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Ramana maharishi said, enquire who am I? So has any of you have found who you are? If yes please comment.
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There are definitely shitty therapists out there. I’ve seen plenty in my lifetime. But there are also exceptional, spiritually gifted, and holistic ones out there. And I couldn’t have discovered them without you.
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From all the people you send here, Yair Lapid seems the most reasonable And I have so much disagreement with him, shows how bad the others are.
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Most people never contemplate death until it knocks on their door or on their loved ones. Death doesn’t exist though. It is just the final curtain for your self. It is kind of bitter sweet nonetheless, if accepted. The best is to grasp death on a young age so you can sip life as a fine wine instead of tugging it like most people.
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I can’t believe I missed this. That is so close to me.
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Yimpa replied to Vilius's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Materialism is imaginary. Death is imaginary. Consciousness is Infinite Imagination. Direct experience is necessary to transcend this as merely a belief. -
Human Mint replied to Maheshwar's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
If you can't do mindfulness then just don't do it. Why force it? Investigate the feeling of not being worth because you're unable to do these spiritual practices. Practice self-love instead. -
Carl-Richard replied to Basman's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
Your argument is that it's acceptable to kill innocent people if it leads to an incremental feeling of justice in some cases for some people. If you support the death penalty and wrongful convictions are inevitable, it's almost as if you care more about the perpetrators than the victims. You'd rather kill innocent people because you dislike not giving some people (people who support the death penalty, which is not everyone) an incremental feeling of justice ("it's good that they got locked up but they should really be killed"). -
Yimpa replied to Vilius's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
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Exactly. This summarises my thoughts and experience perfectly.
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Habits & Disciplines Journey Entry #222 ~ Sun Sep 13 '26 Daily goals: Wake up at 7:30 AM: 0 Make bed: 39 Take medication: 56 Shower: 56 Groom hair: 56 Brush teeth: 56 Floss: 0 Kriya yoga: 0 Push ups & pull ups: 0 No porn: 7 No ejaculation: 7 No electronics before bed: 1 Brush teeth before bed: 0 Wash face before bed: 0 Weekly goals: Workout 3x: 0 Give yourself a haircut: 1 Do laundry: 7 Clean room: 7 Clean car: 6 Things to do: Get new card at L Bank Set up high yield savings account Get new light bulbs
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Authentic relating is one of the most healing modalities in my experience. It is basically your conscious mind telling your subconscious that who you are right now is sufficient.
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I think you explained yourself pretty well tbh, but you're welcome either way For me it was the same at first, I was quite a weird and socially awkward child who was bullied a lot. Lots of trauma from that. Pure pickup helped a bit, but learning how to party, have fun, make like-minded friends, and express myself authentically was better for the kind of healing I needed. It helped my mind realise that there was nothing fundamentally wrong with me like I believed as a kid. Pickup felt like a bandaid on the symptoms rather than a solution to the root cause of the problem. The healing from that made it much easier to date successfully.
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Example of conformity - Geeting into a relationship because everyone else around you is doing so. I fell into this trap years ago in school and college but now I am out of those echo chambers . Honestly I'm turning 26 without even a single relationship experience . Yup I attracted many girls throughout my life but yeah when people of my age are getting into serious relationships like marriage it's hard to not to fell into this trap since you keep hearing from here and there - Get married , have kids don't be single . As if that your happiness depends on it. But I live for the sake of anti conformity . Even though I am open to getting into a relationship but not chasing it actively no matter how much I suffer.
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@Olaf
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I did a fair amount of pure pickup in the past. I still do to an extent, but a more holistic version of it. I’m a holistic man-whore now, through and through The holistic approach of building a solid well-rounded life has worked much better for dating than a ton of cold approach or true pickup ever did.
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@Ulax I think girls are knocking at his door ready to sleep with him, no game needed
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How? I spoke against PUA, not against having sex.
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Bro you change your views more frequently than bonnie blue changes sexual partners
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@Ulax he got hypnotised by the gym guys who looks max their ways into womans panties
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@Ulax #stopthecockblockers
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I saw on another thread that you never even did much pickup. So how can you speak like this?
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Thanks for wording it out for me. I am not native speaker so struggle with that sometimes. Though for me, it is more about healing and trauma release then about building your external life.
