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  2. Yes! 💯
  3. Yeah, people underestimate how hard it is to swim and stay afloat when in a dangerous situation. It is a lot easier to drown than people realize. People swim in pools and then think they know how to swim but it’s not the case. Even most fit people are mediocre swimmers and if you go far out to exhaustion you ain’t coming back especially if you don’t float.
  4. > I strongly recommend you watch these two people when trying to process trauma. Sam Miller has four videos about stages of trauma healing called gates, split into four groups: Gates 1–3, 4–6, 7–9, and 10–12. > > The first two stages are about the body finally rebelling against trauma-stress avoidance and forcing you to rest, which also involves fear about not being able to function in life/the world at large. > > Stage 3 is about the mind trying to avoid descending into the body to feel sensations. This stage is about allowing intrusive thoughts and monkey mind to be there. Any attempt at arguing back at thoughts keeps you trapped in this mental torment. > > Gates 4–6 are about somatic healing and release. In all these stages you need to allow emotions to be there. If not, you will remain in these gates and could possibly move back to gate 3. > > Gates 7–9 is when a lot of trauma is being processed and your mind feels clear. > > Gates 9 and 11 get into archetypes, specifically gate 11 dealing with collective trauma. > > Gate 12 is the individual fully clear, as nature intended. > > This description might not be completely accurate, but it's a reasonable representation of what she is saying. Feel free to correct me. > > The reason I'm posting this is because I feel it's a good reason (map) for people not wanting to do psychedelics. Sam has said people try psychedelics to skip these stages. > > I have had intrusive thoughts for years, and after hearing this, it has given me a reason not to do psychedelics. I gave up drinking alcohol because of panic attacks. So if I can't handle a hangover, why would I do anything else? > > Helmut (Mindful Gardener) offers a simpler version of Sam's teachings. They are friends, BTW — all his videos boil down to: allow the suffering and move closer to it.

  5. How to apply a book on success

    Ramanujan replied to Ramanujan's topic in Personal Development -- [Main]

    @Rishabh R so sad i put all my effort into success and life purpose category . neglecting pickup , emotional healing , spirituality. i did little spirituality . i do oshos meditation need to focus on other areas now. i am getting diminishing returns these days
  6. Earth, or human built systems?
  7. @Someone here Yeah, me too. But I think Messi and Yamal will meet on the bronze match.

  8. Women are attracted to emotional guys

    Natasha Tori Maru replied to Someone here's topic in Dating, Sexuality, Relationships, Family

    No. Red pill is not truth. It takes elements of systems, reduces them down, and tries to form a neat little explanation. Some of the core tenants of red pill have truth in them. But like anything - the truth arrives with a whole bunch of horsehit in tow. And red pill lacks nuance and doesn't account for huge systems that can explain behaviour. The worst part about it, is if you operate from that paradigm, you end up with your own self fulfilling prophecy of endless recursive confirmation bias. At it's core red pill is just an extreme cognitive bias.
  9. No. Pickup is way closer to the truth than red pill. I mean its night and day. Red pill has some very good parts but also a lot of circle-jerk theorising to it. The major difference is pickup theory is derived from guys going out, trying stuff and seeing what worked. Then making theories based on those real-world experiences. Red pill is a lot more abstract theorising. And that lack of real world experience is bound to lead to more deluded theory.
  10. I think there's some truth in this video. If you remove the story about other entities and their intentions, you're left with the society we live in right now. Most of society is just human animals trying to survive unconsciously, generating a lot of negative emotions, bad karma, and false beliefs while living far away from the truth for an entire lifetime. I also notice that many people who have had NDEs aren't far from their existing beliefs, so it could be the same pattern repeating lifetime after lifetime. Thoughts?
  11. Jeremy fragrance is the german version of connor murphy, same maniac narcistic vibe: He was very successfull, then something happened and he aged fast in just a few month and became crazy since then.
  12. God has perfect self control. God is an all-knowing technology that created Nature. Nature makes mistakes, nature is incomplete, Nature grows and evolves. You see Nature is housed within Technology, and Technology is perfect. Think of a mind that can imagine infinite simulations and can produce whatever result it wants. What would such a Technological Mind do? It would create nature so it has something to go up against. So this is what happened. You are living in a Technological Mind, that has perfect memory recall, and can think infinite steps ahead. Humans were able to invent their own simulations because they were inspired by the muse of this current simulation we call life. The only reason we as humans are so addicted to technology is a result for our desire for control. God has perfect self control and we want that in our life so we invented technology so we can experience ourselves as God. We have invented Artificial Intelligence so we can tap into God's intelligence so we can get things done. Everything is just a desire for more control.
  13. Future generations problem 🤷‍♂️
  14. I dont fully agree with this. Approaching indirect can work as long either: a) you transition effectively into a more direct approach later on, or b) your subcommunications are clearly displaying a sensual sexy vibe The later has actually become a problem for me since even when im trying to make friends with girls they often feel like im flirting even though im not because my vibe is naturally sensual, fun and dominant. So i have to explicitly make it known that im not looking for anything. Going in indirect works better than full direct from the start cause it buys you some time to showcase some personality first before the girl is put in a position where she has to make a decision.

