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How would you approach one woman? Treat it the same way. Every woman is the only one that matters in the universe
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Honestly. Someone who just calls you to say hi. How many friends do you have that do that, and how many do you have that call you when they need something.
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He's probably busy living.
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It's the nature of my work and the spaces I frequent. City centres, medical facilities etc. I am engaged in the social realm a lot. Some of these approaches maybe aren't it though, as some guys are just wanting to chat. It's just that... Well. I know men. Sometimes they aren't overt - but they wouldn't say no if the opportunity arose. One day I won't even get a glance from dudes. And that's cool. That's life! I don't put much value in how I look, because I didn't earn it. I just got some good rng genetics. I approach men too. I am pretty direct for a woman. I also get approached my women on occasion.
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@Natasha Tori Maru wow getting approached daily is crazy. When I go out I get approached by guys too hahaha but woman approach men barely I guess, which is logical. Yes, humor seems to be big, but if you get approached that much, you probably are kinda sick of it.
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Raze replied to Husseinisdoingfine's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
You sanction israel until they accept the arab peace initiative. Terrorists attacking Israel isn’t why Israel does what it does, it uses that as an excuse. Funding Hamas to build West Bank settlements isn’t to combat terrorism, rejecting Hamas disarmament because you want to expel the civilians population isn’t to combat terrorism. -
We thought the roosters got you.
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I choose to answer this from the frame I am being "cold approached" as opposed to some sort of courtship attraction phase - like a dude is shooting his shot I just like humor and wit, initially. If someone can make me personally laugh, they need to have some sort of sharp intellect generally. I use humor as a proxy for a sharp mind. I won't date someone who cannot keep up with me. So if a dude approaches me and is able to induce laughter from me it's a big win! Don't bring me your ego or arrogance. Confidence I am cool with. You will transmit these sorts of things subconsciously through body language, movement, tone, intonation and facial expressions - women will generally respond to these signals first. Other than that, I am not the sort of women to be irritated by being approached. I don't treat men who approach me as some sort of inconvenience or disturbance. They are just a human seeking connection. Often, I'll reject an approach and give them some of my honest feedback - mostly that I admire the testicle, haha (especially when a guy is visibly nervous). However, I get a body language, tone and expression read very quickly. I won't give a compliment to an egotistical dickhead who has an attitude like he is Gods gift to women. I'll just turn him down, dismiss and move on. I still get approached daily. Younger dudes and older. I have the sort of face and appearance that seems to project approachability. There must also be something in the way I hold myself or dress, because I can count maybe 2 or 3 times in my life I was objectified to the extent it was offensive. I won't always be approached like this - I am 40 now. Soon it will end! Or maybe not, who knows.
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@Joshe yes this is true, often times I go into the interaction with an agenda I get turned off by the woman and I lose my agenda or interest and now she is confused hahaha to do something completly free from outcome is best, but sometimes can also lead towards nothing at all.
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Yimpa replied to Loveeee's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Awakening is possible and legitimate. I can take a hit right now and realize that you are me in 15 mins. But I refuse to do that cus my/your survival is on the line 💀 I ain’t ready to revisit Metaland yet -
Not only isn't the dog park bad, it's one if the best spots there are, great call!. This would have been useful in my other thread. And I was also getting to LA Fitness parking lots after that Chruch parking lot post. But serious this one is the best! I had two huskies and believe you me the women flowed. Now I have a beast of a German shepherd and I can't even take him to the park without a muzzle. It scares women off. But the best was when my husky got In a scuffle with a girl's husky and I grabbed her number after. And no, it wasn't for the hospital bill. 😀
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trenton replied to Husseinisdoingfine's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
I imagine that a leftist would say that the terrorism is rooted in grievances caused by Israel's unfair policies for people treated less than them. Therefore, stopping racism and discrimination against people who did nothing wrong would be one piece of radicalizing more people toward becoming terrorists. This is the same pattern with the war on terror often radicalizing people even more toward terrorism. Therefore, Israel's reaction would have predictably caused even more terrorism given the historical patterns of the war on terror. Obviously, it is way more complex than that, but it probably is a piece a leftist would say. In terms of how I, specifically stop terrorists from attacking Israel, I don't think there is much I can realistically do because I am in America. Posting on the internet probably won't change these things. As for actually stopping all of the terrorists, I doubt the methods I mentioned would even be enough even if they would help partially. This sort of thing might be as difficult as trying to figure out how to prevent 9/11. If terrorists have the element of surprise, and peaceful policy isn't enough on its own, then it creates a need for some kind of defense. However, it needs to be a measured and proportionate defense, as a disproportionate reaction would make it worse. Israel maintains its right to defend itself, but in order to do so optimally, it would need to avoid the "blowback effect" which would be caused by excessive aggression. There would need to be a fine balance which is hard to do practically when emotional stakes are high in the middle of ongoing terrorist attacks. Therefore, the predictable outcome would be the overreaction or disproportionate aggression that we see right now. Terrorists often bank on this reaction specifically to turn others against the nation that was hit. This was part of the plan behind 9/11 as well, knowing that democracies have this specific structural weakness when mass panic causes the overwhelming majority to demand safety and reassurance through a projection of strength even if that projection ultimately backfires. This is roughly the territory concerning why good, proper, proportionate policy typically does not happen in these situations. -
There will be a video in the future that will deep dive what fantasy is. Stay tuned for that.
