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  3. We all are playing pieces of music that we feel best fits into the puzzle building, this affectation space or this correct texture or color match that seems to best work. Everyone has a degree of autism, if only to know what best suites your individual self, and sometimes, knowing requires a reset. Sometimes it requires sped.. Regardless of whether or not its pleasurable, seeing as, in this sense, it may be for 'lesser than pleasurable intentions (we can convince ourselves itll be worthy), it may be brown notes or discordant sounds and such surrounding, however, pleasure on the macro scale is part of the hierarchy that tends to keep everything sane and alive, as its almost synonymous w/ sanity, and its part of the way of understanding how the mind works, in this constant balance, meaning, the uptake and downtake, to register said pleasure. If that pleasure system gets staggered, its gonna be quite unpleasant for everyone, very much in the realm of nonstop hallucination city, as states of mind are numerous, and thats only one way to play on that particular chord progression. Many different directions can access many different songs and sensations, and something psychedelic is one such sensation that gives credence to this thing where its like, the crossover of physical senses, and accelerated thoughts, i mean, its one perspective, one sensation, though, that is not to accidentally point us in all directions, for we dont want to go crazy. The possibility for all that stuff is out there. Avoid accidental alzheimers, but still be on the look out for how to expand your mind, in a way that isnt the same thing everytime. You dont wanna end up like my gf, of course.
  4. I did not say that. I have to go to sleep now but I’ll get back more in-depth tomorrow.

  5. Growth or comfort. Choose one?

    YIDIRYIDIR replied to enchanted's topic in Personal Development -- [Main]

