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  2. @Schizophonia Dude you are already attractive as you already know . Just apply the principle of F--- yes or no by Mark Manson and you will filter out women who are not into you.
  3. Dear incredible people of the actualized.org forum! it's another amazing day to be alive. check out this interview if you are interested in the brief history of mysticism.
  4. Today I was walking down the street, and someone I recognized from my past was walking toward me, saying out loud, "Drugs? There's a school right there, and I found drugs?!" Apparently, he did find a larger baggie of meth (I could see from where I stood), and he was pissed. He never used frugs back then, and I guess he's still not practicing. Good for him. The thing is, if he had taken a different way, he would not have found the baggie, and I would have, no doubt about it. That is why I firmly believe that God arranged things to happen as they did, so that I wouldn't have the burden of finding it, wondering what to do with it, and possibly screwing up my sobriety. In hindsight, I don't think I would have used it, but selling it or giving it away is no better, right? I'm just grateful it happened the way it did (It still would have been a great fing, though, my addict mind is saying to me. Stupid, eh.).
  5. I don't have any particular questions it’s just venting ; you can answer as you feel. For the past year my insomnia has gradually improved, and my physical and mental state along with it. Since I have exams at university, I thought I could flirt with girls here and there, even if it's just for fun. The problem is that the majority of girls - people in general - are on their phones with their headphones on, and I'm still shy and quite civil in general so it discourages me from going any further. Even when I talk to a girl I can interest her punctually because I'm quite funny and attractive, but she often ends up falling back into her earphone/iPad loop. We are like in a vibrational frequency dominated by schizoids where it is more difficult, it needs more energy to manifest a relationship.
  6. A good thing to contemplate is I can. There is a lot in this.
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  8. ➿ Infinities as Structures of Mind, Reality, and Experience A new document exploring the foundations of infinity has been released: Simply About Infinities — Second Attempt This text is not a long treatise and not a short summary. It is an axiom-level entry point: a compact but deep introduction to how infinities behave when numbers, identities, and relations shift across different scales of interpretation. It stands on two essential units: • the log–lin–exp identity of numbers • the discrete octave structure of infinities and one coherence insight: • identity must be measured in a parallel space for infinite interiors to remain consistent. Below are several ways to approach this document depending on your interests, background, or mode of inquiry. ✦ Scientific Introduction From a scientific perspective, the document reframes infinity as a structural phenomenon rather than a numerical one. It shows how: • numbers change identity when interpreted through logarithmic, linear, or exponential scales • discrete systems remain linear while continuous systems bend • finite ranges can encode infinite density • operations on infinities remain consistent when identity is preserved This is relevant to: • physics (scale invariance, renormalization, symmetry breaking) • information theory (compression, expansion, entropy) • computation (precision, overflow, discrete/continuous duality) • mathematics (measure, topology, functional identity) The text offers a minimal framework for treating infinities as navigable structures rather than abstract impossibilities. ✦ Spiritual Introduction From a spiritual or introspective angle, the document can be read as a map of consciousness. The three scales — log, lin, exp — mirror three modes of perception: • contraction • presence • expansion The discrete octave mirrors the layered nature of mind: • surface thought • deeper pattern • underlying field The coherence principle mirrors the way identity persists across states: • waking • dreaming • meditative absorption • mystical dissolution Infinity here is not a number but a quality of awareness: the capacity to hold more, to see more, to be more. This text can be used as a contemplative tool for exploring: • the infinite nature of self • the scaling of meaning • the structure of insight • the architecture of consciousness ✦ Psychological Introduction Psychologically, the framework can be used to understand: • how beliefs scale • how emotions amplify or compress • how identity expands or contracts • how patterns repeat across layers of mind The log–lin–exp triad becomes a model for: • trauma loops (logarithmic contraction) • ordinary functioning (linear stability) • peak states (exponential expansion) The discrete octave becomes a model for: • developmental stages • cognitive layers • recursive self-models Infinity becomes a metaphor for: • unbounded potential • unresolved loops • limitless growth ✦ Sociological Introduction In social systems, infinities appear as: • network effects • exponential adoption curves • cultural compression and expansion • identity scaling across groups The framework helps explain: • why societies behave non-linearly • why small changes can cascade • why large systems self-balance • why identity persists across complexity ✦ Metaphysical Introduction Metaphysically, the document offers a way to think about: • the structure of reality • the nature of continuity • the identity of objects across transformations • the infinite interior of finite forms The coherence principle becomes a metaphysical law: identity is not inside the object — identity is in the relation that measures it. This opens doors to: • ontology • cosmology • the philosophy of mathematics • the nature of being ✦ Why This Document Matters This “Second Attempt” is a distilled, axiom-level introduction for readers who enjoy: • structural thinking • conceptual clarity • deep simplicity • frameworks that unify many domains It is short enough to read in one sitting, but deep enough to serve as a foundation for: • scientific models • spiritual insights • psychological maps • metaphysical systems • personal frameworks of meaning If you are interested in how infinities can be defined, used, navigated, or experienced, this document is a powerful starting point. Read the text here.
