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  2. He def would benefit from outsourcing more stuff. He loves to do it all himself to his taste, but at his stage you can't be micromanaging everything cause it's gonna be a bottle neck. It's like wanting to be both a CEO and a technician, there's a trade-off in being so complete.
  3. i think when i wrote this post i didn't even think about sharing on the forum specifically (that's more of what i meant in the other thread i started). i thought of this question after experiencing some symptoms/behaviours that felt extreme, abnormal, not okay, and i felt conflicted about reaching out to a friend because i tend to be annoying, but there was no one else to call and it got me wondering if i'd just keep all this to myself if i was wiser (since the sharing seems annoying to people). but i guess in terms of self-love and when i think about what i need, i think it's also true that i don't want to be lonely after experiencing a particular behaviour/crisis-reaction....just don't know who to reasonably reach out to in those moments. mental health hotlines in germany are either blocked all day or when you get the chance to talk to someone, it's really awkward and usually not helpful.
  4. Just a different medium than video form.
  5. yes, i agree. in theory, that is true. in practice, when you share something vulnerable, even voluntarily, people can still react in hurtful ways.
  6. You have courage. Anytime I create a thread on the dating/spirituality/self-actualization sections, I invite unnecessary drama into my life. It is insane. I would rather rule on the science section 😈
  7. @Stick From studying Shinzen young's teachings (meditation teacher), he would argue that Suffering = Pain x resistance. Pain is a fact of life. It can be emotional, i.e. grief. It can be physical, i.e. hurting wrist. However, he would argue that are degree of resistance to experience can be lessened. And in that lessening of resistance to experience our suffering decreases. So, in your case, he would argue that you suffer because of the following. 1) Painful thoughts/ feelings/ body sensations that result from, for example, loss of taste. 2) Resistance to said painful experiences. He has a method called: See-Hear-Feel meditation, which he sees as possible way to lessen resistance to experience. I don't have direct experience of this working that much for me. So, really just passing along a theory.
  8. I still cannot understand how is this something that people believe.
  9. You can look at it from two perspectives: It's not good to give strangers too much insight into your life. You want to protect your privacy and not give people a chance to use information against you. By sharing information voluntarily, you already take away the power to harm you with this information. You accept it, so you can't be hurt by it. People accept you or not. People understand you or not. First group you connect with, second group who gives a fuck? You free yourself from shame by sharing information and allow yourself to be who you want to be. No shame, just you being you. Both perspectives have their up and downside, I guess it's how you want to live and how it feels for you doing the one or the other. I guess that all in all, your (or my) life is not as interesting for others as you (or I) often think.
  10. @Shermaningeorgia Literaly don't give a shit about what you have to say about me, keep on blabbering about the same garbage and I will continue to make fun of you and your "points" lmfao since your characteristic of me is a complete miss, why would I give any weight whatsoever about what you say about me, I mean, you explain that LOL I'm just pointing out that you are projecting your personal bitterness about hot women and try to posture as somehow morally superior over them when it's clear it's just your subjective garbage and bitterness. Not saying that I can't understand that to some degree, but I don't go around constantly crying about it LOL I'd actually wager that most hot women are actually fairly inteligent and good people. Not equivalent to rich people at all, because having money gives you MUCH more power than hot looks do, especially in this current society. Much, much more power
  11. I love a lot of Dr K's content! And have a lot of respect for Dr K! Bro has helped bring my life onto a positive trajectory. And i think he is a really positive and unique influence on the internet. I would argue Dr K gets the most stick for the following reason. Critics often mistake Dr K's advice regarding what is effective/ necessary to survive/ thrive with Dr K justifying a societal arrangement. (Sometimes the critics are correct that Dr K is being political but often they are mistaken). Dr K has said his vision for the HealthyGamerGG project is to help people do better given the circumstances they find themselves in. This is understandable because one must have focus, and also play to their strengths. This leads to, even well-meaning, folks often seeing Dr K as indifferent to or not attaching enough importance to politics/ societal arrangement. For example, if Dr K watches a video of a girl in her mid twenties. The girl is crying, complaining that the demands of employment leave her no time to enjoy life and she is always tired. Dr K might then say something like, 'I empathise... etc", and then go onto say something like "Tech can make us more tired, so lets see if we can reduce tech usage " and/ or "do more chores on the weekdays". However, folks seem to often miss the first empathy bit and then treat the advice section as if it is Dr K blaming the girl, or its Dr K legitimising a societal structure. But in doing so, they miss what Dr K's project is with HealthyGamergg. Dr K is coming from the view that 'Things are the way they are. Perhaps they can be changed for the better. But as individuals we cannot rely on that change. So we have to try and approach the way things are as best we can'. ---------- I re-read your post and realise you were looking for high-consciousness criticisms rather than defences. I can't think of one for now but just wanted to acknowledge that my post isn't really what you were asking for.
  12. What is it all for? What can I take with me when I die? Anything? Does all this apparent understanding just go away? Where do I go in death? Do I simply slip on off into the abyss? Or is there something more to it? Is there some sort of meta-life in which I can review this current life in full detail and with perfect clarity? Is it merely a game of here i am and there i go? Do I fly on off into fractal infinity? Do i dream a dream of anything id like? do i go to hell? Heaven? Somewhere in between? limbo? purgatory? where? where? where? Where do we all go? But most importantly where do i go? Why all the pain? Why all the Beauty? Why the confusion? Why the insanity? Why? Why? why? Why anything at all? Will I see you all here again? As if it is happening for the first time? Where does it all come from? Where does it all go? Is this my one and only existence? Do I become a spectral phantom? Do I haunt those who remain? I mean seriously what happens? What can I do about it? Should I simply give in? Should I go running head first into it? Or do I continue to defend like my life depends on it? There must be more here. I need answers I need answers I need answers.
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  14. I finally watched Run Lola Run, and it’s surprisingly good for a German film. Tom Tykwer really knows how to make a movie, and I also love his adaptation of Perfume. Fun fact: the actress who plays Lola was born in Münster, which isn’t far from where I live—I even went to school there.
  15. doesn't matter if a trans lady has a dick. if a man likes her, he's not gay. the allure of feminity is still the same.
  16. Agreed. And he was cleared on the Reckful issue by the boards after he was reported.
  17. I mean to be fair, I'm a part of that discord and they just have a no drugs policy I believe.
  18. @ZeldaStar Welcome to Consciousness Work.
  19. Completely contrary to my experience. This is a very long video and the comment section is a big red flag to me. So much victimhood… Would you mind giving a summary?
  20. Many interesting topics. At 25min they talk about what truth is. Yuval is a genius.
  21. If so,would be curious to hear experiences please!
  22. He was a nerd, I think math, graduated high school early. Read the nerds on this forum, many are total redpilled perverts that say females are chattel.
  23. If he were dishonest, he'd have been called up by the appropriate medical boards by now. He was only for the Reckful issue.
  24. Sick or healthy hasn't anything to do with me. Let body do what a body does. It will die in a matter of time. I will be okay however. Find and stay with the changeless within.
  25. Doesn't answer the question.
  26. Croatia seems like it has beautiful visages and landscapes. Spain needs to apolgise for colonialism.
  27. And yes, I stand that hot bitches aren't special. Why not? Are rich people special? No difference in my eyes. Look at Epstein. he was rich. Trump is rich. Plenty of people dislike him a lot despite him being POTUS and winningthe election. I bet if i had a mind-reading probe, I'd read a streak of evil in all hotties universally. and that newdickontheblock who follows me aroudn since he's clueless will tell me others cannot fight back, ever hahahahaa.
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