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  2. I understand. Death of the body is scary.
  3. He doens't know if he wants to be a real man yet he's stuck between getting pussy and anything meaningful. Can't blame him though.
  4. The irony is that you want to settle down with a woman and also fuck around, but you don’t want the woman you settle down with to have done the same. That is really not fair. Either you fuck around and don’t care if the woman has too, or you don’t fuck around and find a woman who hasn’t either. This mindset of “I will fuck around and bring my baggage to the relationship, but strictly demand a virgin bride who has no baggage” is, quite honestly, a sign of deep-rooted insecurity. This is also apparent in caring that “other men may be laughing at you.” Like dude, grow up. That’s high school level thinking. You claim you’re this strong willed alpha dude, but it’s really just the most basic stereotype of a hyper-masculine front to compensate for a deep-rooted feeling of inadequacy. It fools nobody.
  5. Jesus has a great sense of humor. Sounds like a fun game. You can't blaspheme the miracle no matter how hard you try.
  6. Bro..over thinking AGAIN. Do you wanna get laid or do you want a relationship. You can't have both. You don't get both.
  7. That seems to be a very reasonable take. I think any worthy relationships needs perspective to flow. Otherwise, are we anyway really with someone?
  8. The machines have us locked down. in the simulation Their purpose is sinister. Now, according to James, we're just here. No simulation. No matrix, and no sinister or good purpose. Well, if you ask me, that's pretty lame as far as realty would go. I woud want some juicy stuff. At least the machines.
  9. Great image. I love images like these that help map out ideas. I like to do them to.
  10. I can understand why you might believe this is a spiritual forum. But this isn't a spiritual forum.
  11. @Rishabh R yes I try to keep it transparent
  12. "You love this shit."
  13. @Etherial Cat yes I think the getting to know eachother, should be a much longer phase then we think is normal right now. It is like a cat, it first is sniffing you, then coming back and forth and eventually decides to sit on your lap and getting comfortable with you. I don't feel comfortable easily with people, probably big reason is due to my past relationships, but also I want to make sure, are we the right fit? And falling in love is one thing, another thing is if much of your life alligns with eachother aswell. If someone loves football and the other hockey, that is no problem, but if someone is Muslim and you are an atheist or if someone comes from a certain culture and you from another culture, these all can be more serious things that don't always align.

  14. All success is driven by unhappiness

    enchanted replied to enchanted's topic in Personal Development -- [Main]

    Ok not a bad point. As I said I am able to easily see and switch between perspectives and don't particularly care about one or another. Nor am interested in arguing against or trying to debunk someone else's post. I see the truth in it and I feel like this is a higher way to live than argument. Different question, have you started any posts recently?
  15. On, dare I say, purpose.

  16. Distinction Journal

    Emull replied to Emull's topic in Self-Actualization Journals

    Tuesday: August 11th, 2026. Yearning to perceive something correctly is distinct from distorted judgement.

  17. All success is driven by unhappiness

    enchanted replied to enchanted's topic in Personal Development -- [Main]

    Fair enough. I get what you are saying
  18. The funny thing is that is what seems to be happening to me lately without doing the "within seven seconds" part. It's so weird. Like whatever I subconsciously am aware that could happen will. Telepathy?

  19. Distinction Journal

    Emull replied to Emull's topic in Self-Actualization Journals

    Tuesday: August 11th, 2026. Giving someone time to think is distinct from continuous pressure.

  20. Distinction Journal

    Emull replied to Emull's topic in Self-Actualization Journals

    Tuesday: August 11th, 2026. Overcoming the impulse to suffer is distinct from sensing pain.

  21. Distinction Journal

    Emull replied to Emull's topic in Self-Actualization Journals

    Tuesday: August 11th, 2026. Levitating elation on cloud nine is distinct from earthly attachment.

  22. Journal

    Someone here replied to Someone here's topic in Self-Actualization Journals

    Be fully present and 100% committed to what you are doing right now . Don’t multitask. if you are eating , focus on tasting every bite . if you are playing a video game , focus on enjoying every minute of the play . If you are taking a shower , feel the warmth of the water on your skin and body . If you are waking , focus on your footsteps. Focus on the scenes you see, the people, the road , the sun , the trees. If you are tired or experiencing pain or at least a mild discomfort, experience it fully and slowly . Don’t rush it to end the experience too fast . live meditatively. by doing this your whole life will become meditation and you won’t need to meditate in the classical way .

  23. Distinction Journal

    Emull replied to Emull's topic in Self-Actualization Journals

    Tuesday: August 11th, 2026. Overwhelming someone with tedious work is distinct from diligent effort.

  24. Thought Art 📓

    Thought Art replied to Thought Art's topic in Self-Actualization Journals

    “Islam can be summarized in three sentences: Be with the Creator, without creation. Be with creation, without ego. Wish for others what you wish for yourself.” — Shaykh Zakariya al-Siddiqui
  25. I think also the idea is like what do you want out of PUA? I never wanted a hook up, for me it always has been either about getting a girlfriend or learning social skills or becoming more confident and challenging myself. Therefor I would rather resonate with something like building state, which is Owens way, then specific techniques to manipulate someone in feeling attracted to me. As state building is about becoming more confident, while these techniques might help you to get laid in a more manipulative way. Don't get me wrong I still do a bit of that too. Last time I called a hot girl, telling her "are you a hot girl with no personality?" I don't know if that is good push/pull, but it was funny cause those were my exact thoughts hahaha.
  26. Shame that he went the rapist route. 30 seconds to mars was such a good band with a good message.
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