  9. Humans have evolved to conserve energy. It's less that the average person is dumb and more like they don't bother expending the energy to expand their worldview. Especially if they are very conformist and haven't had the privilege of education. But there also different kinds of intelligence. It's unintelligent to measure intelligence by a single metric. A lot of users here are quiet autistic and are unintelligent in certain ways where the average person would be more intelligent, like social skills or sanity.
  10. I mean if you're asking for my personal opinion 1) Obviously all men aren't trash perhaps only those who consistently inflict pain on those weaker than them. 2) Economic equality is a complicated subject that has to do more with macroeconomics and sociology than gender really. Men oppress eachother as much as they oppress women. It's the history of civil rights that feminism also belongs to. 3) Some men are loyal some aren't just like women. 4) Not true, in some aspects sure but most men I know aren't doing particularly well and for example now in terms of education and I think median income women in the west are doing better. 5) I don't think men fear strong women they dislike difficult women that create problems for no reason. Or they do sour grapes and hate on women they can't get . 6) Obviously not all men cheat I've never cheated and a lot of guys I know haven't as well. Truly a lack of character to cheat on the person closest to you, I wouldn't trust that kind of guy in business. 7) I agree with that one the most. Emotional mastery is complicated and something I struggle with daily to this day. Anxiety is a big one and misidentifying it and turning it into anger is common for me and other guys I know. Most women are also emotionally underdeveloped though.
  11. The phone is for setting dates. Again, "chemistry over text", "women from my generation", and "[women] expect you to have basic texting skills" is nonsense. All that matters is how she feels about you. No texting will raise her attraction level. If that was the case nerds would all have their dicks worn out just by sitting at a desk and using GPT to craft "flirty" messages. Be direct, decisive, and set definite dates as soon as possible.
  12. @LordFall Buddy, you have a very positive mindset, good for you. But, you're still not answering the question. Do you agree with those points that they're making? The actual words that they're saying? Are those generalizations true, according to you. If they're true for all men, does that include you?
  13. It's a nuanced answer. Depends how you want to look at it. I think you shouldn't care what random people care about you and just reverse engineer the life you want. I agree that most men are underdeveloped yes but then so are most women so it's an irrelevant point. Men are trash. Men are the reason that equality hasn't been achieved Men aren't loyal Men as a class are completely privileged Men fear strong women All men cheat (This one is my personal favorite) Men are emotionally underdeveloped I'm just not really sure what some random women on an internet forum has to do with me building a harem with the most beautiful and coolest women I've ever met. I hope they use AI to fix their mental health and/or whatever other resources they have access to also achieve whatever goals they have is the end of my thoughts on men hating femcels really.
  14. The best thing to do to me is keep being authentic and let the sorting happen all by itself. There are all the possible and imaginable games of people with a more or less compatible energy.
  15. @LordFall No, about the bullshit they say about men. Do you agree with those points? About the cold-approach thing - I'll talk about it when I want to. Right now, its irrelevant to the discussion at hand.
  16. On what point precisely? I agree that most of a man's dating issues are self-inflicted yes. Up until you're an adult you're a result of your environment but nowadays with all the knowledge online you can definitely build whatever dating life you want. What action are you gonna take today to improve your dating life? I just moved to a new city and am currently broke and looking for a job and stressed with some health issues and I will still be continuing my cold approach challenge today. Feel free to join me and do it as well. The newbie guide I linked in that post is a phenomenal way to get into cold approach if you've never done it before. Each day that you fail to take action is one less stone in your empire my brother.
  17. What is strange from the point of view of the idea that God is infinite it is that as if by chance there is no significant quantum leap in this incarnation. For example there is no polar bear that is going to appear in my house, but if god is infinie the absolute probability that something strange like that happens is supposed to be equal. Maybe I miss something somewhere.
  18. @LordFall So, you agree with what they're saying? You're taking their side?
  19. Whats bad about adhd medication is that you cant get a nap at midday when you havent slept well. And you usally cant sleep that well in the night as well.
  20. I'm not arguing you shouldn't be direct. I'm arguing that the skill lies in being both direct and flirty enough to build some chemistry over text while also moving things forward. Don't be so direct that you scare her or are boring, and don't text for so long that you end up wasting her time and yours. The text message chain you gave there is very formal and honestly quite boring. You should be playful, direct, and flirty. The age plays into it because most women from my generation have grown up on phones and thus expect you to have basic texting skills. If you end up in a relationship you're going to text a lot, and if you cannot do that in an interesting way from the beginning many women will interpret this as poor social skills / poor communication skills.
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