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  6. No! They are all red Zi0nists 😈🌶 (;
  7. Professor Dave also just uploaded this hilarious video.
  8. Hello beautiful people of the actualized.org forum. I hope everyone is having a great day. This is a great piece of advice by Mark Manson in a yt short. Comfort and growth and contradictory most of the time. Just sharing in case it can help someone, like it did me. Cheers
  9. The process is simple. Take a shit load of lsd😂. And understand what’s happening instead of just being fucked
  10. Holding frame! Yes you are right. Thanks for the clarification!
  11. You could cosplay as a cool person right?
  12. Thanks @Natasha Tori Maruand the irony that is lost on @Willy Phallicus is that he literally is the bullshit clown he claims to be so frustrated with!
  13. Here is a question I have with this. If I can imagine something, does that mean it exists? How does this process work?
  14. What if you are also clown? You are just a person on the Internet too right? I'm just asking questions. How do you know I don't? I'm allowed to share whatever I want on a forum that discusses these topics. Perhaps you are projecting. Imagine I shared a banana bread recipe and then you asked when are you going to start eating protein? How do you know I don't eat protein. I think I found the bullshit clown and they go by the name of @Willy Phallicus Anyway, we shouldn't be giving you a hard time. Unlike everyone else, at least you engaged with the material. Thanks!
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  16. He couldn’t do that because ‘your’ state wouldn’t allow for that. I actually know what he means. And I understand his difficulty in getting across what he’s actually trying to portray. If he’s in a state where that is possible, know that only through his eyes is that going on. Not through yours
  17. This is the level that Hasbara has resorted to.
  18. No worries, it's your life. Can you elaborate on your life circumstances and what you do for work and what kind of women you're approaching and looking to go on dates with and where you're approaching them? Have you found some success overall from doing this previously like getting a girlfriend, hookups or dates from it or is it your first time giving cold approach a real go? I'm having trouble getting a clear picture of the situation, the more you flesh it out the more helpful getting feedback from the forum will be. The reason I pitch social circle so much is because I've been in pickup community since I was 19 so for 12 years now. I've seen hundreds of guys go through it and in my experience this is what happens to guys: 60% no results at all for various issues, usually due to giving up too early, lack of consistency or lack of improving by using a feedback cycle. 30% mediocre results like 10 dates over 5 years and maybe get laid with 2-3 different women in that time. Some people in this camp end up getting a girlfriend that seems from the outside like they settled and got tired of the pain of dating or accidentally got a girl pregnant and stuck with it. 10% Actually get in abundance in dating and date multiple girls from it and/or all the casual sex they were looking to get from this journey and 30-100+ body count as a result. The guys in that boat seem to have be able to get cool girlfriends they like pretty reliably. Less than 1% actually use it to change their whole life outside of dating and actually build successful networks and brand and end up with it as part of their life purpose and it funds their lifestyle You don't need to necessarily dedicate your whole career to a game adjacent business and build a big social circle game out of it, its a good way to not end up in the 90% that basically lose their time though. I'm not pulling these numbers out of my ass, these are real men I've met and real stories. One of the coolest game trips I've had in my life we roadtripped from Calgary to Edmonton and stopped at the biggest mall in Canada west Edmonton mall to talk to girls and do game challenges and went to this new club as well. The guy that drove ended up getting this random girl pregnant a year after that and from his social media doesn't look like he's doing much in life. The other guy that came with got a hard drug addiction and ended up in like an 8 year messy relationship, continuously breaking up and getting back together and doing drugs with her. He met her like 1 year after we did that trip after picking up multiple other girls beforehand. Another guy I knew like 8 years ago before I went to Toronto was an overweight brown guy that was pretty charming in a funny way and we used to go to the college campus at like 23 years old and he was really good at cold approach and he would get into the sets with the hottest blonde girls ever for like 40 mins while I stood there awkwardly. I was really impressed by his game. He had this strange thing that he brought up where he kept talking about his porn addiction and how how was was on nofap but he just needed a bit of time to get over it. He said the same thing about getting in shape. He never actually pulled any of those hot girls and he fucked a lot of escorts. I came back to that city recently and he was working the same job he was working back then at Fedex and was still trying to figure out his nofap situation and had never gotten a girlfriend in that time and he's still overweight. I tried to invite him to shoot content with me or come to the events I was hosting with hot models now that I figured out social circle a bit but he seemed to ashamed to come and I only saw him 1-2 in my time back in that city. To contrast, one other guy I know paid my club promoter roommate for game coaching since he was getting laid left and right and that guy didn't have a social life and just ran an HVAC company. That guy pulled one of the girls I was going after(just briefly it was not a dishonourable thing just seizing an opportunity) and actually put a lot of time effort in his game and also developed a social circle out of it. We ended up partnering up on a business for a few months and although that didn't work out he started a popular fashion show and events brand in Toronto that is still operational today that he runs with his model girlfriend. I got inspired by his success and he was part of the reason I threw my own fashion show last year in Calgary. https://www.instagram.com/stories/highlights/18060769145048516/ In Toronto all the hot girls were like socialites that got invited to events hosted by clubs, promoters, boat owners, restaurant owners or concerts and events like the Toronto Film Festival. It's hard to break into that scene and if to play you have to pay to play and spend a lot of money which I don't have or date random girls in the suburds. I was lucky to a couple of club promoter roommates and I was educated in the value arbitrage and socialite scenes so I got a textbook multi year education in how it works. It's really the funnest way to live life, it sounds pretty complicated but it just starts with hosting your first event and building your leverage from there. The guys that don't seem to have really benefited from their game journey never built systems around it. Just did purist cold approach on the street and never partnered up with other operators to increase their results and build something long lasting. This is in 2014 from the first RSD Inner Circle meetup I went to and the first night I went to a club. I'm the guy on the left of the two guys with glasses. Later that year RSD had their scandal and they stopped running the groups themselves but a lot of them survived and in most cities there was groups of 50-300 guys regularly day gaming and night gaming with each other. That was so fun and the golden age of pickup for me but I'll just say that if you told those guys the results they would've had 12 years later on that day they probably would be quite disappointed and quit. That guy in the pink is the exception and he seems to have built a cool for himself and became one of the 10% that got many results and changed his social and dating life. I'm not where I wanna be yet but if you told me then the results I would've had since then I would've been pretty mind blown and not believe you. I'm shooting for that 1% life changing results and not quite yet there but everyday closer.
  19. I think Leo has fallen into dating complacency and is using cope like "there are no spiritual women out there!" to avoid the hard emotional labor of finding someone compatible with his lifestyle and having to build back the social muscle to attract hot women that are also mentally healthy and compatible with an individual with an entrepreneurial mindset. I think reducing wanting to date a man that's financially secure and abundant to stage orange desire is a bit of a cop out. Dating is supposed to be about enriching eachother's lives and raising kids if you want to go down that path. Even just living a basic life without worrying too much about the rising costs of groceries and rent requires a pretty high income these days and age. If you want to add to that occasional vacations to see and explore the world and being able to take time off to explore life purposes without being stressed by work, you definitely need to make a lot of income in a quite flexible way and have decent savings. To me the way I think about is what kind of dating life can I have vs me the exact same but I actually spent a year to figure out my business and now have $10k+/month in disposable income. The difference is one version of me has to budget immensely and mostly does coffee/cheap drinks dates or walks in the park and have to juggle now having emotional partners and also still figuring out my business. The other version can now afford to spend thousands on his dating life a month and I already pull decently so I can jump to a rotation of 3-5 girls if I wanted to and also travel the world with them while working on my life purpose and helping them explore theirs. The difference is so drastic to me that I have been in a monk mode for a couple of years now to figure out my business and it's working slowly but surely. To me that's also the difference between looking for acceptance vs actualizing your potential across different niches as a man. If I was my actualized self I would have more women then I'd know what to do with, I have built my life with wide access in mind so now only disposable income is the real bottleneck. It seems reductionistic but I would say 60% of men are in the same boat and 35% of men have already good disposable income but struggle with more technical game and dating strategy and 5% have truly unique issues if not even less then that. I'm more an introvert than you are and I still do a lot of socializing through my communities, it's not like I decided to be a hermit but I found a lot of strength and clarity in this path and the women I've been able to cultivate in my acquaintance circle and in my owned communities has jumped through the roof in these past few years. I don't know what you do for work and what your income is but I think focusing on that will yield more clarity and effectiveness over demanding acceptance and vulnerability from women when you are in the building phase.
  20. A drug is something you use when you're ill in order to heal. Framing it as recreational just shows how delusional the idea is. It's like stabbing yourself with a scalpel for recreational purposes. The scalpel is not a toy, it has valid uses, just not in the way you're intending. Don't do it.
  21. @Natasha Tori Maru thank you lol. I am here… and I… am easing into it. I don’t know what will happen. But, imagining my death has helped me relax more in my life. I suspect what is happening is serious. Big league. Climate change is really the number one issue.

