lesbian cravings, your tomboy authentic self, your authentic disinterest in putting makeup on and caring about your physical beauty, etc. And again, you have to keep suppressing. But suppression, by definition, is tension. It is unease. It is swimming against the current. The deeper point is that being itself does not need to be defended. It does not need to constantly prove that it is a man, a woman, masculine, feminine, heterosexual, homosexual, strong, weak, dominant, submissive, or anything else.
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