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  2. Natasha, this is gold.

  3. Rejection.

    Rishabh R replied to Rishabh R's topic in Dating, Sexuality, Relationships, Family

    @LordFall Feedback accepted sir. 👍
  4. I have a lot of respect for that film too! And Bro... I think you could LOVE Band of Brothers

  5. William Orbit dies

    LordFall replied to Natasha Tori Maru's topic in Off-Topic: Pop-Culture, Entertainment, Fun

    I don't know who he was but that's a moving piece
  6. When he fucks that chick and then she goes behind his back and fucks the producer
  7. @Ulax You recommend it? I've been watching a lot of war movies since the start of the ukraine war made it more real in our timeline. I haven't seen that show so might give it a go. This was my favorite movie so far It's about WW1; makes the reality of war so much more clear. The best part of this movie is at the start the dudes that sign up think they're in Call of Duty and it's gonna be fun and great. Then on day 1 they get shelled and one of their buddy dies immediately and they start freaking out and welcome to war.
  8. My point is that if there’s only absolute being, then you are already the absolute, and there’s no one to become it.There’s no one to open up to it. You already are the knowing that cannot be known. The paradox is the illusion.
  9. Limited series but just watched Band of Brothers. Brilliant series about ww2
  10. Today

  11. Success, but no stress

    Optimized Life replied to Optimized Life's topic in Self-Actualization Journals

    Yeah im getting in my soul, yeah im hitting on the beat Yeah noo i dont even really wanna sleep Yeah im really handsome But I had people emotionally abuse me they took me for ransom And i'd lose my state of mind losing my ways in a tantrum Forgetting all the good and all the cool people i'd met, losing my ways, falling back down Not seeing opportunities, right in front of me Yeah i was lost in my ways yeah and im trying to forgive Trying to stay positive I smoke a blunt a way but right now i got nothing to give Yeah i smoke a blunt but i try and focus on all the good and the positive I guess im a competitive guy and I dont know why it keeps coming back to power and flexing and frame ANd i know its dirty in a way but this instinct seems to be just here to stay .. Fuck this shit I dunno, music and blunt i blow away But success is the only revenge Sorry i dont know fuck you fuck this i cant be perfect or liked by everyone, and that i accept, but i wont take it like a bitch and like them back, only ignore them get success then flex on everyone back Its the only revenge, i dont give a fuck what you say, mf facts
  12. Are you not entertained? Is that not why you are here? Yeah get out there. Let the rejections flow. Fucking welcome them. All you need is one to wanna pull your pants down!
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  14. Rejection.

    LordFall replied to Rishabh R's topic in Dating, Sexuality, Relationships, Family

    Very good. Each rejection proves to your brain that you are an action taker and you go for what you want. Each time you don't get what you want; you learn something about the universe and how it operates. It's important to figure out what women want as a whole and not a singular women. Basically nothing can be guaranteed to work on a single woman. Women as a whole though much easier to figure out. Keep levelling up bro, you got this.
  15. I am not for Naftali Moses in terms of women - he doesn't understand women. His ideology of the feminine is busted. I bet you anything he has no sisters. Maybe he is good for men to listen to and benefit from, but not women. I think his philosophy is also rather poor. I've listened to 6/7 interviews with him. No offense to anyone who gets something from him. He seems very green.
  16. Definitely. We need to be in truth with ourselves in order to feel secure in our vulnerability. The issues being discussed in this thread have very little to do with our relationships with others, and everything to do with our philosophy of self and our capacity to trust ourselves. Vulnerability becomes far less threatening when we have internal alignment and honesty. The problem is not what another person might do with our vulnerability; it's whether we trust ourselves to recognize what is true, respond appropriately, and remain grounded regardless of the outcome. There are issues with attachment going on that are part of our conditioning as humans. Until these are inspected we will get no where.
  17. Something I wrote to myself after the event: I am too timid, I am too in my head, I am too stifled/anxious, not going BALLS TO THE WALL, EYYYYYY!! Having fun! FUCK YES! Why not? Why fucking not? Why be boring? So that I don't get harshly rejected? Who cares about harsh rejections? WHO CARES about ANY REJECTION? If you are having fun, if you are having the time of your life, is that not why you are meant to LIVE?? It is like, yes you are taking the safe route, but it is SOOOO boring! Like how fucking boring can it fucking be? Just go, just do, just approach, just have fun, live LIFE, fuck it! Make them think bad about you, make them say how you are a loser, make them call you every bad name in the book! BUT atleast YOU LIVED LIFE and they had NO FUN! So fuck em! Love yourself! Have fun! LIVE LIFE! Lets go!