  15. Idiocy

    Mellowmarsh replied to Breakingthewall's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God

  16. Does THC increase or decrease consciousness?

    Clarence replied to ZeldaStar's topic in Psychedelics

    I just learned that they no longer offer the testing service for the time being because they didn't receive funding to continue the project. I feel a lot more at peace knowing that. Thanks for your feedback on this.
  17. I'd say no, assuming it's still early on and you're not misrepresenting yourself. If you're married and she's still not sure, that's a problem. Neither fuckboyness or bf-material-ness is the issue. The issue is when and how much.
  18. Today
  19. Promoting red pill dating ideology is obviously forbidden on this forum. However, do y'all agree that it is the closest dating ideology to the TRUTH and the realities of mating? If we just narrow it down a bit and focus on the content of the ideology, not the toxicity of it. The post above from @AION is the heart of the red pill, and I agree with the post. My question, basically, is: are we criticizing only the hate toward women in the red pill ideology on this forum? Because what I've discovered in the past 3–4 years on this forum is that all the members with thousands of approaches (including Leo) under their belts have a very close analysis of dating to the red pill and also to the black pill to extent, only without the toxic, misogynistic ideological part. So, out of all the dating ideologies out there, is the red pill the closest to the TRUTH?

  20. Opinions on ADHD medication

    Vynce replied to something_else's topic in Health, Fitness, Nutrition, Supplements

    I was really excited about them. Till I was not. My nervous system is just too sensitive for Adderall and such. I feel like my skin doesn't fit me anymore, anxiety increases, stress tolerance drops, less sense for humor, worse intuition ect. I become a totally different person, which I myself wouldn't like when I encountered them.
  21. Good stuff man. I agree
  22. Women Carry an Energy Men Naturally Seek because you have a dick
  23. Wouldn't God like to express itself freely ? To be creative, to connect with others etc. Sounds like you might benefit from reconnecting with the activities that you really enjoy. What are you passionate about, what fascinates you ? Ultimately we want to be of service in some way that we enjoy. Learning from others is not giving away ur power. It's just like contracting parts of yourself to help reveal more of what you are capable of.
  24. @Leo Gura The company I work for is generating about 6 million per year in revenue with about 15 staff members, we are within the top 10 competitors in our space. Arguably not world class per se but certainly well above a home project. We're in the top 1% of revenue for a UK company. Every single feature we have implemented in the past year was done with heavy AI assistance. Most of our developers (some with 15-20yrs experience and who are world class in the frameworks we use) haven't manually written a line of code in 6 months.
  25. That makes sense. I definitely still have a bunch of fuckboyness in me that oftentimes comes out. What do you think about this concept: If a girl is confused about whether you are a fuckboy or a bf material, it is a problem in itself. ——- And mom game, I love it I just love meeting these girls with their family, only good stuff comes out of it

  26. Does THC increase or decrease consciousness?

    Clarence replied to ZeldaStar's topic in Psychedelics

    Probably. I just learned that there's a place where you can get any substance tested for free in my country, but it's about three hours away and only open one evening a week (and even less than that in the summer). It's not practical at all for me to go, but now that I know this option exists, I feel like I should somehow try to make it happen. Before I knew about it, I wasn't as concerned since there wasn't anything more I could do.
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