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Sure yes apologies I didn't get a notification for your question on that thread. I don't think the idea is to be guarded as you enter a relationship. More about making self-development part of your identity so that you naturally self-improve. Some people tend to only use self-improvement to secure a baseline of safety and then let themselves go once they get into a relationship. I think that's why the idea of life purpose is so powerful. If you are in a lane of society that you hate then yeah it makes to see clocking in or working out or building a social network as a draining obligation and once you find someone that accepts you for who you are type of idea then you've arrived there's no need to try anymore. If you genuinely fall in love with what you're doing in life I think you can keep reaching greater and greater heights and in the case of a relationship it'll either make it more fulfilling as you both embark on a shared life purpose together as a mission that underpins your marriage as not just a childrearing arrangement; it'll also make it that if you do end up in a breakup or divorce you're a better option than you've ever been.
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@Ulax HAHAHAHAHA
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A good way to provoke a shit test is to be really arrogant. So, I would go on girl's tiktok lives and comment really arrogant things like "What are you doing on my app?" in their comments, and then they'd give me a shit test like "Who do you think you are?", and I would try and pass it. Added bonus is there are like 10 amogs at a time . So, they all attack you when you act arrogant too, so you can practice doing shit-test passing comebacks for them too.
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Human Mint replied to enchanted's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
"Ontologically, evil IS low Consciousness." That definition is crucial. It explains evil and how to remedy it. Also very paradoxically, lashing out on evil is a form of low Consciousness, hence a form of evil. Also good definition because the word evil is misused everywhere and not understood properly. -
@aurum the hardest test I heard was from my wingmen he approached a girl and she said she was into cosplay or some bullshit, so he said something like oh those outfits look cool or something, then she was like "it sounds like you are a pedophile to find these younger outfits cute" I don't remember it exactly, but something allong those lines but that was a wild one
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@Lyubov I would be careful with throwing out the baby with the bathwater in terms of invalidating the validity of hierarchies. They serve many purposes in our society beyond soothing low self-esteem or chasing approval. Our doctors for example face a rigid hierarchy to get into college and to get into med school. Our engineers similarly need to be above the crowd in their skillset so our infrastructure is high quality. A lot of people do not enjoy striving for excellence but the ones that do generally tend to bless the rest of us with the fruits of their labor.
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@LordFall Any response to this? https://www.actualized.org/forum/topic/115917-you-are-fcked-without-social-skills/?do=findComment&comment=1815062
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@Ulax tiktok live? How?
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There will be moments that functionally act like a test. Sometimes they might be conscious / intentional, sometimes not. Either way, you should see it all as contributing to the interaction and the process of you two forming something together. And obviously not all playful banter should be interpreted as some kind of devious test. Becoming too combative or paranoid is very bad. Just have fun with it.
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@Ash55 I am also 26
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Totally. Dominant women are fun to a point. But you need to be able to take back control. If they rule the relationship I can tell you it will be a rough road.
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By ended up do you mean he was gifted with a transgender daughter? Dude I have no idea what the hell you are talking about in your last sentence. The best way to make people feel like you're making sense is making it easy for them to understand. A study mentioned in Russel Brunsons book expert secrets talks about how during a presidential campagin when Ted Cruz and another contender they both spoke at about 9th grade english and they had less people receptive to them. It's kinda like if you attempt to sound smart you don't really get the people on your side. The same study noticed when Donald spoke at a 3rd grader level he had more support. It's like because the audience didn't have to use loads of thinking they were getting his message and liked it. So like could you explain what you are talking about because it kinda doesn't make sense. And idk why you mentioned lack of phallus. Elon is not my friend so idk who he has disowned and I don't care about him because I want my own apartment and car so yeah.
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How are you meeting people?
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Attraction is so weird though! What I am attracted to has changed. People SAY they are attracted and want one thing, but then fall for something totally different. Same sorta shit with buying and purchases. I think a lot of attraction comes down to familiarity with our first attachment patterns and learned love signalling when children. Even when it is unhealthy - we are drawn to it as it is sometimes the only pattern we know that represents love.
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*hot dumb brutes
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Yes I like smart and somewhat dominant women too. For me they also need to know when to give up control and be submissive. Then it becomes a fun dance of polarity. Some women are very uncalibrated and it turns me off pretty instantly. I like women that can banter and speak well, I'm definitely a sapiosexual.
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😀 They're really really smart at testing us. We need pen and paper. They don't, they naturally can it on the fly while we're just dumb brutes It's an ability most of us straight guys don't possess.
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Of course. I meant he can be the most mature guy on planet earth but if he doesn't seem attractive to you it's all for naught. But yeah. I know what you meant.
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Carl-Richard replied to Basman's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
You support the death penalty, no? As far as we have observed so far in the world, innocent people (as defined by a legal decision) die due to the death penalty. I think the state killing innocent people is unfair. Locking up people who we have good reason to believe killed innocent people is a very tough punishment already. Taking away somebody's autonomy is very serious, people kill themselves over it (depression and perceived lack of autonomy are virtually identical). Killing the people who killed the innocent people, granted that it will lead to the death of more innocent people, might be taking it too far as it perpetuates the very problem that you're trying to bring "justice" to. And then, where is the justice for the people who got innocently killed by state? Which person in the state should be killed as an act of justice for those people? -
You're right. They sit down with a pen and paper and pre-plan every interaction
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@Ramanujan So he did not keep his word I see. I than could not trust this man either. Assuming he made those claims with full conviction and didn't pull through without good reason of course.
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Of course - but having a functional cock isn't the be all end all. People run into health issues. We age. Etc The relationship can't totally hinge on a solid member. Having said that, sex is so much more than penis in vagina 😁
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These women know precisely what they are doing. It isn't subconscious at all.
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okay
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Yeah well telling the difference is the hard part. What you really want to look for is Sassy and Imtelligent. One that will take control. That's excitement.
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