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Second this!
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@Jirh getting hard isn't a reliable indicator of attraction. Bodies can respond in ways that don't match our desires, preferences and orientation.
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@Jirh This is not my experince at the moment. In my early 20s to mid 20s, yes that was my experince. I still have the skills and game to be attracting these young and physically attractive girls, but I find their mind to be so naive, it is hard for me to get excited about them — in some ways I even feel like I am taking advantage of their naive mind, and using them, if I game and seduce them. If I haven’t masturbated in a while and a hot girl appears in my room and I didn’t have to game and get to know her, then sure I guess we could have sex, especially if she is the more proactive one. But not sure how fulfilling that sex would be for me. But in any normal situations, I’ve become more like a girl with sex, as I need proper build-up, some sort of a connection. And that’s the problem, a proper connection with young girls is seemingly impossible. I need to admire her psychologically and be mentally engaged when hanging out with her, to a certain degree. It arouses me when my mind feels aligned and safe with a girl, and this happens only if I see a level of alignment, integrity, and maturity in a girl — if the girl is immature, it turns me off, as it almost feels like I am spending time with a child. I need to feel like this is a great girl, and I would like to build something more meaningful with her, other than just 1 night stand. Lately I’ve pulled some girls home, just to decide that I want to only cuddle her and sleep, because I realized that her mind doesn’t get me on. I don’t see any future with her, and so I don’t want to use her. Rather, I just want to give her some love in the form of warmth and cuddling. Imagine that your highest values are the exact opposite of what a girl represents. It’s hard to get excited about her then. This is my situation. 5 years ago I didn’t care about truth, integrity, empathy, maturity, consciousness Nearly as much as I do now, and so, seduction and game was fun and very doable — altho it also got boring really fast then too.
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Does Spain just not have any military or anything to keep people from crossing into it?
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https://www.actualized.org/insights/the-importance-of-recognition This is a great pointer, Thankyou.
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I’m in ChongQing now. Going to Chengdu in 4 days.
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@Miguel1 So you were strawmanning yourself unknowingly? lol A nice pair of boobs will give you an erection, no matter how much you resist it. It's not in your control. It's an unconscious reflex. (provided that you are actually present and looking, or you imagine them effectively lol) However, the choice to act on it is yours. Whether you want a committed relationship, a casual encounter, or no encounter at all is your decision. Contrast a nice pair of boobs of a crazy girl with a mature woman with proper clothes that don't reveal any cleavage. The crazy girl will get your erection, while the mature one won't. Interest is not instinct. And sexual attraction is based on unconscious instinct, not conscious interest. No man jerks off to maturity. Even the most mature and conscious and spiritual men of all time will not get erected to a granny (unless that's somehow their visual preference).
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Natasha Tori Maru replied to enchanted's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Holyfuckballs! A rhetorical put down instead of genuine question?! How will this go over, I wonder? Let's come in and attack the value of the person posting! That'll be a GREAT quality contribution!!! -
Pfff hahaahaha just stop
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@Emerald thank you. I am with you, the issue is I struggle to find psychologically mature women who are also relatively young and physically looks good, as I am also fairly young yet. I find a lot of physically good looking but immature or crazy girls, and as you said, my discerment stops me from being attracted to them. @Jirh You didn’t properly read what she wrote. Me maturing definitely has changed in how my attraction develops and who and what attracts me. Integrity and alignment in girls becomes more and more important for me, as my own integrity and alignment develops. The more full of shit, drama and unconsciousness someone is, the more they stop me from being attracted to them, and even repulse me — no matter how great pair of a boobs they have. If a girl is a psycho, why in the hell would I get involved with her? This is ridiculous.
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The Divine Will is all that exists. Your will is not different from it.
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More like Hollywood PR spin-doctors.
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I just love the entire study of it. I am enamoured with the complexity, the profundity, and the counter-intuitive nature of human connection. I was discussing with a friend today about how it appears that the most intelligent thing you can do to court women is by developing an intuition on what to do, rather than following an mechanical unconscious formula. How to develop this intuition can only come from a boat load of experience of being successful with women. Developing the holistic intelligence of intuition. I appreciate the pointer to look at this whole process from an even deeper view of the intelligence of love.
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enchanted replied to enchanted's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Nope, there is always more nuance, depth, breadth, things to learn, and ways to teach them and articulate them. Thinking you have that all down pat is arrogance. I enjoy watching other people grasping ideas as each person teaches me something new about what its like to experience the universe, even if the material is old to me. I'm a teacher and I teach the same thing over and over again but never get tired of my students. Think of a scientist who studies one species for a few years. The layman might say isn't it boring to look at the same thing every day? -
kavaris replied to Breakingthewall's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Ill preface w/ this idea, 'doesnt it invalidate our understanding of self (the Self as the one who knows what is), upon promoting lack/illusion to the highest position? Yay?... Nay?... Paradox is the next obvious perspective after that... And if in fact "paradox", then what? Yous may have had a diff road, but im jumping ahead. p.s. you can still have god(s) as a functional element i think, cause its "a god"~that is an extension of self~, the God is like a claim about the infinite self, infinite possible perspectives on gods, or something like that... im adding that in as i read someones talking around god, gods or God. -
Natasha Tori Maru replied to Leo Gura's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
100% arming up with lawyers -
My exes, all 10s, but me, ♾️ babyy
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Addiction is not love. Most people are addicted to fun, excitement, and dopamine hits; basically, anything novel that doesn't require much above a short attention span. Especially nowadays. Most people are predictable dopamine junkies. But that has nothing to do with love.
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What found you was meant.
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Carl Sagan is a fool. Understands nothing.
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Jared Leto is shitting his pants right now.
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Natasha Tori Maru replied to Leo Gura's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
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Yimpa replied to Razard86's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
selfless is Self
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