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I did some further self-reflection and contemplation regarding Godel and other significant proofs related to it. In terms of what it implies for my worldview, so long as I try to map out the self, the map becomes part of the self and therefore requires mapping. This creates an infinite regress with no end. This is one of the limitations of self-analysis. It seems to explain why my thoughts go in circles over the same things looking for an answer where my thoughts can never be a perfect map by their nature as part of the mind. Self-knowledge is therefore incomplete through maps. It seems that foundationalism in logic ultimately fails if it is fundamentally impossible to have a fully grounded worldview due to the nature of thought and belief being self-referencing. There is no system complex enough to not have any gaps. This would be a limitation of belief as by design it is another map. The foundation is therefore imagined. I think this does seem practical in terms of understanding the limitations of analysis as a means of finding self-knowledge through systems and maps. I kept running through the same loops because a perfect map would need to account for itself as part of the territory. This is what I was already doing as I mapped my mapping of myself.
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I think if you want women to flow abundantly, it matters at any age. And Randy never "developed". So the thing isn't to develop into Randy. It's to learn to be yourself and calibrate where necessary. You may never be cooler than Randy, but you don't need to be. Of course, you don't need a social circle to get a woman. You could pick one up at the dog park. There are plenty of women out there looking for men. You just have to put yourself around them and strike up convo at some point. Dog park isn't bad actually, especially if you have a boy dog trying to hump hers, lol. Good icebreaker.
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Leo Gura replied to Husseinisdoingfine's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
You can push it, but you should understand why those ideas will not get adopted any time soon. Many of those leftist ideas are highly impractical and ungrounded. The problem with leftists is that they love to moralize without understand the realities of survival. You love to say stop the genocide, but you have no actual solution to the situation. This is like a child screaming: "Ice cream now!" How do you stop terrorists from attacking Israel? -
Why not just put your effort into making friends at the clubs first? and once everyone likes you, you can walk in and never have to deal with that problem? Seems a lot easier. When a dude walks into a club, the most likely reason why he's there is because he's on the prowl, and everyone knows it. So, it's not simply that talking to people makes it look like you have friends which raises your status. It's more so that it shields you from that perception that you're an asshole on the prowl and trying to manipulate people. I think this is an important concept: "Psychological reactance The core idea is that people have a baseline motivation to protect their sense of behavioral freedom. When they perceive that freedom being threatened or eliminated — even by a well-intentioned suggestion — they experience an aversive arousal state (reactance) that motivates them to restore the freedom, often by doing the opposite of what's being pushed, or by wanting the forbidden thing more. The kid-and-veggies example is textbook. "Eat your broccoli" converts broccoli from a neutral option into a compliance demand, so refusing becomes the way to reassert autonomy. Serve the broccoli without commentary and the freedom-threat never registers, so there's nothing to push against. The food itself was never really the variable. The moment a woman detects that an interaction has an agenda — that she's being worked — the frame shifts from "conversation" to "compliance attempt," and reactance fires. Her attention goes from evaluating the guy to defending her autonomy against the extraction attempt. That's a losing position regardless of how polished the technique is, because the technique itself is the freedom threat." Natural socializing removes this barrier. When 10 other people feel safe around you, that's evidence she can too.
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@Emerald yes, but I was just thinking about how this probably won't work for me, because I am very specific in what I want in a woman, and some random friend group probably doesn't have the friend in it that I want to have a relationship with, even if I have 5 friend groups, unless I happen to be very lucky. I do think it could work well for others who are looking for something more common. Alternatively, I could have a mixed friend group and invite woman I am interested in, to become part of my friendgroup: that would be the only way I can see this working.
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@Joshe the point i think is that as you grow older this means less and less. It's really whether or not you develop into a Randy. The Randy guy had it right but he also had the looks and talk to go with it. We all don't have these attributes so as we age it is not going to matter about social circles. You are just going to need to be yourself. And if that isn't good enough. Well. Then a woman needs to take another look. They will lower their standards when it comes to looks eventually but it takes women mostly until they reach 45 or so to lower all the physical standards .
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Fun nature guide and beautiful scenery
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Well apparently everyone "liked" the bad cool guy because they slept with him. He just slept with multiple women.
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@Joshe yeah, your status just gets improved by social proof if your a cool sociable guy that works really well. And the opposite is also true you can easily lose status in the group and be seen as the guy who wasn't really invited to the party hahahahaha its the same when you go out, if you don't talk to anyone in a club environment, you literally lose so much status in that environment for that night that it becomes hard to open any conversation.
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Nah. If you're the cool guy, then you're literally the cool guy who everyone likes. You know how Leo talks about "play"? Well, that's what it's like, except in a social group. But here, the "play" isn't designed to get laid. It's for fun. And when women and entire groups of people love being around you, romantic relationships flow easily from that. So, you can be a dork, but you still have to be interesting and put yourself out there. If it doesn't come very natural, that just means you have to calibrate more. A good example of this is Dexter Morgan. Awkward mf. Not the life of the party but interesting and socializes. Has women in his inner circle. Gets mad puss.
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I was never interested in Randy that way personally. He's just not my type, as I prefer more introverted guys... as that fits my energy more. But he was always an impressive and high-vibe person in my eyes who had a massive amount of abundance dating-wise without being skeezy to get it. And it was clear to me why he was very well sought after. I bring him up because he's a great example to aspire to for guys who want to build abundance (which is why a lot of guys do pick-up). But I definitely recommend cultivating a social circle. And dating is just one of many perks of having a great social eco-system.
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That's exactly how he made everyone he was around feel. He kind of brought the party to life.
