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Got it. Feel free to explore my mind and situation further. We can also hop on a call if you want. I think we chatted once a few years ago!
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We are all different, eh? And yes, after 50k approaches, I acknowledge I am looking for something super rare. Hence the internal struggle. But they do exist. Imagine a young Teal Swan. Now, you won’t find them in clubs. That’s for sure
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No, you don't have to ask me questions. I was mostly just curious. I am working a project right now that is focused on teaching Tier 2 masculinity & relationships. So it's useful for me to see kind of problems guys are struggling with. And I think our perspectives slightly diverge here.
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Stick replied to Mellowmarsh's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
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I guess it just comes down to preferences. 😂 Personally I don’t need “depth” from a girlfriend .I want a certified bimbo lol. That’s way more my vibe. If you’re looking to date a hot public intellectual though you’ve gotta accept you’re hunting for a unicorn. Someone who’s exceptionally smart and exceptionally attractive? That’s a pretty rare combo.
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Leo’s ”the enemy of great is good” IG post: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DaPW1-POJxH/?igsh=ZGd5czgyZjlpbzlp This is what I ultimately need to accept in my situation. Socializing with normies and getting results with them is good, but it holds me back badly from what is actually Great.
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This is too black and white. There are plenty of intelligent women out there. And again, I don’t expect a hardcore philosopher and an intellect. I am not necessarily one myself. Also, my own brain is wired differently. I am wired for depth. Having a ”shallow” minded relationship is not very fulfilling for me. Plenty of spiritual female public figures out there, so it would make sense that offline there is even more. But it’s still a minority, and hard to find them, especially if you look for them in clubs lol.
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Fundamentally, there’s just emptiness infinitely gazing upon its own emptiness. And we call this God. Ultimately, we must conclude that emptiness is full of itself, and cannot exist in the same place at the same time, ultimately cancelling each other out. And we call this God.
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Everything in moderation sounds right, but when you have a real addiction it is the worst advice. To solve a real addiction that is causing real harm, you have to bite the bullet and quit entirely forever.
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Oh lemme check . Women are naturally not intellectually oriented to begin with . And a nerdy logical woman is a huge turn off anyways . Men are mostly logical and curious. That’s just how god designed this game . Why no women as presidents or military generals (I’m aware of the few exceptions)? Because that’s not a woman’s role ..it’s men’s role . A really appealing chick is mostly superficial. That’s the trade off. I’m not saying that’s bad or anything but you should already know this .
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Thank you for your contribution. We have only discussed this for 9 pages
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Do I sense that you want me to ask you further questions? Or am I reading you wrong? Yes, getting a girl to fall into my ”normie” frame is easy. What’s much harder is to get her to following me in spirituality, and anyway, that would be getting close to cult practices. The way cults works is kinda the same way: the leader and the environment is so strong in their ideals, that people (weak frame, normies, most people) get hypnotized into it, don’t question, and just follow blindly — because the frame of the leader is so strong and certain. Basically most of society to be honest. Just on more socially acceptable frames. And hence, this is what most of socialization also is.
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Well, first of all I need to stop wasting so much time on empty socializing, and put that time into real work. In practice, I should make some higher conscious content. And come up with a creative way to get good views for it. But more importantly, I need to use my dancing, as that would separate me from most conscious content out there. It’s such a not-known thing here in Finland that I might hit the news, if I actively go to the public to dance and to share love. I do want to mix higher conscious content in my dancing heavily tho, so I will probably be giving speeches on healing, love, empathy etc. Using dancing as a form of inspirating others, rather than as a performance. Also, using dancing to heal others in the form of dance therapy, and letting go. Here’s a few practical steps. I still have many many decades left in my life to leave a bigger impact. Hitting the news etc. would be nice to get my name out there, so I can find my tribe to connect with, and to help.
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I see. Yes, that's a challenge if you're looking for frame alignment on an overt, intellectual level.
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Wow. Just wow. Wanting to float by in life on some sort of perceived privilege? -1000 pts
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Mellowmarsh replied to Wilhelm44's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Ultimately, nothing is for sale. If Gurus choose to sell nothing to people who are willingly consenting to purchase the nothing for sale, then that’s just the transactional nature of the human psyche, where both the teacher and the student mutually benefit from one another. Eventually, it must dawn on everyone involved in the selling and buying of ‘nothing’ that the quid-pro-quo exchange is a completely harmless business, whereby, it’s easily recognised that no one is being forced against their will to buy into the greatest con humans have ever invented. Enlightenment dawns for everyone in the selling and buying of nothing business when mutual agreement is attained by ultimately reaching the conclusion that a con can never con a con. Ultimately, it’s just all part of the big cosmic dance where it takes two to tango. At the end of the day, money for nothing is serious business. All there is to do here after true enlightenment dawns, is die hard laughing. Because every one of us is born penniless and every one of us dies penniless. And no one was ever scammed. In fact everyone has already won the cosmic lottery by just being able to type these rather silly words on a computer screen. 🤓👍 -
You can’t socialize without bullshitting . Pick your lane .that’s the bottom line .
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I would love it to be natural. But which normie is going to fall into my metaphysical frame naturally, unless I hard manuever and seduce her into it? And even then it’s most likely not going to happen.
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The positive side to this is that it is also peak time to dancing in public and to spread love. During winter it is very hard to do so. Focusing my time doing this would be way more aligned.
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Joseph Maynor replied to Razard86's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
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I'm not following how you see frame. Why do you see women being in your frame as not natural?
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Yeah but that's not necessarily actually better. It depends on how good your setup is. Cold approach is nice because you can set the right frame immediately and just go for what you want. Direct / indirect approaches both have tradeoffs.
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What I have forgotten to mention in my situation is the following pain: Taking a real liking to a girl, her taking a real liking to me. Then having to break both of our hearts, due to incompatibility. But not only that, as an empathetic person, I not only get my own heart broken, but I feel the pain of her heartbreak. Do this a few times in a row, and knowing very well that no matter how many times I do this in a row, it won’t work out because I’m in the wrong environment — exhaustion is the end result. It is also exhausting to seduce her into liking me. But if I was fully authentic and genuine from the get go, we would not build anything to begin with. All this games is just exhausting.
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In Integral’s example, he is not surrounded by hot girls.
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You miss the point of the strategy. The idea is to have short interactions with everyone in the venue, making friends, generating attraction then bouncing. All this gives you massive social proof, and opportunity to reapproach later in the night.
