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  2. I agree with your observations. Where I dont agree is with your conclusion. You see what's wrong with the dating market and woman and choose to act from justice -> I will adopt to the game and take my share and just get my dick wet. This behaviour takes advantage of the current situation, very understandable. But it's not really based on integreity and choosing action that point at a higher goal. You could instead only aim for woman that have some quality left and are good humans and are willing to drop the toxic femininity and try to get a real bond with a woman and maybe a family. This will fulfil much deeper needs, you will be more integer. Why is sleeping with more woman the correct parameter to see if your behaviour is working or not ? And I would also argue, you can become a strong respectable male without needing to sleep with woman all the time.
  3. @Breakingthewall Yes, those are important processes in the path. I'm pointing out that they happen as a deeper connection with oneself.
  4. It's true, that's why the astral body is also referred to as the "super ego". But the difference will be, ones you're in the astral body you will have no doubt and a knowingness that you're god using this "astral body" as a vehicle through your crown and that even this astral body is merely a tiny spec in the ocean of what you are.
  5. Start by unpacking what love is, how you're holding it, and the idea that life has a point or purpose other than the one you give (create for) it. In your post, love is held as fundamentally relational and shows up as a disposition between people. But you're fooling yourself. People do this all the time with this subject. What you really want is to feel good and improve your experience - just with a spiritual twist. Take the idea of unconditional love seriously for a moment. The self itself is profoundly conditional. You want some things and not others (!). So, fantasy and wishful thinking aside, if there's any operative principle here, make it real. I suspect it won't be what you think it is, because, again, it will have to be real.
  6. There is also the concept of Self-Love, where Self is the whole universe, including infinity, and including your limited human form. From this perspective, what you mean by “loving unconditionally” is actually too little love for your limited human form, and too much love for the forms outside it. The key in life is to find the proper balance. God loves everything equally.
  7. @Natasha Tori Maru you are looking at things too much through the lens of feminism while I'm look at the subject from a post-feminist perspective. Men having self love, boundaries and choosing themselves shouldn't be a threat to women. Feminism was toxic because they wanted to win from men at the cost of men. We are slowly moving away from this ideology on a state level but people need to let go of this mindset too. Men need to free their minds and be ok with choosing themselves. I don't think the current mindset of women is viable and soon it will be more apparent with the upcoming population collapse when there will be a major awakening.
  8. Throughout my life, I've had many attempts of cutting out everything that I deemed unnecessary or counter-productive in favor of art, learning, practicing skills, work and overall self development. Yet, be it news, social media, porn, etc. I always seem to gravitate towards having some form of distraction of low quality content consumption in my life. I'm now living a more analogue life than ever (barely interacting with any screen) and I've noticed that I'm still, proportionally speaking, almost just as often disengaged with what I'm doing. All that changed is that I've switched from doomscrolling to reading mid-tier books while only half paying attention until my motivation and mental acuity returns. Does this show that there's actually a physical limit to how much time you can be fully present in a day?

  9. Xenogenders

    enchanted replied to Shermaningeorgia's topic in Dating, Sexuality, Relationships, Family

    Lol exactly, I compare trans surgery to adult circumcision. Both is a mutilation of your body to meet some inner emotions.
  10. That whole thing is a trap The distinction between ego and no ego is much more problematic than useful
  11. That is an important insight but it's also very dangerous as you advance, because the I despite being a mere appearance is the gateway for both many Awakenings and a developed mature life
  12. @joeyi99 Yes Love is the point of life and existence And you wouldn't love to get stepped right? There are two avenues for walking the Love: Taking Love to the end and dying on the cross, forgiving those who torture you and blessing them Or Intelligent Love, that calibrates the whole universe for the maximisation of Love The former is Feminine Love, the Latter is Masculine Love. You need a balance of both imo.
  13. You sound comically closed minded & projecting it on this forum to convince yourself.
  14. I don't think I understand your version self love. It is not egoism in my definition. You must be using it in some foreign context here.
  15. Company you're with is very important. If you were in a company of 20monks, you'd be inspired to meditate much more than usual. However, the company you're with need not be physical. You can be in a company of angels who continuesly whisper into your ear: "beloved friend, remember the self and walk with us, dance with us, rejoice with us, play with us". And surely enough you will find yourself doing things you never have imagined doing before as you walk in grace and continues remembrance of God's presence.
  16. Yeah so where did I blame men? I made no collective judgement. I never meant to convey that at all.
  17. Self love is top tier (self) integrity. I'm not compromising on that for some ho's. Not only that. Self love aka egoism is being rewarded so you can't blame men.
  18. You aren't telling me anything I do not know, only reinforcing my point above. You are also saying 'morals be damned, I will game the system and compromise my own integrity' if I understand your last line correctly. It just appears to be lowering yourself and conforming. You need to learn when no means no, though. It might be a hard lesson. Don't cry when you reap what you sow.
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  20. Notice what you're doing ..in the first sentence you're saying loving between humans which is obviously not what unconditional love means(obviously it includes that but also much broader). There is a catch for unconditional love which is survival .if you love unconditionally you die..cause you can't love hunger and thirst right ? That's essentially what you mean by getting stepped on if you love unconditionally. So It depends on your journey and priorities and maturity in life..I do intuitively know that the way to go is full on Christ mode live in a cave chilling out on consciousness lol..but bro wants to burn through some karma apparently 😁
  21. I’m convinced more than ever that the maximization of love is the point of life. Call it a platitude or whatever but it’s the truth. Now the question is it even possible in practice to love and be loved from humans. Those who’ve attempted to love unconditionally get stepped on in the end.
  22. @Natasha Tori Maru if a girl says “we are not having sex” it usually means you are getting sex that night. While if she never talks about sex you are in trouble. This is widely known in pickup. I don’t subscribe to that ideology but there are a lot of truths and that is one of them. The best way to destroy a relationship with a girl is to do everything she says and be a puppy. Unfortunately most women are on this unconscious level and guys have to work with what is on the dating market. It is not our responsibility to be therapists for women and try to understand what they want. More and more guys are understanding that the dating dynamics are changing. I’m optimizing to not get one girl. Since nowadays a steady healthy relationship is less unlikely compared to 10-20 years. Men need to wake up and get theirs. I think in another 10 years a lot of women will get in an existential crises because most are approaching 40-50 and they will realize nobody is coming to save a hoe. We men are tired of that bullshit. I’m just there to get mine in the same way women are there to get theirs. I have so many nice guy friends who have it all and they aren’t getting t any attention while my egoistic friends are pumping and dumping left and right. This is what women choose. And I’m just adjusting to what the market wants.
  24. They literally have organizations dedicated to trying to get people criticizing Israel fired or deported
  25. @Oppositionless Interesting, I'll check it I'm very happy with Brain.fm I have to say
  26. If you lie down to sleep/nap you can have OBEs from them. I've had two that way. Raduga's method (The Phase) is way more effective though. I've had thousands that way.

  27. What Was Your Hardest Choice in Life?

    Natasha Tori Maru replied to Sincerity's topic in Personal Development -- [Main]

    Thank you for your topic - and expressing your choice. Those sorts of breakups are up there for me. The emotional turmoil is gut wrenching. Respect. x
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