  18. Game is not enough, guys.

    Rishabh R replied to Zenterus's topic in Dating, Sexuality, Relationships, Family

    @Zenterus Man as soon as you make pickup your purpose over career like gets F--ked. Great post.
  19. Interesting - by "how we relate to it" what do you mean? I feel an insight as a great big "thunk" inside me. Like when you slot a piece of a jigsaw puzzle in and you feel the crisp click as it all lines up. Then I feel a large expansive feeling and deep sense of satisfaction. Sometimes even a thrill that runs through my body from my chest to my head.
  20. Ok that's part of vulnerability but also expressing your dark side along with your strengths is vulnerability too.
  21. Just got back from my nap.
  23. You fundamentally do NOT understand what is being communicated to you in this thread. You are refusing to be vulnerable & face parts of yourself. I am not sure if you see this or not.
  24. This is maturity in dating in a nutshell.
  25. Got rejected yesterday by a former girl classmate of mine after having a vulnerable conversation. I have been talking to her since 3 years. I expressed myself honestly to her despite nervousness. The rejection stinged but later it became ok. Yup @Leo Gura is right based on his avoidance of Truth episode . The seeking of truth will sting. However , I also realized that the sting lasted briefly . And also as I accepted it the sting reduced. @Miguel1 Yup you are right ,being vulnerable hurts but as per Leo's - How to get Laid series allowing your true to get rejected is better than putting a persona. Nope I was already vulnerable with her by expressing myself honestly to her multiple times. Like she asked questions about me . Even though she used to reply late but she responded with multiple messages to me even when I messaged her once on WhatsApp. In real life she waved hi to me multiple times. Pulled me by my arms to show a YouTube short and helped me stand against a guy bully. I expressed honest compliments to her.Told me to meet her before leaving the city but circumstances didn't allowed our meeting. Bye.
  26. Will you be doing it alone or in a group setting?
  27. Okay, so as promised, I went to Owen's event and I would give you guys a review. Yes, Owen wasn’t there, although there was an 2 hour Zoom call with him and we could ask him questions. But I did meet 2 wingmen I will go out with who live in my city, who also went to Todd's program. And I did meet his team, Ibraheem, if I name it correctly. He’s a really awesome dude. You could feel that everyone started to lean in when he started to speak. His energy is completely chill, but also powerful, and how he speaks is like storytelling with different emotions, as if you are reading a book and want to make it come alive. I took a bunch of notes, and one of the most important things was definitely getting unstifled. We had someone come to the front and, just as with Julien, he had to, like, yell and stuff. And what you could see was with the exercise after that, which was the EYYYYYYY, that he completely changed. It was like he became free of the box he was stuck in, like a bird being released from its cage. I think that is also what it truly means to get out of your head: to be free. To express freely, to be a bit wild and emotional. To NOT be rational or boring. You need PASSION and emotion. Now, they went into how to get into that state, and that was by voice projection. It is kind of vice versa: when you project your voice properly, you become unstifled after doing that for a period of time. Then your brain starts to work due to the winner effect of projecting your voice—not to yell, but to project loudly. And what starts to happen if you do that is that you get out of your head and become unstifled. You get into state, and STATE is the most important thing. Everything in the seminar was based on state. We were singing songs, yelling, etc. All to build state. We also socialised, and it is honestly the easiest place to make friends, as everyone is very social. Also, we talked about the tonality positive dominance, which is basically how you talk when you are having fun. We asked Owen's favorite pick-up line, and he said, “Not speaking at all, just looking them in the eyes. That is my favorite line.” Which shows how much he feels the importance of state over techniques. Also, what I could truly feel is that if you change inside, the outside kind of takes care of itself. When you are able to get confident inside and feel like you are winning, and call everything you are doing a 1000 out of 10, getting into that winning effect, that will take care of your speaking skills. You will become a natural public speaker or content creator or whatever. Now, after 9 hours of the free event, we all went out. I approached many girls. Nothing crazy, but it was funny because I also never approached on the square before. I always went inside the clubs to approach, so this was my first time approaching in the square where the clubs are. And actually, that is where everyone approached, because we couldn’t get into the clubs anyways. So that was actually awesome. Also, I was mainly looking at how the instructor was gaming. He mainly was body rocking when talking to a girl or approaching with side-by-side, and then a little more with his back turned to her so he has to look a bit over his shoulder. I couldn’t hear what he was saying, but also I actually gained more confidence from everyone around me approaching, as it made it almost this normal, socially acceptable thing to just approach people. It is now literally 12 hours later or so, so it was a long day, but I learned a lot. Basically, if you are failing, it is because you are not creating a winner effect, you are judging yourself instead of seeing every step to your goal as a win, which will make you feel like a winner, and then your brain opens up. I literally could feel how I wanted to do wilder approaches: I could feel how I was ready to just say stuff I never said before and just have fun. The change is within, and that can be changed by outside exercises, not by just meditating, but by projecting your voice, getting into state, optimising your state, singing, talking with emotion, amusing yourself, anything to just pump your state and be free/expressive. Having a wingman will probably also help your state, depending upon who it is, though. And definitely you are in state after the event from the whole community and the socialising and exercising within the community. So yeah, I am very happy I went to it, and it was 100% worth it. Oh yeah and Owen called Leo Gura a good public speaker lol.
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