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@Raze Actualized.org is all about deconstructing reality, including virginity being a mental and social construct. Do you think for a dog virginity exists lmao, stupid way of thinking about reality. You need to see deeper.
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So, those men are weak because they were attracted to me? I think they're just heterosexual men and that that's what heterosexual men are wired up biologically to do. I'm an average woman... and the average woman is attractive in the eyes of the average man. But no one is saying what you have to do. You don't have to sleep with average women. If you want to go out and only have sex with 10s, then make merry about it. But weren't you the one saying that you were struggling to have any women attracted to you? Seems like you're so attached to that idea that you're not open to connecting with women who would like you.
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@Raze Thanks. I remember Leo's 3 part series in which he tells that if you ask a woman what she likes she will give the list of things which she is attracted to while in practice she would act otherwise. But it's not worth demonising women as there is assymetry between male and female attraction.
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Hey there:) In the past two months, I have done extensive research into my topic - probably more than enough, and I could technically start writing now. I have already taken a good 200, maybe 300 pages worth of notes, and the end goal should be 40-50 pages....a coherently formulated 40-50 pages though, which is the main problem right now. There's just so much and I don't know how to organise my ideas or structure them. I've tried to come up with themed chapters and stuff like that, but overall it's still so much and I don't know if I can fit all the things I want to or should say into that structure. Technically, there is no right or wrong and there are literally infinite "right" ways to complete this task....but at the same time, I doubt whether the chapter headings I have selected can properly fit all the things I need to say, and if I say things in the right order.....and there are endless ways to do this, endless ways to arrange specific quotes in different orders...I can spend hours dragging bits of text up or down, but it's not like that would get me anywhere. For some reason, I find it really difficult to write in a structured way about a subject matter that could be analysed from a billion different angles, and there's also a hermeneutics so it does matter what I say first and what next, but in my head it's all a mess and this is so overwhelming.... and the problem is I understand what I want to say, I understand what the academic sources say on the topic (for the most part), but I just can't narrow things down enough to write a coherent essay that explains things in a linear order, because my understanding of the topic is so broad at this point that I see it from so many different angles. If I just write in a new document from scratch, that usually just gives me an extra twenty pages worth of notes that I will then have to copy and integrate into my long document, where I am repeating a lot of things unnecessarily. I have no idea how to solve this or how to make actual progress with the writing process. Another related aspect I am struggling with is the communication with my supervising professor. She is generally kind and open to any questions I have, but I feel like I am being annoying. I am also not sure how open I can be with her about the genuine psychological struggles that writing my thesis entails for me....you might say that writing a thesis is scary for everyone, but I think for me it's probably top-notch and enmeshed with an anxiety disorder and so on. I am not sure how to explain my insecurity surrounding the writing process to her without making her think I want special treatment or I am exaggerating....maybe I don't even have to explain this, but considering that I am weirdly insecure and making this a lot more complicated for myself than it needs to be, I feel like maybe it could help to talk to her about this. I would really appreciate your advice.
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@Emerald
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Nope. Try again? đ”âđ«
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Bullshit. You are either a virgin or you arenât. Drop the games before I report you. I am sick of the larpers on here.
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Either you are trolling, either you have a very ridiculous and in bad faith way to cope with the real.
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@Leo Gura have you read his book ? How do you know about his past?
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In a girlfriend, not a female rapist. I didn't say want.
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@Raze When i made the post about being a virgin i was in a terrible depressed mood, and so i interpreted my situation based off this mood. Now i am in a better mood, i interpret my situation as very fortunate seduction wise.
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Donât do what women say women should want to attract women. It isnât what women normally go for, which is why it needs to be stated as advice.
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As a man, I'm trying to really understand your points about the Masculine Lover and Feminine Beloved. It seems like this "inauthentic" dynamic (inauthentic because often the woman needs to dominate her authentic feelings, not because it's problematic) needs to be present out of necessity, because only a man that naturally falls under the Lover role initially will create healthy ground for a relationship. So it's a matter of sorting, once again. It also seems like even if he falls naturally under the Lover role, the woman must still watch out and behave as the Beloved, because otherwise she may push him into the Beloved, even though he wasn't naturally there. Is this all correct? I have two questions: How do you suggest the woman who's really into the man should behave in later phases of dating? How long should she maintain this dynamic going, even though emotionally she wants to invest a lot into the relationship? Does it depend on some factors? Is there a risk to take the advice of the Beloved too extremely, and resulting "too cold", ending up losing what would've been a good man? Where do you think that "too much" level is?