  22. Music - Live Performances

    Joseph Maynor replied to CARDOZZO's topic in Off-Topic: Pop-Culture, Entertainment, Fun

  23. Sound like you didn't awaken. You are still scared of dying and on the verge of awakening. There lot of fear that come up during awakening as you are releasing it.
  24. That's the problem with 5 meo. If the reality would have a center then it would be limited and with a concrete form. That's impossible. The real thing is the openess to the absolute unlimited, the total dissolution of the self. Imo that's almost impossible, or totally impossible with 5 meo or any psychedelic.
  25. It does depend, but you don’t know yourself. You might say “oh it’s okay this is not a bad one” then it completely ruined your life. Keep in mind that if you want to do drugs often this is because a negative belief system is trying to maintain itself. Really be open to the fact that you might be deceiving yourself into taking drug. Do you really think you are being 100% truthful in this?
  26. Looking for someone else to make music with/collaborate. I realise I just can't do my Life Purpose by myself - I produce, play guitar and some other instruments and also sing but it just feels like way too much to do and I really love making stuff with other people (my second top value is connection) - Anyone else also have music as their life purpose (ideally singers) and want to collaborate? I mainly listen to Indie, Hip Hop, R&B, Jazz, Bossa Nova, some heavier rock like Grunge too - lemme know
  27. Pick up is fucking hard to get good at if you are not a natural at it. Try focusing on one thing to improve at, at a time, before moving to the next. For you, focus on becoming good at opening sets. It’s the most awkward phase of the interaction. Once you get good at that, the rest will be easy. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself, as that will make you rigid and nervous.
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