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No they wouldnât. Most men want some level of attraction.
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This is what makes me suffer and feel like I can't get someone as a man. Even though females get showered from attention right and left for them to find a meaningful connection they must sort out the attention which they don't like.
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This is pure fantasy. You can't kid me on this. I've lived almost 36 years as an average female human being. So, I know a bit about what men's standards are. And I have had SOOO many guys try to get me in bed. It happens all the time to women. I've also known plenty of women who are less attractive than I am that never had an issue attracting a good partner... let along getting laid down on a bed by some guy.
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I was giving you the benefit of the doubt, but now itâs obvious you are trolling. Less than a month ago you posted about being a virgin giving up on pickup. I also see you started bringing up the rape topic there which you have done elsewhere now clearly to bait arguments.
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You want basically become a woman lol. I half kidding.
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@Emerald Well i guess since you think of yourself as average and you had hundreds of men being interested in you, that says that those men are weak, since they go for a woman that is average, hence making them overall unattractive. Look you ain't gonna give women the superiority in terms of dating, most women i am not attracted to, nor do i want to have sex with. I only want the hottest girls, and i think men who are experienced in pick up, think the same. It's only men who haven't attracted lots of hot girls that will go for an average woman.
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@Emerald I would add Find an environment where men who share similar values to you are likely to be. Itâs unlikely the guy youâre looking for is at a bar or in a club, so thatâs probably not the target location. Maybe go to a book club maybe go to yoga maybe go to meditation retreat⊠Also, if youâre using online dating apps filter out men based on values and not just appearance, look for words like (spiritual) in their profile so that thereâs some compatibility. Of course this still doesnât work very well and youâre gonna get plenty of immature men. But most women donât understand spiral dynamics or integrity or self development, and really donât understand how to filter.
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You're welcome! That's interesting because I also say something similar to that... that women die more often than men (for this very reason). So, we're better at dying than them.
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Most men would have sex with women they're not really attracted to or like, at all.
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Here are the main aspects of what is described as truth in the sources in his sources: Truth is inherently present and can be recognized: Truth is not something to be acquired but is a state or condition that reveals itself when circumstances are right. It is something that consciousness is inherently capable of recognizing. Truth is one with the Absolute and the Divine: Divinity, God, Allness, Oneness, and the Absolute are considered to be All That Is; there can be no opposite of God. Only the true is real; nothing else exists. This suggests that ultimate truth encompasses the essence of all being. Truth is to be found within: The search for spiritual truth begins with who and what you are. All truth is to be found within. This emphasizes the subjective and internal nature of discovering truth. Truth can be verified: The sources introduce muscle testing as a method to discern truth from falsehood. This test is described as responding only to truth, regardless of time, space, distance, or personal opinion. Consciousness exclusively recognizes truth: Consciousness is capable of recognizing only Truth. It simply does not respond to untruth. A lack of response in muscle testing indicates falsehood. Truth is the foundation of health and life: Energy fields that support truth, support and nourish life, while those in a negative direction do not support life and can be called 'anti-life'. The desire to know and adhere to God's Truth is the only way out of darkness. Truth transcends duality: In the nonduality of consciousness, even sequence disappears. Enlightenment signifies that one has transcended duality and identification with the small, personal self. Truth is an experiential reality, not just an intellectual construct: Behind descriptions lies the subjective, experiential reality. Language and concepts are limited and not the same as reality. In essence, truth in this context is the fundamental energy and essence of the universe, inherently present, internally experienced, and verifiable through the direct resonating capacity of consciousness. It is not a set of intellectual dogmas but a direct alignment with what 'is' in its most fundamental form, free from the illusions and limitations of the ego and the dualistic mind. It is the source of power, wholeness, and the foundation of all existence.
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So according to you 90% of women will die virgins?
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Appreciate the extra comments, everyone ! Keep the ideas coming
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